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Jessica
I'm a mommy :)
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~Jess~
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I was VERY insulted one day last week...
so they were taking a lunch order and "Bob" asked if i wanted Chinese.
I said no and he said
"Thats for the best. I see you're losing weight but if you just lose 20 more pounds you could be really pretty"
Now was that an insult or what?
He called me fat and ugly...I know ive gained 5 pounds since i took a little break from my ongoing diet but come on....
I just sat there like an a z z....
theni went to the bathroom and cried
Please no pity posts, im just asking for an opinion=
WHAT SHOULD I SAY, IF ANYTHING, IF I SEE HIM TOMORROW?
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HoneyBadger
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
 
Ouch.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:09 PM |
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Kara
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Ask Bob if he wants some carrots. If he says no, say "Are you sure? They're supposedly really helpful in improving manners and brain function, and I can see you've been lacking in both lately. If you gain ly 10 more IQ points, you could be intellectually average!"
What an azzhole.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:14 PM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
Member since 2/06 24849 total posts
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Beth
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
I don't even know what to say- that is so rude!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:14 PM |
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TreAnt427
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Member since 8/06 8652 total posts
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Tracy
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Some people are just SO rude!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:15 PM |
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JennCo
My greatest joy is my baby boy
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Posted by Kara
Ask Bob if he wants some carrots. If he says no, say "Are you sure? They're supposedly really helpful in improving manners and brain function, and I can see you've been lacking in both lately. If you gain ly 10 more IQ points, you could be intellectually average!"
What an azzhole.
What an azz this guy is!
I'm sorry you had to deal with a jerk like that!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:16 PM |
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alnem
This is gonna be a good year!
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
see, if that were me i would just call him an azz straight to his face. then i would mock him on his people skills and etiquette.
what a dipwad! 
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:16 PM |
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Kate07
Feel better my little guy!
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Kate
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:16 PM |
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Wendy1220
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Member since 3/06 2004 total posts
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wendy
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Screw him, jack azz. You're gorgeous. I wouldn't say anything. Although I would be tempted to remind him that pounds can be shed, STUPID remains forever.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:16 PM |
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Blu-ize
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Posted by Kara
Ask Bob if he wants some carrots. If he says no, say "Are you sure? They're supposedly really helpful in improving manners and brain function, and I can see you've been lacking in both lately. If you gain ly 10 more IQ points, you could be intellectually average!"
What an azzhole.
Yes!! This is good..
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:17 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
Member since 5/05 14266 total posts
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Jes
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
oh my god!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! insult him right back. but do it in a classy way!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:18 PM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
I think a nice resounding
F*ck you" azzhole is in perfect order there.
or maybe
"if you had a slightly larger d1ck, you'd actually be a man"
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:18 PM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Posted by Wendy1220
Screw him, jack azz. You're gorgeous. I wouldn't say anything. Although I would be tempted to remind him that pounds can be shed, STUPID remains forever.
let's face it: MEN CAN BE STUPID.
honestly, i think he was not trying to be the rude jerk he ended up being.
he recognized your efforts to shed pounds, he noticed that you've shed pounds. he even tried to encourage you to continue... but let's face it... he has no manners or people skills and he stuck his foot in his mouth.
i'm sorry he made you cry.
i hope someone teaches him some manners
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:21 PM |
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cazhley
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Cassie
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
You could say something like, "Your comment to me about my physical appearance made me uncomfortable and it is affecting our work and this workplace. I request that this stop. I am putting this in writing because it is a Human Resource matter."
(I'm not a HR person, so I'm not quite sure.)
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:23 PM |
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rojerono
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
I would say nothing.
It just would seem like you were thinking about it for all this time.
He's a jerk. If he opens the door again - THEN say something to him. But honestly.. if it isn't done right away it loses it's effectiveness.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:26 PM |
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mommy2Alex
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
 What an A Z Z!!!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:27 PM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Posted by rojerono
I would say nothing.
It just would seem like you were thinking about it for all this time.
He's a jerk. If he opens the door again - THEN say something to him. But honestly.. if it isn't done right away it loses it's effectiveness.
true...my response is an "in the moment" type.
I'd wait to see if he eats his foot again...or I'd make a snotty comment the next time I saw him eating a donut 
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:29 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
I would ignore his @ss. Don't let him know that he bothered you.
You are beautiful...Bob is an @sshole.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:29 PM |
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jxnoscar
Baby Delicious!
Member since 8/06 4156 total posts
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Say nothing. I would have kicked him in the face and publicly humiliated him. But that window has passed. Now he wouldn't exist to me.
Sorry people are MORONS
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:30 PM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Some people just have no couth.
Don't waste your time on him. With a remark like that, he's hopeless.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:35 PM |
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Mrs-Boop
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Don't waste your breath on him, he's not worth it. I would just ignore him, maybe one day he'll figure out why you don't talk to him anymore!!!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:38 PM |
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munchkinbugs
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
That guy is an azzhole!!! 
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Posted by Kara
Ask Bob if he wants some carrots. If he says no, say "Are you sure? They're supposedly really helpful in improving manners and brain function, and I can see you've been lacking in both lately. If you gain ly 10 more IQ points, you could be intellectually average!"
What an azzhole.
PERFECT!!!
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:43 PM |
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bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
what an arse!!!! don't let him get u down
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| Posted 7/9/07 8:11 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: I was VERY insulted one day last week...
Posted by Ophelia
I think a nice resounding
F*ck you" azzhole is in perfect order there.
or maybe
"if you had a slightly larger d1ck, you'd actually be a man"
I would of told him to F-OFF!
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