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skew
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by stephanief
Posted by Ophelia
Posted by Tany
isn't a public board though?
I just don't think that I'm no one to judge anyone.
Let a judge do that or the man upstairs.
it's not about "judging" b/c it's not up for "interpretation".
If you wanna be a slut, be a slut. if you wanna cheat on your spouse, go ahead...if you wanna shoplift, I'm not mad at ya...
but drinking and driving should not be explained away, condoned, "to each their own'ed" in any way shape for form..simply b/c it can effect you or me at ANY time.
the effects are so arbitrarily metted out, and so completely unfair, that we cannot be tolerant or turn a blind eye or defend those that chose to make the most selfish of decisions.
it's not judgmental...it's looking out for your OWN good, and the good of your family.
well said and I agree - but no need to rehash all of this again
ITA. again, poor judgement and bad decision but the point was well made. time to move on.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita
awesome, another thread to further drama. people must be bored today.
JUDGE JUDY RULES
that woman scares the sh*t out of me
if i ever had to go to civil court i would be petrified. id have to go to Peoples Court anyday over Ms Scheindlin
wapner was cool too back in the day
you could be in mid-sentence and he'd cut you off and be like "i'll be back to give you my decision"
"if someone wrongs you - don't take the law into your own hands - take em to court"
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| Posted 6/14/07 4:19 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by mommy2bella
don't post it...
now, about my meth habit...
 
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| Posted 6/14/07 5:13 PM |
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neenie
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by Ophelia
Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita
awesome, another thread to further drama. people must be bored today.
just an fyi b/c I don't know how self absorbed you are...but I don't think this is about YOU or what YOU did anymore.
I can say with certainty, that my comments are not directed at YOU, specifically.
you are not being persecuted. take yourself off the pyre.
i have to agree. Just as i said in my post last night, too- it was not about YOU, jes, it was about the topic at hand.
and honestly, who cares if another thread causes drama... its just one more thread.... posts about game shows cause drama around here... at least this one's got a public service announcement to it
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by neenie
posts about game shows cause drama around here... at least this one's got a public service announcement to it
hey, price is right has a public service announcement
help control the pet population....
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pinkandblue
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by neenie
posts about game shows cause drama around here... at least this one's got a public service announcement to it
hey, price is right has a public service announcement
help control the pet population....
OMG 
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| Posted 6/14/07 6:50 PM |
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mommy2bella
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
all I am saying is posting about a black and white topic like drunk driving (never OK), murder (never OK), adultery (never OK) then expect a bit of backlash...
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this is a public board so if you post you should expect judgement/opinions, both to your face (posts) and behind your back (in FM--cmon, you know you do it) because if that didn't happen, then Ron wouldn't be a rich man 
I wasn't being specific to you Jes, just in general. It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
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LIFamilies
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by mommy2bella
all I am saying is posting about a black and white topic like drunk driving (never OK), murder (never OK), adultery (never OK) then expect a bit of backlash...
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this is a public board so if you post you should expect judgement/opinions, both to your face (posts) and behind your back (in FM--cmon, you know you do it) because if that didn't happen, then Ron wouldn't be a rich man
I wasn't being specific to you Jes, just in general. It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
Ron is rich! Holy crud, how come no one ever told me? Ya think Liz is holding out on me? Hmmmmmm, I gotta really look into this!
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Mommy2Boys
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
I always miss this stuff. Did they pull the post or can I catch up on what I missed?
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thewinterone
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by mommy2bella
It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
I'm curious, as to why this bothers you. If someone wants to vent or get opinions but doesn't want a record out there forever of it, what's the problem with that or is that not what you meant?
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| Posted 6/15/07 1:42 AM |
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maybebaby
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by woozshle
Posted by mommy2bella
It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
I'm curious, as to why this bothers you. If someone wants to vent or get opinions but doesn't want a record out there forever of it, what's the problem with that or is that not what you meant?
I agree. I am guilty of doing this once..I needed opinions but didn't want to risk the person possibly reading the post (not quite sure if she knows about LIF)...its not a big deal..
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Shanti
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by maybebaby
Posted by woozshle
Posted by mommy2bella
It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
I'm curious, as to why this bothers you. If someone wants to vent or get opinions but doesn't want a record out there forever of it, what's the problem with that or is that not what you meant?
I agree. I am guilty of doing this once..I needed opinions but didn't want to risk the person possibly reading the post (not quite sure if she knows about LIF)...its not a big deal..
I agree. Not everyone is comfortable with putting information "out there." I once posted about something and after it went up, I realized I did not want that info to be public. We are allowed to change our minds in hindsight or ask for quick opinions, etc. I don't see the big deal.
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mommy2bella
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by LIFamilies
Posted by mommy2bella
all I am saying is posting about a black and white topic like drunk driving (never OK), murder (never OK), adultery (never OK) then expect a bit of backlash...
AND
this is a public board so if you post you should expect judgement/opinions, both to your face (posts) and behind your back (in FM--cmon, you know you do it) because if that didn't happen, then Ron wouldn't be a rich man
I wasn't being specific to you Jes, just in general. It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
Ron is rich! Holy crud, how come no one ever told me? Ya think Liz is holding out on me? Hmmmmmm, I gotta really look into this!
rich with love and busy boards of opinions and judgements
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mommy2bella
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by Shanti
Posted by maybebaby
Posted by woozshle
Posted by mommy2bella
It's like the people who post something controversial and then edit the OP out (drives me nuts) OR the old "don't quote this"...puh-lease
I'm curious, as to why this bothers you. If someone wants to vent or get opinions but doesn't want a record out there forever of it, what's the problem with that or is that not what you meant?
I agree. I am guilty of doing this once..I needed opinions but didn't want to risk the person possibly reading the post (not quite sure if she knows about LIF)...its not a big deal..
I agree. Not everyone is comfortable with putting information "out there." I once posted about something and after it went up, I realized I did not want that info to be public. We are allowed to change our minds in hindsight or ask for quick opinions, etc. I don't see the big deal.
totally understandable. but when there are like 50 responses and th eOP themselves have answered back it usually doesn't take a genius to figure out what the OP is...
OR if someone says something and doesn't like the opinions and then take it down cuz they don't wanna hear it, sorry that's annoying...
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by mommy2bella
rich with love and busy boards of opinions and judgements
Lets see;
rich with love -   thank you!
busy boards of opinions - well that could either be  ,  ,  ,  , or . Oh wait, it could also be this this  sometimes even this or the usual  .
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by LIFamilies
We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we?
speak for yourself
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DebG
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by LIFamilies
Posted by mommy2bella
rich with love and busy boards of opinions and judgements
Lets see;
rich with love - thank you!
busy boards of opinions - well that could either be , , , , or . Oh wait, it could also be this this sometimes even this or the usual .
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
Ruh Roh...who's turn is it next?
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Tany
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by LIFamilies
Posted by mommy2bella
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
Exactly !!!!!!!!
Thank you Ron.
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mommy2bella
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by Tany
Posted by LIFamilies
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
Exactly !!!!!!!!
Thank you Ron.
this all goes back to the drunk driving thing. Sorry, I make judgements on that. That isn't a mistake, that's a stupid choice.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
here's how I feel
In all walks of life, we're all going to do stuff that is offensive to others. Lord knows if I told you some stories, I'd be flamed so bad, I'd be on fire
Is judging someone right? I always go back to that old bible saying "He who's never sinned may cast the first stone" But, the reality is, we're human - judging others who may not be in line with what we're all about is ingrained in us. It's not right, it's not wrong - it just is.
Knowing that, I've just learned to keep certain things and stories, that I know would set people off, to myself, or just share it with those that I know won't get offended.
For example, (Jess, I'm only using your story because it's the freshest case and comes to mind freshly)
If I made a really poor judgement call (which we've all done at some time in our lives), I wouldn't post about it. Or if I did post about it, I would leave out the details that might get me in trouble.
In Jess' case, I might have just said, Please send prayers, I'm worried about my friend - I haven't heard from her since we parted company last night.
End of story - no details of circumstances.
Drunk driving is such an intense issue with so many strong feelings and personal connections, that when you put yourself out there as being involved in it, you have to be prepared to get judged, because that's just how we are.
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
here's how I feel
In all walks of life, we're all going to do stuff that is offensive to others. Lord knows if I told you some stories, I'd be flamed so bad, I'd be on fire
Is judging someone right? I always go back to that old bible saying "He who's never sinned may cast the first stone" But, the reality is, we're human - judging others who may not be in line with what we're all about is ingrained in us. It's not right, it's not wrong - it just is.
Knowing that, I've just learned to keep certain things and stories, that I know would set people off, to myself, or just share it with those that I know won't get offended.
For example, (Jess, I'm only using your story because it's the freshest case and comes to mind freshly)
If I made a really poor judgement call (which we've all done at some time in our lives), I wouldn't post about it. Or if I did post about it, I would leave out the details that might get me in trouble.
In Jess' case, I might have just said, Please send prayers, I'm worried about my friend - I haven't heard from her since we parted company last night.
End of story - no details of circumstances.
Drunk driving is such an intense issue with so many strong feelings and personal connections, that when you put yourself out there as being involved in it, you have to be prepared to get judged, because that's just how we are.
ITA...
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LIFamilies
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by DebG
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Posted by mommy2bella
rich with love and busy boards of opinions and judgements
Lets see;
rich with love - thank you!
busy boards of opinions - well that could either be , , , , or . Oh wait, it could also be this this sometimes even this or the usual .
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
Ruh Roh...who's turn is it next?
Looks like it was just Don's turn! Hey Don, stop taking so many turns. Give someone else a chance, okay?
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by LIFamilies
Posted by DebG
Posted by LIFamilies
Posted by mommy2bella
rich with love and busy boards of opinions and judgements
Lets see;
rich with love - thank you!
busy boards of opinions - well that could either be , , , , or . Oh wait, it could also be this this sometimes even this or the usual .
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
Ruh Roh...who's turn is it next?
Looks like it was just Don's turn! Hey Don, stop taking so many turns. Give someone else a chance, okay?
last time i was in the hospital, i took a turn for the nurse
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LIFamilies
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by mommy2bella
Posted by Tany
Posted by LIFamilies
Now the part about judgements. Hmmm, judgements are always . No way should anyone ever judge someone else. We are all imperfect and make many mistakes, don't we? Sometimes, it's just someone elses turn to make a mistake!
Exactly !!!!!!!!
Thank you Ron.
this all goes back to the drunk driving thing. Sorry, I make judgements on that. That isn't a mistake, that's a stupid choice.
Okay, I do not know about the drunk driving thing you speak of but yes, there might be an exception here. My cousins, 11 and 14, were murdered because of a drunk driver (killing someone while DWI is murder as far as I am concerned). Also a few years ago I came upon a traffic accident (I'm a paramedic) where a 19 year old was T boned by a drunk driver. The drunk driver was driving with a suspended license from two prior DWI arrests. The drunk drivers car was not registered or insured. The 19 year old young lady died in my arms. So yes, I too am opinionated and a bit judgemental in regard to DWI.
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LIFamilies
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Re: If you don't wanna hear it...
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
last time i was in the hospital, i took a turn for the nurse
AND?????????????????????
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