Is it shock? denial? disbelief?

Im sorry if this sounds silly, but I just still dont believe that I AM PREGNANT!!!

I find it so surreal right now
I guess because it was my 1st round of clomid and NEVER thought it would happen so fast

anyone else feel like this??

when i say denial, i dont mean that i dont want to be!!! This was a prayed for, planned pregnancy!!!

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Its so exciting isn't it?!! YAY!
Even at 30 weeks for me, it doesn't feel real, but when you can't sleep on your belly, your clothes don't fit or your just plain miserable - it feels all real. Good luck and enjoy every min of it!

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thanks so much!!!

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I feel the same way. I need to see the belly!

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still doesn't feel real for me either... and I already had my level II!

but the constipation is very very real

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CONGRATULATIONS SNOWFLAKE!!!


I know how much u've been wanting this!! Welcome to the best and hardest next 9 months!! With the BEST ever ending!!

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I totally know how you feel. I am almost 16 weeks and still don't believe it. Every time I pee, I check to see if I have my period. I probably won't believe it until the little goblin comes out!

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It is very surreal in the begining. With DD#1 I don't think it really hit me until I stared to feel her move.

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I feel the same exact way!!! Once we have our baby bumps I think it will seem more real.

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I feel this way because I don't feel like I have all the symptoms..not that I want most of them ...but it is just so hard to believe because I can't see or feel the baby yet. I even think I am gonna take another test today, even though I took two and they said pregnant.....I'm neurotic..... I am so excited though

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I still cant believe it too...and it also was my first round of Clomid that it happened!!!!! So i know the feeling...even at the first Sono i was in another world still didnt feel real. I just want a belley soon so i can really start to believe it!!!!!

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Being I had an unplanned pregnancy - that we saw as a blessing and pleasant surprise - I honestly didn't believe I was pregnant till the contractions started. I had such an easy pregnancy, and just kept living my life as if everything was "normal" that it didn't really hit me till I was going to deliver. That's when I looked at my BF and said "OH MY G-D... WE ARE HAVING A BABY!!!!" We still laugh about that. ENJOY EVERY SECOND OF YOUR PREGNANCIES LADIES!!! You are all blessed!!!!

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I feel the same way, I haven't seen the heartbeat yet, and I think until I see it, it won't feel real to me at all!!!!

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yes i understand how you feel it doesnt seem real to me at all... my dh is soo excited and keeps telling everyone even tho i told him to wait to tell lol.. but when we do it seems soo surreal that im actally going to have a baby .. i guess it just has to sink in

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I think I was in disbelief until I left the hospital with the baby!!

Congrats!!

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I felt like that for the first 3 months

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I completely felt the same way early on!!!!
Even looking at my 1st sonopic, with the little bean floating around, arms akimbo, it seemed like someone else's pic!!

Don't worry, it will start feeling VERY real (in a great way) in a few short weeks!!! Growing belly, buying maternity clothes, those next few sonos, your DH getting all mushy over , and then, Ta-DA: the first movements!!!!!

Its a lot of fun and i am constantly amazed at what's happening inside

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I know the feeling. This time we got preggo the first time trying. At first it didn't seem real. I know how it can feel that way in the beginning, especially when you don't have any symptoms or a belly yet.

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I feel the same way. Even though I have symptoms, it doesn't seem real yet. I also didn't expect to get pregnant so quickly. It kind of feels like a dream.

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It didn't feel real until I started in with the horrible morning sickness....then again when we had our level II and got to see her!

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Thanks so much ladies
It is nice to know that I am not the only one feeling this way!!

Happy and healthy to all!!!

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Congrats yay!!!!!

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Ours was a surprise and I didn't even know about it till 10 weeks... so you can imagine how I feel.
Still not real yet...

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Yeah, I still don't totally believe it, either. And I've had my first sono and seen and heard the heartbeat! But I chalked that off to "Oh, that must just be MY heartbeat they're picking up"!