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Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

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MM2004
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Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

We just booked a five day vacation in the caribbean for just the two of us.

Grandma will be staying at our house to take care of DS who will be 4 1/2 at the time.

People do that right? Take vacations without the kids, even at that young age.

Am I a bad mommy to leave him home?

We are taking him to A Day Out with Thomas this year so that will be his little vacation.

Posted 7/28/09 8:31 PM
 
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Arieschick29
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Jen

Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

My personal opinion is that it not only is ok but it is necessary to maintain a strong marriage.

I want to plan a short vacation around Thanksgiving ( our anniversary) for DH and myself and DD will only be 8 months old.

Posted 7/28/09 8:34 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

yes! absolutely OK!!! You are not a bad mommy at all - you guys NEED time like this every now and then! enjoy!!!!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/28/09 8:36 PM
 

Charly
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

I felt guilty, but decided to do it a few weeks ago. DH & I went to South Beach for a wedding and left my 1 year old and 2 1/2 year old with the 2 grandma's at our house.

We had a blast and the kids had fun with Grandma's.

and to answer your question....yes people do it!

Have funChat Icon

Posted 7/28/09 8:37 PM
 

JavaJunkie
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

It's ok! I think it's good for all parties involved.....you, kids and grandparents!

Posted 7/28/09 9:56 PM
 

JTK
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Kristi

Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

i do it every year. It's great for my husband and I .. infact i am leaving my 3 month old for a week on saturday!Chat Icon

Posted 7/28/09 10:00 PM
 

Bridex100
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

DH and I are going to vegas next month without the little one. I think it's fine to go away for short periods of time. Happy parents = happy family.

Posted 7/28/09 10:01 PM
 

leighla
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

Posted by Arieschick29

My personal opinion is that it not only is ok but it is necessary to maintain a strong marriage.



I totally agree.

We split our vacations - we get 4 weeks a year so we do one week without DS and one with with, then a week without, then a week with. Chat Icon

Posted 7/28/09 10:28 PM
 

Alli06
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

Completely ok! I can't wait to take a vacation again with just DH and I .

Posted 7/28/09 10:47 PM
 

MM2004
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?

Thanks for the replies. I can't wait to go away and just being able to "veg" for a few days.

I just pray he'll be ok while we are gone.

Posted 7/29/09 7:15 PM
 
 

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