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MM2004
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Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
We just booked a five day vacation in the caribbean for just the two of us.
Grandma will be staying at our house to take care of DS who will be 4 1/2 at the time.
People do that right? Take vacations without the kids, even at that young age.
Am I a bad mommy to leave him home?
We are taking him to A Day Out with Thomas this year so that will be his little vacation.
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Posted 7/28/09 8:31 PM |
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Arieschick29
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
My personal opinion is that it not only is ok but it is necessary to maintain a strong marriage.
I want to plan a short vacation around Thanksgiving ( our anniversary) for DH and myself and DD will only be 8 months old.
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Posted 7/28/09 8:34 PM |
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dawnygirl25
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Name: Dawn
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
yes! absolutely OK!!! You are not a bad mommy at all - you guys NEED time like this every now and then! enjoy!!!!!
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Posted 7/28/09 8:36 PM |
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Charly
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
I felt guilty, but decided to do it a few weeks ago. DH & I went to South Beach for a wedding and left my 1 year old and 2 1/2 year old with the 2 grandma's at our house.
We had a blast and the kids had fun with Grandma's.
and to answer your question....yes people do it!
Have fun
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Posted 7/28/09 8:37 PM |
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JavaJunkie
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
It's ok! I think it's good for all parties involved.....you, kids and grandparents!
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Posted 7/28/09 9:56 PM |
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JTK
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Name: Kristi
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
i do it every year. It's great for my husband and I .. infact i am leaving my 3 month old for a week on saturday!
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Posted 7/28/09 10:00 PM |
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Bridex100
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Name: Momx100
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
DH and I are going to vegas next month without the little one. I think it's fine to go away for short periods of time. Happy parents = happy family.
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Posted 7/28/09 10:01 PM |
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leighla
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Name: Lauren
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
Posted by Arieschick29
My personal opinion is that it not only is ok but it is necessary to maintain a strong marriage.
I totally agree.
We split our vacations - we get 4 weeks a year so we do one week without DS and one with with, then a week without, then a week with.
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Posted 7/28/09 10:28 PM |
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Alli06
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
Completely ok! I can't wait to take a vacation again with just DH and I .
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Posted 7/28/09 10:47 PM |
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MM2004
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Re: Its ok to take a vacation without the kids right?
Thanks for the replies. I can't wait to go away and just being able to "veg" for a few days.
I just pray he'll be ok while we are gone.
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Posted 7/29/09 7:15 PM |
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