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Juat read something on the relationship board

The post about walking in on someone. A posted walked in on her man with a girl she called "fat". Someone replied with, "I guess chubby girls cant be attractive.

How do you feel about this statement?

Was the poster wrong to say this, or was she just expressing herself?

I would have to say she was just expressing herself.

Posted 8/23/06 7:32 PM
 
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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

When I originally read that post, I did not understand why she had to add that the girl was fat. Would it have been any different if the girl was skinny? I thought the comment was completely uncalled for! JMO

Posted 8/23/06 7:34 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

maybe she was just trying to be sympathetic to the girl that walked in on her bf at the time. i dont really know.

Posted 8/23/06 7:35 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

i just read it. and if you read it in the context, it seems like she was just adding an insult b/c she was bitter about what she saw. it had nothing to do with the girl...

Posted 8/23/06 7:35 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

I think she was just adding an insult because she was pizzed when it happened.


But let's be COMPLETELY honest...

Fat or not, your man was still porkin her. (Pardon the pun)

Posted 8/23/06 7:37 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by BNL2005

i just read it. and if you read it in the context, it seems like she was just adding an insult b/c she was bitter about what she saw. it had nothing to do with the girl...



yes i thought the same thing. i mean, some of you had an ex b/f and when they got a new g/f i am sure you found some kind of flaw (ex- she has a big nose) and said it.

Message edited 8/23/2006 7:37:32 PM.

Posted 8/23/06 7:37 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

IMO, that comment stems from being bitter and scorned.

Posted 8/23/06 7:37 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by wp

When I originally read that post, I did not understand why she had to add that the girl was fat. Would it have been any different if the girl was skinny? I thought the comment was completely uncalled for! JMO


IMO i think it is just the anger that is there after being soo hurt by that..

so of course she used a nasty word to describe it

i really do not see it as "uncalled for"

she wasn't talking about anyone here

so who really cares

Posted 8/23/06 7:37 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

sorry but i think people get offended a tad too easily sometimesChat Icon

Posted 8/23/06 7:38 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by Redhead

sorry but i think people get offended a tad too easily sometimesChat Icon



I agree.


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Personally, I would much rather find my husband in bed with someone heavier, if he were cheating. It would make me not care about my weight. LOL

kidding

Posted 8/23/06 7:39 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by Redhead

Posted by wp

When I originally read that post, I did not understand why she had to add that the girl was fat. Would it have been any different if the girl was skinny? I thought the comment was completely uncalled for! JMO


IMO i think it is just the anger that is there after being soo hurt by that..

so of course she used a nasty word to describe it

i really do not see it as "uncalled for"

she wasn't talking about anyone here

so who really cares



I completely agree that the comment came from hurt feelings and anger.
And I do agree people at times are way to sensitive here. I just thought it was unnecessary to add.

Posted 8/23/06 7:41 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

well i must say she went light oh the colorful words i would have used Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/23/2006 7:44:34 PM.

Posted 8/23/06 7:42 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by Redhead

Posted by wp

When I originally read that post, I did not understand why she had to add that the girl was fat. Would it have been any different if the girl was skinny? I thought the comment was completely uncalled for! JMO


IMO i think it is just the anger that is there after being soo hurt by that..

so of course she used a nasty word to describe it

i really do not see it as "uncalled for"

she wasn't talking about anyone here

so who really cares

I agree with mama.Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/06 7:43 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by Redhead

well i must say she went light ont he colorful words i would have used Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Oh I couldnt agree with that more!!!! My entire entry would have to be bleeped out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/06 7:43 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

i think it was just used to cover the humiliation she felt.Kind of to make her self feel better in a way if that makes any sense.

Posted 8/23/06 8:12 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

I think she was pretty nice compared to the words I would have probably used had it been meChat Icon

I don't think it is uncalled for at all. She was pi$$ed off

Posted 8/23/06 8:33 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

whatever. it probably made her feel better to mention the fat girl. sometimes I think you can't say anything anymore without someone being offended (and no I'm not just saying the "fat" girls are offended).

Posted 8/23/06 8:54 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Was he wearing this shirt?

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Message edited 8/23/2006 8:56:21 PM.

Posted 8/23/06 8:56 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Which post is itChat Icon

Posted 8/23/06 8:57 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

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Posted 8/23/06 8:57 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

omg someone was actually offended by someone calling a the person who was cheating with the op's SO fat?Chat Icon
Damn, are we oversensitive?

I would have said fat, ugly,big nose, unibrowed womanChat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/23/2006 9:03:56 PM.

Posted 8/23/06 9:00 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

now if I called her a stank azz ho, would that have offended the ho's out there...

what about the deodorant challenged, any offense there?

Posted 8/23/06 9:00 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

Posted by mommy2bellabean

now if I called her a stank azz ho, would that have offended the ho's out there...

what about the deodorant challenged, any offense there?



OMG, you totally hit it on the nose
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Posted 8/23/06 9:01 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

I think it was more out of humilation and anger. I think alot of woman are uncomfortable regardless of their size so this person could have been a size 2 and maybe in the posters eyes she felt it might hurt this person in some way by saying she was fat.

Posted 8/23/06 9:07 PM
 

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Re: Juat read something on the relationship board

I would just like to state for the record that I was not offeneded by the comment. But if you do look on the original post of the relationship board someone seemed like they took offense to or was hurt by the "fat" comment! I was just stating that I could see how someone would see the comment being "uncalled for"

Posted 8/23/06 9:09 PM
 
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