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Janice
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Judgemental Pet Peeves
What group do you think gets a bad rap from people who love to judge?
for example: I think pot smokers get a bad rap, especially from drinkers. To me if you drink or smoke it is all the same. But people who smoke are made out to be lazy.
Message edited 9/9/2005 4:36:39 PM.
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Posted 9/9/05 4:34 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Above-average good looking people. I hear it all the time with all the women I work with. If there is a parent that takes good care of themselves, they AUTOMATICALLY start talking sh*t about them. People LOVE to bash good looking people.
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Posted 9/9/05 4:36 PM |
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Janice
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by prncssrachel
Above-average good looking people. I hear it all the time with all the women I work with. If there is a parent that takes good care of themselves, they AUTOMATICALLY start talking sh*t about them. People LOVE to bash good looking people.
ohhh that is a good one.
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Posted 9/9/05 4:37 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
I think people judge teen mothers too hard. How many people(other than a select few on here ) waited till they were married?
I think a teen mom faces so much unnecessary hardship.
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Posted 9/9/05 4:40 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
it's not a question of waiting until you are married, it's about being responsible enough and not throwing caution to the wind
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Posted 9/9/05 5:23 PM |
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Booklady1017
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
We were actually talking about this in my class.. Library Services for Young Adults. It is the teens/young adults who get a bad rap. They get all grouped together bad and good and its not fair.
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Posted 9/9/05 5:26 PM |
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heidla
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
it's not a question of waiting until you are married, it's about being responsible enough and not throwing caution to the wind
There are accidents even when being cautious. My mother got pregnant at 15, but used protection. Her parents sent her away to have the baby because they lived in a small town and were ashamed. Even though this was in the 60's stuff like that still goes on. It just seems like people are quick to judge before knowing the circumstances.
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Posted 9/9/05 5:30 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by heidla
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
it's not a question of waiting until you are married, it's about being responsible enough and not throwing caution to the wind
There are accidents even when being cautious. My mother got pregnant at 15, but used protection. Her parents sent her away to have the baby because they lived in a small town and were ashamed. Even though this was in the 60's stuff like that still goes on. It just seems like people are quick to judge before knowing the circumstances.
true that, there are exceptions to every thing
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Posted 9/9/05 5:32 PM |
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
it's not a question of waiting until you are married, it's about being responsible enough and not throwing caution to the wind
what do you mean by throwing caution to the wind....unprotected sex???
I was a teen mom and yes I did have sex but it was protected I just happen to get pregnant and then I grew up real quick and became a responsible parent
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Posted 9/9/05 5:33 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
it's not a question of waiting until you are married, it's about being responsible enough and not throwing caution to the wind
what do you mean by throwing caution to the wind....unprotected sex???
I was a teen mom and yes I did have sex but it was protected I just happen to get pregnant and then I grew up real quick and became a responsible parent
i meant unprotected sex
yeah, if you have protected sex and get preggo, well, accidents happen
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Posted 9/9/05 5:35 PM |
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
I have to also say that I was with my daughters father for 4 years before I got pregnant and 3 years afterwards and on occasion would not use protection.......................I am human and not perfect people can be so judgmental I also would like to add I never went on welfare or lived off anyone elses money
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Posted 9/9/05 5:39 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
I have to also say that I was with my daughters father for 4 years before I got pregnant and 3 years afterwards and on occasion would not use protection.......................I am human and not perfect people can be so judgmental I also would like to add I never went on welfare or lived off anyone elses money
you are correct, no one is perfect
i'm talking more about the cases where you see a 14 year old girl with some random guy she meets at a party the week before get preggo.
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Posted 9/9/05 5:43 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
I have to also say that I was with my daughters father for 4 years before I got pregnant and 3 years afterwards and on occasion would not use protection.......................I am human and not perfect people can be so judgmental I also would like to add I never went on welfare or lived off anyone elses money
That was what the topic was ABOUT... there is NO NEED to take it personally
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Posted 9/9/05 6:04 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by Janice
What group do you think gets a bad rap from people who love to judge?
Celebrities
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Posted 9/9/05 6:07 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
Posted by Redhead
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
I have to also say that I was with my daughters father for 4 years before I got pregnant and 3 years afterwards and on occasion would not use protection.......................I am human and not perfect people can be so judgmental I also would like to add I never went on welfare or lived off anyone elses money
That was what the topic was ABOUT... there is NO NEED to take it personally
it's all good red, i should have specified my comments
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Posted 9/9/05 6:09 PM |
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
sometimes it is hard to not take things so personal whe it feels like your life
I dont know if that makes any sense (I am sorry )
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Posted 9/9/05 6:13 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: Judgemental Pet Peeves
i understand that Don...but i just think it is silly for people to get upset about it...
hell i am a drinker....and i can't stand those pot heads
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Posted 9/9/05 6:14 PM |
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