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just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help..updated2.. see last post

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janet
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just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help..updated2.. see last post

and i feel so guilty about the way i had to get it done but at the same token it was the only wayChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i just hope they can see i did it because i care and not to hurt them. but if not i just lost that person who has been a great friend through my past 2 yearsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

and ps. this has nothing to do with my sister

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Posted 1/28/08 3:42 AM
 
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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

awww Janet, i'm sure they will understand one day. you're a good person who cares about people.Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/08 6:08 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 6:54 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 6:57 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

I'm sure when the time is right Janet, she will realize that you had the best intentions at heart.

Sometimes is not easy to make those type of decisions, but i know you are a good womanChat Icon

Posted 1/28/08 7:54 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 8:35 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 9:20 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

Did you do an intervention? Don't feel guilty at all. You did what you needed to do.

Posted 1/28/08 9:34 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 9:36 AM
 

janet
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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

Posted by watersdeb04

Did you do an intervention? Don't feel guilty at all. You did what you needed to do.



in a way it was Chat Icon just alot behind it that i really can't get into. i have tried to call and see how she is doing but they will not give me any infor... dumb hippa law. she has been staying with me due to to many breakins in her car at the place she was living and the land lord was going rent happy on her. so i told her she could stay here till she found a new place and saw a whole other side that blew me away and knew she needed help. her family is not here in state and i did speak to them about it over the phone before i did anything. so they do know what is going on and if they will get info they will call me. i just pray she can forgive me.Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/08 9:40 AM
 

watersdeb04
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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

I'm sure she will. Good luck and many Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . From your posts you seem like a person with a good heart who puts the needs of others ahead of your own. Anyone would be lucky to have the privilage of calling you friend.

Posted 1/28/08 9:43 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

Posted by watersdeb04

I'm sure she will. Good luck and many Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . From your posts you seem like a person with a good heart who puts the needs of others ahead of your own. Anyone would be lucky to have the privilage of calling you friend.



thanksChat Icon ps and sometimes i need to pull back but never learn... i just hate seeing people hurting... i know that feeling ALL to well

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Posted 1/28/08 9:46 AM
 

watersdeb04
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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

You and I are very alike. I totally know that feeling.

Posted 1/28/08 9:53 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 9:55 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 9:56 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 9:57 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 10:44 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sure she will appreciate what you have done for her when she is in a better place......

Posted 1/28/08 10:59 AM
 

janet
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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help

*update* i just went up to try and see her. the cops are still there. they told me she has been cleared medically so that is good. and soon will go to be evaled in the psyc ward. she looked horrible but was sleeping and had no idea i was there. hopefully they will see how much she needs and keep her for a little whie. please send prayers that she does get this under control the right way. the drinking like i said i had no idea she was like thisChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/08 11:15 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help..updated.. see last post

You did the right thing.. so many people just sit back and watch things like this happen because they dont want to "get involved" or they think their friend will be mad at them..

When it comes down to it.. if they are mad at you fo a little while.. don't you think that little while is worth it if it changes their whole future..??


I think embarrassment comes out as anger a lot of times in these situations... but you did the right thing and eventually this person will realize that and be thankful
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Posted 1/28/08 11:23 AM
 

janet
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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help..updated.. see last post

Thank you formake me feel more confidant in what i did. i will keep you posted if and when i can. thanks againChat Icon

Posted 1/28/08 11:29 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 11:32 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help..updated.. see last post

Janet, you did the right thing. It may take time for your friend to realize it, but you have to know that. You're such a good, caring person, and she's lucky to have you in her life. Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/08 11:33 AM
 

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Posted 1/28/08 11:33 AM
 

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Re: just had to do one of the hardest things for a friend to get help..updated.. see last post

you did the right thing i was in a similar situtation once and it was the hardest thing to do but just know you are helping them have a better life
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Posted 1/28/08 12:30 PM
 
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