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Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

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Lucky09
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Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

I look sooo big. There was another bridesmaid who is due two weeks after me and I seriously look double her size in the pics.

It's my own fault. I started off the pregnancy 15 lbs overweight, and already gained another 15 lbs (I am 23 weeks tomorrow).

I just can't take looking at these pics and I feel horrible. And, they are being circulated around DH's family who are weight obsessed. I just want to Chat Icon right now.......

Posted 10/30/08 4:12 PM
 
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JennZ
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

Sorry but Screw DH's family. You are PREGNANT and if they have in issue with your weight gain while pregnant or not tell them to jump off a bridge. Im bitter today. Sorry.

Im up 27 lbs at 28 weeks. It stinks, YES but it happens. And I was no size two to begin with. Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/08 4:15 PM
 

angnick
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

i started a size 0 and am up 27lbs at 24 weeks. YIKES

Posted 10/30/08 4:17 PM
 

Lucky09
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

Posted by JennZ

Sorry but Screw DH's family. You are PREGNANT and if they have in issue with your weight gain while pregnant or not tell them to jump off a bridge. Im bitter today. Sorry.




Thank you for this! Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/08 4:35 PM
 

WhitneyL
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

Aww sweetheart! I'm sure you look beautiful! Chat Icon You have nothing to be ashamed of - you are growing a child and that is truly awesome! You need to gain weight so the baby will be healthy and strong. Like PP said, the hell with them if they have something to say!

Posted 10/30/08 4:57 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

Posted by JennZ

Sorry but Screw DH's family. You are PREGNANT and if they have in issue with your weight gain while pregnant or not tell them to jump off a bridge. Im bitter today. Sorry.

Im up 27 lbs at 28 weeks. It stinks, YES but it happens. And I was no size two to begin with. Chat Icon



ITA! My DH's mom was a famous model in her day(she was on the cover of magazines) and is very vain and concerned about weight. Her children inherited her great genes and are all very thin. I am fine at a size 6-8 and She still drives me nuts about it. She even offered to pay for weight watchers after the birth of my DD and I was only 10 pds away from my pre-birth weight at 3 months post-partaum. I say screw them!

Posted 10/30/08 5:39 PM
 

beautyq115
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am sure that YOU look great!!!

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Posted 10/30/08 5:41 PM
 

hmm8191
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

I'm so sorry you feel this way. I was in a wedding back in Dec of 2005 where I was by far the heaviest BM and have yet to see the pictures because I know I look bad. But I wasn't pregnant! You are and you're supposed to be "big" I'm SURE you looked beautiful. Try to cut yourself some slack!

Posted 10/30/08 6:15 PM
 

jaysee00
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Re: Just in a wedding - saw the pics and want to cry!

I'm sorry you feel so upset. It is so frustrating to feel that way and deal with the body change. I hope you feel better soon. Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/08 7:00 PM
 
 

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