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4monkeys
boys will be boys =)
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Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
I just heard of a "friend of a friend" person who just found out the father of her child (they werent married, but were living as a married couple, etc.)
VERY nice guy, or so we all thought!
The ******* was living a double life for the past 5 years! He was still with his ex wife and their kids, all the while with this sweet girl and their baby.
never once did she EVER suspect anything EVER. He worked out the "overnite shift" 2-3jobs all to fit into both lifestyles!
Her whole world came tumbling down thanks to the internet. She's completely devastated beyond belief, but Im hoping this is a blessing in disguise that she got this animal out of her life..
SO SICKENING that there are men out there like this! (and the ex supposedly had NO IDEA about it either)
whats this world coming to! 
Message edited 2/6/2007 5:59:54 PM.
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curliegirl
He's here!!!!
Member since 3/06 10128 total posts
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Gina
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
That's crazy and eerily like the book I just read, The Pilot's Wife by Anita Shreve......
What a loser!!!
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Phyl
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
Where's Lorena Bobbit when you need her?
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evnme
My little lamb
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
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Tania
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
wow, nothing surprises me no more.
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
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FRAPPALICIOUS
sexxxxxy
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Me
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
I knew of a girl a long time ago whos father got really sick and was in the hospital and while there, it was learned that he had a double life too.. Girlfriend and all.. not sure about kids but he had an apartment with this other woman AND EVEN OWNED A RESTAURANT!!! His family had NO CLUE what was going on. He ended up dying and the girl, her brother and mother ended up with the restaurant. HORRIBLE HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!
The other woman knew about his wife and the kids, but they had no clue about her. I can't believe he owned a restaurant and his family didn't even know it. That really is sick!!!!!!!!
You just NEVER KNOW!!!!!
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
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Lauren
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
A co worker of mine's father did that. He had a secret family in Queens and had a wife and six kids on LI...after 34 years when he was on his deathbed did my co worker and her mom discover this other family when the girlfriend showed up at the hospital
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neenie
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
Posted by curliegirl
That's crazy and eerily like the book I just read, The Pilot's Wife by Anita Shreve......
What a loser!!!
i was going to sayit sounded exactly like this book, too.
sucky thing to do.
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Jessica
I'm a mommy :)
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
my ex boyfriend led a double life.
bc of him it takes a great deal for me to trust people.
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alnem
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
oh no thats terrible!
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MrsERod
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
&^%$@!@$%^&*(*&^%$#@#$%^&*(*&^%$
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CookiePuss
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
It happens a lot more often then you think and is much more prevalent that you would ever guess.
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4ForMe
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Barbara
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
Posted by shamrock124
It happens a lot more often then you think and is much more prevalent that you would ever guess.
It happened to my sister-in-law's neighbor a couple of years ago. Her husband was a prominent Dr. - they had a beautiful home, etc. It turned out he had a whole other life - a house, a woman and another child. He got away with it for a while because he was a Dr. and could always find excuses to "go to the hospital" or "work late".
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oops123
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michelle
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
its very scary that this happens so much!
SOme people just don't have a conscience i guess.
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
when I was bartender- I had this woman who always came in
almost everynight- sometimes alone, sometimes with her FH
it turns out her so called FH- had another FW
who had the same e-ring
the same SL 500- same color
basically the same everything- if he bought it for one- he bought it for the other
I felt really bad for her-
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
This girl I knew from college found out about her father's "other" family when he died. He was an importer who often traveled for business.
The sicker thing (as if leading a double life wasn't enough) was he had 2 younger children in the other family & named them the SAME names as my friend & her brother.
She was devastated. The only reason she knew was she was the executor of his will & had to make arrangements to provide for the other family. She also had to break the news to her mother.
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FRAPPALICIOUS
sexxxxxy
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Me
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
Posted by Moehick
A co worker of mine's father did that. He had a secret family in Queens and had a wife and six kids on LI...after 34 years when he was on his deathbed did my co worker and her mom discover this other family when the girlfriend showed up at the hospital
OMG i wonder if this is the same girl I know about!!!!!!
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GoldenRod
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
Wow! As a DH, I have my hands full keeping one household running, and one DW happy. There's no way I could manage keeping two DWs happy!!! 
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Lucky09
2017!
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
This does sound like that book Pilot's Wife!
Ughhh - so evil.
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july06bride
I'm a mom!
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
my dad's cousin was married and later found out that her husband was leading a double life- he was gay and was in a relationship with someone. He had a home with this person and my dad's cousin...no children though-thank goodness, she has since moved on- remarried and has two children
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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
It's sad, but so very true.
A family friend of ours was leading a double life as a gay man. He was married for 20+ years, had three boys, and his wife found out one day when she found pictures. Fortunately, she left him and moved.
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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
Unfortunetly, I know 2 people like this.
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4monkeys
boys will be boys =)
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Re: Leading a double life, it really DOES happen!
  I CANT BELIEVE HOW MUCH THIS GOES ON !!!!!!!
These men deserve to be.... well... someone mentioned bobbitt 
seriously, what the heck?????
this is absolutely insane. Im so sorry for all those that have gone through this.
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