It sounds completely reasonable to be so ervous but I hope and pray that all of your worrying is for nothing and that A wave for mommy would be nice!
Please promise yourself that once the doctor seems to be happy - that you will take some time to really look at your little one and just enjoy. The begining will be nerve-racking but once things are okay - ask to see the baby a little more so that you can let it sink in.
It's understandable that you have these fears. I'm sure everything will be fine. We'll be thinking about you with our fingers crossed. Good luck with everything. Let us know how everything turns out.
Donna -- Totally understandable how you are feeling. I was very nervous too, and I hadn't been through half of what you have been through.
I will pray that it is a totally positive expereince, and can put all your fears to rest. You can't change the outcome by worrying about it - and hopefully by now you have some great news to share!!