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Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

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Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

I just read on Yahoo that US Regulations allow mail carriers to receive gifts up to $20 in value, but NOT cash or monetary tips.

Anyone else ever hear this?

ETA - It's also in the fine print of this CNN Holiday Tipping Guide from 2006.

Message edited 12/8/2007 10:07:49 AM.

Posted 12/8/07 10:04 AM
 
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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.

Posted 12/8/07 10:06 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

I give him a $25 Visa Gift Card.

Posted 12/8/07 10:06 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.

Posted 12/8/07 10:09 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.

how about a GC to Starbucks or DD's

Posted 12/8/07 10:10 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Interestingly, UPS can accept tips, but FedEx is not allowed to receive gifts over $75 in value. FedEx is also not allowed to accept cash tips. I never knew this (though I don't tip the UPS / FedEx guys anyway).

Posted 12/8/07 10:10 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.



Oh, we don't have jobs like that where we'd get into trouble. I agree, not worth it over a $20 gift.

Actually now that I think about it DH is licensed with the SEC. Maybe he could get into trouble too. Hmmm, guess maybe I should pick something up.

Posted 12/8/07 10:11 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by SweetestOfPeas

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.

how about a GC to Starbucks or DD's



That's a good idea!

Posted 12/8/07 10:12 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.



I'm also a lawyer, but my husband isn't and every year he "gives" the mailman $20, in a card. I'm hoping the grievance committee is more worried about co-mingling of escrow funds.

Posted 12/8/07 10:12 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by Kara

Posted by SweetestOfPeas

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.

how about a GC to Starbucks or DD's



That's a good idea!



But isn't that still a monetary tip?

Posted 12/8/07 10:13 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by CathyB

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.



Oh, we don't have jobs like that where we'd get into trouble. I agree, not worth it over a $20 gift.

Actually now that I think about it DH is licensed with the SEC. Maybe he could get into trouble too. Hmmm, guess maybe I should pick something up.



I know I'm being paranoid, but like you said - if there's a tiny chance, why take it over a $20 tip? I mean, I've seen the goverment do stupider things than finding a $20 tip "bribing a gov't official." LOL Not worth it to me. I think I go to too many ethics CLEs.

I think I'll give a gift card somewhere like Starbucks or DD or something. That sounds like a good idea. I think a Visa GC is a good idea, but too close for comfort for me.

Posted 12/8/07 10:14 AM
 

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Re: Mailman tipping - not supposed to accept cash?

Posted by 2girlsforme

Posted by Kara

Posted by CathyB

Technically yes, but they've never returned it when I slip a $20 into a card for them.


I understand that... but I have to be very careful as a member of the bar. While the chances are 1 in a 1,000,000 anyone would ever know, I don't want to get in trouble for it... (They've reprimanded lawyers for far less...)

Paranoid? Yes, I admit that...

But I will have to think of something else to give the mail carrier this year.



I'm also a lawyer, but my husband isn't and every year he "gives" the mailman $20, in a card. I'm hoping the grievance committee is more worried about co-mingling of escrow funds.



I believe I fully admitted I was being paranoid. Chat Icon Chat Icon

I've seen the character and fitness committee go ape over dumb things before though...

Regardless of MY personal reasons for tipping or not tipping, I just thought this was useful info to pass along. (It doesn't bother me what other people want to do - just passing along info I didn't know.)

Message edited 12/8/2007 10:18:22 AM.

Posted 12/8/07 10:15 AM
 
 

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