mini marriage/dh vent

so i want to go visit my best friend in california.

well everytime i bring it up dh gts all mad and makes snide comments like "if i want to take a vacation without you i dont want to hear it"

UMMMMMMM..... this gets me so mad because a)ive never gone anyehwere else without him b)im visiting MY friend
and its just like wth.

i HATE using this excuse to him, but its like even though i am married i still AM only 22 afterall. i think he forgets that sometimes... which is fine, but i KNOW when he was my age he was going palces and enjoying his life. just because im married shouldnt mean i cant still live my life.

i mean, its not like im coming back, and its only 3/4 days and it just gets me so agrivated!

ok thanks for letting me vent.

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I personally think it is very healthy to do things apart. A few days here or there is needed sometimes!!
And, it makes you appreciate them when you get back

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yeah, i agree. we do EVERYTHING together. its like sometimes i need time ALONE or on my own.

and youre right, i appreciate him more later.

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That's tough. Was he invited and cant go, or did you make plans to go yourself? I'm thinking he probably a little jealous that your going and leaving him home by himself. Either way, dont let him make you feel bad about it.

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I am leaving my husband in 12 days for colorado with my mother to visit my uncle. MY Dh gloats but thats because he wants to go and can't because of his job. But he still wants me to go and have some fun!