my best friend just told me she is pregnant..

and i feel horrible...

i am so happy for her but still after only 3 weeks snce our loss i cant help but cry

i put on my best happy face when i see her and i really am happy for her but i cant lie..it hurts

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Oh wow I know how you feel, even hearing people talk about babies I get upset and think why us?!

Just know that you will be there soon enough and cry if you need to cry, its healthy to get upset, you ened to grieve. Your body knew something was not right with your 1st child and that is why you had a mc, next time will be a healthy baby.

If you need anything we are here for you!

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That happened to me after my m/c and I had been trying for a while after..my best friend called and said she was pg w/out really trying...

but I feel like everyone deserves that experience and I don't wish what i went through on anyone...

It's perfectly ok to be sad for yourself and happy for your friend.

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DH and I have gone through the range of emotions upon finding out that friends are pregnant, during the whole time we were TTC. I burst into tears when I found out SIL was PG, and then I felt awful, b/c I really was happy for her, but sad for myself. It's totally normal.

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Sorry! It's def tough when others around you getting pregnant. Just think....hopefully you will get pregnant again soon, and you will have Little Ones around the same age.

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I'm sorry you are upset. I would feel the exact same way if my friend told me that right after my M/C. To be honest I would be upset now a few months after my loss if I found out my close friend was PG. I think it is completely normal to feel this way and very honest to say.

I hope you feel better soon!!

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I can understand how you feel. My best friend told me she was pregnant about a month after my first miscarriage and she had the baby about two weeks after my second miscarriage. I am happy for her but my heart aches.

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hugs for you!

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I understand how you feel. My SIL just told me she was going to start trying again and my heart sank thinking she could be pregnanct soon and I am still miscarrying 4 months later I feel horrible for feeling sad but I think it it is natural to feel that way.

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I'm so sorry this must be so tough for you.