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05mommy09
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My day from h e ll (added a pic and an update)

OMG this day has been completely exhausting...

I went into work this morning, DH brings DS into school around 8.

Around 9:30, I hear the kids out on the playground. I hear one child crying/screaming. It sounded nothing like my child.

Soon the sound came closer and closer to my desk, and there stood a covered in blood RJ.

His face was destroyed. I mean it looks worse than a UFC fighter. I panic (note to everyone, never be stuck in crisis with me- I suck!) I cant find the ice, not sure what to do (clean it first? ice it first? Think- what did I learn in all of my 1st aid training?). I'm hysterical crying, because he is clearly in so much pain, and just looks awful..

Where is his beautiful face???

I got him all cleaned up, and notice his face is very swollen, including his nose. (back track RJ broke his nose back in March)

I call my ped. concerned he may have re-broken his nose. Dr. says come right on in.

Off I go to the ped. where FIL meets me.
Ped looks at him, and immed. sends me for an xray, not only of his nose but of his "cheek bone" as well. I cry a lot more.

We go straight to the radiologist, which is primarily adults. Everyone who walked past us gasped as soon as they saw RJ. (ya know the OMG what happened gasp) It was awful.

We wait forever. Rj falls asleep on my lap, and all of a sudden it feels like I peed myself.

YEP- he peed in his sleep (which he never does) I was soaked, he was soaked, the chair as well as the carpet-SOAKED.

Mind you, I hopped in FIL car, therefore all of DS changes of clothing was back at the ped. office, in my truck.

We found a diaper in IL's car- and a blanket.

People must've been like get me a phone so I can call CPS. Here this child sits with a broken, bruised and bloody face; in nothing but a diaper and a blanket.

We finally get called in. It takes 2hrs to get 4 x-rays. Rj would not stop screaming. He wouldn't cooperate. I could hear him screaming through the double doors in the waiting room.

Luckily, there was no fracture. Just internal bruising, and a really banged up face (Ill try and post some pics tonight)

I just wanna cry. He looks awful, and this weekend is his party, and it just sucks!!!

I feel like my kid is always sick or hurt... I cant win
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Im so ontop of him, how do these things keep happening????

He is now Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and Im thinking about joining him!

Thanks for letting me vent.

ETA: UPDATE/PIC

Thanks everyone, thankfully he looks soooooo much better today... Here is a pic from last night (almost 12hrs later) You can see there is no more swelling and the cuts began healing fast; neosporin is working wonders-thank God!
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Message edited 10/4/2008 7:39:56 AM.

Posted 10/3/08 3:27 PM
 
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2BEANS
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Glad to hear your son didnt fracture anything.. hope he feels better soon and you too!!

Posted 10/3/08 3:29 PM
 

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OMG...poor RJ, and poor mommy! Chat Icon

Did he fall off some playground equipment?

Poor thing!!!

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Posted 10/3/08 3:30 PM
 

Jacksmommy
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Posted 10/3/08 3:31 PM
 

twobabies
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dear god. what happened to him??? did he get hurt on the playground???? my ds got hurt in school the other day.i posted about it. i went to school to find a softball sized bump on his head. i rushed him to the er thinking he had a concussion. he was fine. just looked horrible. he still has a bump and its now in that yellow stage of a black and blue. but kids heal quick and your ds will be back to new in no time. just wait and see. thank god hes ok.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:34 PM
 

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Poor Ry Chat Icon Poor you Chat Icon
What a horrible day! Hope he is feeling a little better. I hope they gave him some pain meds. Are you guys home now? If so dont forget friendly drugs delivers anything. If you guys need anything later let me know!!!!!
I feel awful...you guys cant catch a break!Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:35 PM
 

Eireann
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Oh no! What happened...he only fell down, I hope! I'm glad he's fine, but OMG...what an ordeal for you both!!!
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Posted 10/3/08 3:36 PM
 

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OMG Marissa. I'm so sorry. That must have been awful for you and him.
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Posted 10/3/08 3:38 PM
 

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Oh no!! Poor RJ! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon And hugs for you too - that must've been awful!! Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:39 PM
 

05mommy09
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He was pushing these trucks, I guess really fast, and tripped over the truck and dragged his face across the concrete side walk.

There are no longer trucks on the playground.

Posted 10/3/08 3:42 PM
 

Mommy2Boys
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I am so sorry RJ got hurt so badly! I think any of us would have freaked in that situation. It will look worse before it gets better...but he'll be as cute as always!

Posted 10/3/08 3:45 PM
 

sunflowerdmsrn
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I am so sorry. I am so glad RJ is ok. Nothing is broken thank God. I would have handled it the same way. And I am a nurse. We forget what we are supposed to do when its our own. Please let me know if I can help in anyway. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:47 PM
 

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You poor thing! I don't think most of us could think straight with a blood soaked child.Chat Icon

I'm so glad he's ok! I used to get upset (um, ok used to as in back in JuneChat Icon) about the way they looked in pictures for their birthday. It will be one of those part of growing up things he'll talk about with his friends.Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:52 PM
 

05mommy09
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You poor thing! I don't think most of us could think straight with a blood soaked child.Chat Icon

I'm so glad he's ok! I used to get upset (um, ok used to as in back in JuneChat Icon) about the way they looked in pictures for their birthday. It will be one of those part of growing up things he'll talk about with his friends.Chat Icon



I know in 25 yrs when we are gathering photos together for his wedding montage we will look at this pic and giggle...

But right now- Im not laughingChat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:58 PM
 

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Posted by monkeybride


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He was pushing these trucks, I guess really fast, and tripped over the truck and dragged his face across the concrete side walk.

There are no longer trucks on the playground.



OMG. Poor thingChat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 3:59 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Oh no, poor RJ Chat Icon
Im so glad he is ok but how frightening this all must have been for you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 4:02 PM
 

JennasMom
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Oh Marissa I am so sorry, I hope you and RJ are feeling betterChat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 4:06 PM
 

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Posted by Princessmaris

Posted by monkeybride


How did it happen? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



He was pushing these trucks, I guess really fast, and tripped over the truck and dragged his face across the concrete side walk.

There are no longer trucks on the playground.



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Poor RJ

Posted 10/3/08 4:06 PM
 

Melissa77
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for RJ and YOU. I hope he feels better soon.

Posted 10/3/08 4:09 PM
 

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Re: My day from h e ll

omg, how terrible...and I am with you on the freaking out part...I have NO composure during crisis

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Posted 10/3/08 4:11 PM
 

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OMG, how awful Chat Icon Poor RJ and Poor you. I hope he feels beter soon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 4:32 PM
 

Melbernai
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Re: My day from h e ll

Poor RJ! What a crazy day! I hope he is feeling better soon!!!!

If it is any consolation Sienna (Randi's DD) fell out of her huge ARMADA face first and hit the concrete over the summer. She had MAJOR scraping/swelling on her face and now, a few months later, you would never know it. She has no scars, and actually 1 week after it it was beginning to look much better.

Posted 10/3/08 4:34 PM
 

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OMG poor little guy, hope he's feeling better soon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/08 4:35 PM
 

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