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My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

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hopingforbaby
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My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

Last month I tried using OPKs but got really agitated with them and stopped after I got a maybe positive (it was the line tests) so this is my first REAL month using them (I have the digital now). I keep testing every night and I was certain I would get a smiley either yesterday or today but still nothing. I am getting so nervous that I wont get one and something is wrong with me! I get O-like symptoms every month so hopefully it will happen soon... Who knew TTC was SO stressful!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/10 8:09 PM
 
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Re: My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

i am in the exact same situation....first month using OPKs (i have digitals also). Today is cycle day 22 and still no Chat Icon . I know I have longer cycles so it will hopefully be here in the next few days, but its still freaking me out!!!

good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/10 8:12 PM
 

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Re: My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

I stressed out also and finally got my smiley on CD 14 or 15. Where are you in your cycle?

Posted 9/30/10 8:13 PM
 

hopingforbaby
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Re: My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

Posted by letsmakeababy

i am in the exact same situation....first month using OPKs (i have digitals also). Today is cycle day 22 and still no Chat Icon . I know I have longer cycles so it will hopefully be here in the next few days, but its still freaking me out!!!

good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you as well! Hopefully you get your smiley soon!!

Honestly I just don't think I have it in me to plan and test and temp anymore! and this is only month two! TTC has consumed my whole life.. I told DH this month I am giving it everything I got and if it doesn't happen then we are going to just take it as it comes. The stress can't be good for ttc anyways...

Posted 9/30/10 8:15 PM
 

hopingforbaby
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Re: My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

Posted by ttcsecret

I stressed out also and finally got my smiley on CD 14 or 15. Where are you in your cycle?



I have no idea and that is a big part of what is causing my stress! Sometimes I tend to "spot" the week before my period and it progressively gets heavier and heavier and then AF is here. I had bleeding for 14 days this month! If I am counting CD 1 as the first day I starting bleeding (heavy enough for a panty liner but not heavy like AF) then I am on CD 21. If I count when AF came heavier than I am on CD 13-14 or so.

I just feel like I have no idea what I am doing through all this! I don't even know how to check my own CM...DH and I have been Chat Icon Chat Icon like everyday so it's hard to check my CM when there is leftover semen all the time (sorry if tmi). I don't think I will never have this all figured out! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/10 8:22 PM
 

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Re: My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

Posted by hopingforbaby

Posted by ttcsecret

I stressed out also and finally got my smiley on CD 14 or 15. Where are you in your cycle?



I have no idea and that is a big part of what is causing my stress! Sometimes I tend to "spot" the week before my period and it progressively gets heavier and heavier and then AF is here. I had bleeding for 14 days this month! If I am counting CD 1 as the first day I starting bleeding (heavy enough for a panty liner but not heavy like AF) then I am on CD 21. If I count when AF came heavier than I am on CD 13-14 or so.

I just feel like I have no idea what I am doing through all this! I don't even know how to check my own CM...DH and I have been Chat Icon Chat Icon like everyday so it's hard to check my CM when there is leftover semen all the time (sorry if tmi). I don't think I will never have this all figured out! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I don't get the whole CM thing...haha I haven't even tried to figure it out. I think I would get too stressed. I say BD every other day and if you can just keep testing. I know its annoying. If you think you are CD 13-14 you should be getting your smiley soon.

Posted 9/30/10 8:30 PM
 

hopingforbaby
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Re: My first month REALLY using OPKs and I am totally stressing!

Thank you..I hope so!

CM confuses me too... Sticky, creamy, I have no clue! It's all the same to me..Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/30/10 8:36 PM
 
 

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