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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Kathy
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My Mom and her Stupid Comments
My Mom lives out of state so I've been sending her pics of my belly each week to keep her in the loop and she likes to print them for her albums.
Anyway, for the first 5 months or so, she just kept making comments about my boobs - like "wow you finally have boob!" or "wow you have Dolly Parton boobs!"
Then, when I got bigger, she started commenting of how huge I was - and how huge my Dolly Parton boobs are. (I dont think they look that big but whatever...)
So now, that I'm 36.5 weeks, I sent her another picture today and got back an email in all CAPS saying "OH MY GOD I THOUGHT YOU WERE HUGE BEFORE! I CANT BELIEVE YOU CAN STILL WALK AROUND BEING THAT HUGE!"
OK, I know I'm big - but am I abnormally huge or something? You guys saw my pic I posted yesterday - what do you think? I can't stand her stupid comments.
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Posted 4/13/06 2:25 PM  |
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CookiePuss
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Kathy - You look great! Don't let your mother upset you. She obviously can't appreciate what a beautiful, pregnant woman looks like.
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:26 PM |
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summerbaby
LIF Infant
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Danielle
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
It must be a mom thing. I went to see my mom last weekend after not seeing her for about a month or so. The first thing she said to me was WOW you got wide! I was like, gee thanks mom. She then proceeded to tell me that I must be having a girl. I asked why do you say that? With her arms held out wide and her cheeks blown up like blow fish, she says because you look like this. What is wrong with people? I am only 26 weeks, what is she going to say in 10 weeks???????? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:28 PM |
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bethsiar
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Beth
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Honestly I thought the pic was soooo cute, nothing else came across my mind at all.
I bet she's just not used to seeing you this way.
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:29 PM |
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CJC25
I luv My Daughter
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Jess
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Do not even let it get to you. People say such stupid things...you are supposed to grow big..and it is all worth it. You look fabulous....
 enjoy every moment of it.
ETA: My dad saw me yesterday and said to my sister wow she got big I hope she's not having twins...
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:29 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
You look amazing, all belly.
Moms sometimes.
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Diane
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Moms dont know when to keep their big mouths shut
You look GREAT and that is all that matters, and carrying a beautiful baby girl
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:34 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Kathy
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Oh yeah and she said "ARE YOU SURE YOU"RE NOT HAVING so-and-sos TWINS??" (My friend is having twins...so she's asking if Im sure Im not really the one having twins.
sometimes I just wanna 
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tiki03
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
It's definitely a mom thing because my mom sometimes says to me how fat I got. She doesn't say "huge or big", she says FAT. It annoys the crap out of me.
Oh and I forgot to mention, you do look great.
Message edited 4/13/2006 2:44:02 PM.
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:43 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Kathy
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
thanks girls!!
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| Posted 4/13/06 2:54 PM |
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pinky
Twin Moms Do Everything Twice
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
kathy you look fantastic. moms make stupid comments. my mom is already making them. i already warned her not to call me huge.
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| Posted 4/13/06 3:07 PM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
I think that you look awesome!!
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| Posted 4/13/06 3:14 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Nicole
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Mom's can be so dense. I was snacking the other day and my mom was like "do you eat like that all day long?!" UM, I'm 13 weeks pregnant and I've gained 1-2 pounds. I think I'm doing just fine, thank you very much.
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| Posted 4/13/06 3:41 PM |
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LInative
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Cassie
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
My mom told me the other day that she had news for me - since I'm over 30 that I wont loose all the baby weight. #1 - I AM 30, not over
#2 - WATCH ME, MOM! (that was my response to her)
Granted, she followed it up by saying "you were too skinny to begin with anyway" but that comment was NOT what I wanted to hear and certainly not from my own mother. I think they think they can say anything and get away with it because they're the mom. Hmph!
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| Posted 4/13/06 4:30 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
I thought you looked great! I did not think that you are abnormally large
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| Posted 4/13/06 4:37 PM |
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mrsmck
Be a big girl!
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Donna
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Wow!! That was really insensitive of her to say. You look fantastic, and the is so-o-o lucky to have you for her mommy!!!
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| Posted 4/13/06 4:38 PM |
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waytogo
Balancing act on a highwire
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
My mom always comments about my small boobs compared to her. But she is much heavier than I am.
I would picture her saying the same things as your mom-no filter.
You're not huge!
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| Posted 4/13/06 5:02 PM |
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CAJ
woulda, coulda, shoulda
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CJ
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Do you really think she is trying to hurt your feelings? I dont think so.... Remember they are getting older too!
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| Posted 4/13/06 5:03 PM |
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dandr10199
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Posted by Diane
Moms dont know when to keep their big mouths shut
You look GREAT and that is all that matters, and carrying a beautiful baby girl
I could not agree more. 
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| Posted 4/13/06 6:03 PM |
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
First of all , you are adorable and you look fantastic!!!
People make comments wihtout thinking and its rude. DOnt let it bother you!!
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| Posted 4/13/06 6:27 PM |
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dooodles
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
I'm so sorry that her comments were insensitive Moms can be amazing sometimes. You are PG and beautiful and don't you forget that! 
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| Posted 4/13/06 7:49 PM |
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computergirl
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Don't listen to those stupid comments! Your pics look great!
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| Posted 4/13/06 7:51 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Kathy
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Thanks girls!
I think I'm going to take a big old bare belly shot and email her that picture - since the last bare belly shot I sent her grossed her out completely. Maybe I'll have one printed in poster size and mail it to her. 
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| Posted 4/13/06 8:14 PM |
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Kate07
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Kate
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
Moms can be strange sometimes. I love my mother to pieces, but sometimes she says things before she thinks - and I know she doesn't mean for them to hurt me.
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| Posted 4/13/06 9:25 PM |
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Sandra
LIF Adult
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Sandra
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Re: My Mom and her Stupid Comments
I didn't see your pg photo, but if everyone else says you look good, well you probably do.
The comments from our mothers, well, I get those comments as well. Yesterday I called my mom and while talking she says "how's the adoption business going"?? (we are adopting)...if she could only have seen my face fall. gee thanks mom, that what it is to you? god forbid she said something sweet or nice while inquiring about her new grandchild.
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