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Leeners
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Eileen
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my mom just really hurt my feelings
I feel like such a child putting it that way but it's exactly what she did. I was on the phone with her telling her about Larry David's obedience school and how we want to do this now and get him perfect because I would just die if I had to get rid of him whenever we had kids because of behavior problems. So she goes, "Well god FORBID you get pregnant..." I was like  What? She goes, Oh, you know what I meant.
She said something similar to me about 3 mos ago as part of a different conversation. Now, we really have no intention of having children for at least a few years but what if we had decided to start earlier? And will that 3 years make that much of a difference or is she still going to say mean things like this then? I mean, I know I'm not the most maternal person in the world but I don't think I'm that bad 
Sorry for the rambling, not sure if it even made sense, she just really upset me.
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Tany
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
I'm sorry, sometimes we do say or do things without thinking.
I'm sure she loves you very much and she will be thrilled when that time comes.
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:38 PM |
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baghag
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:39 PM |
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june262004
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
WOW I would have been upset. My mother always said enjoy your first few years of marriage. But we wanted to try right away. I just dont think people realize what they say sometimes.
why would she say "god forbid you got pregnant" Like its a bad thing. Its the most amazing thing.
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:40 PM |
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IluvBo
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Rose
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
I'm sorry she hurt your feelings.
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:41 PM |
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DonnaJoe708
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
I'm sorry.
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:41 PM |
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Janice
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
your mom had a lot of kids right? My mom did as well. She was never in a rush for me to have a baby. I think that consumed so much of their life that they want to see us do other things before committing everything to babies.
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:46 PM |
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babyhopes
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
Some moms are good for that! (Mine SUREEEEE is)
sorry it hurt you....
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:48 PM |
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Bxgell2
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
My mom used to do the same thing to me anytime I mentioned kids... I think it was more because she was scared of giving up her "baby" and couldn't imagine being a grandmother just yet... but when I DID get pregnant, although I was terrified to tell her (god knows why, it's not like I'm 15 - I'm 30 and married), she was ECSTATIC... never fear, it might just be her own fears that are speaking through, and have nothing to do with what she thinks of your maternal instincts
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:52 PM |
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
Sorry
Last night I was talking to my mom about doing over the nursery as the 1st room to re-do in the new house and she had the same reaction but I know its just a mom's reaction because they are concerned for every little reason.
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:55 PM |
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MrsERod
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| Posted 9/20/05 3:58 PM |
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Kate
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| Posted 9/20/05 4:15 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Shanti
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Re: my mom just really hurt my feelings
I'm sorry
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| Posted 9/20/05 5:33 PM |
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04bride
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