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VirginiaDeb
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My mom was in a car accident

I just got an e-mail from my step-dad, she's fine save a bump on her head, but it's her fault... and now apparently she's feeling like crap and doing this "I should have died, I don't deserve to live." stuff.

He wants me to call her and see if she'll tell me, but i don't know what to say...

Any words of wisdom I could give her?

I may wait to call till tomorrow since she may be asleep (she's battled with depression in the past, and i know how she gets... she just holds up in her room and sleeps).

And, plus, I'm a wee bit tipsy, so i don't know if this is the best time to call...

Oh, and I just go tthe e-mail now.. he sent it 3 hours ago.

ETA: if she had entered the intersection a half second earlier she could have seriously been injured... and that's scaring the crap out of me....

Message edited 11/14/2006 9:18:01 PM.

Posted 11/14/06 9:16 PM
 
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LadyPrincess
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Deb -so sorry abt yr mom
and GLAD she is ok Chat Icon Chat Icon
word of wisdom? nope, just let
her know you love her & glad she is okChat Icon

Message edited 11/14/2006 9:19:58 PM.

Posted 11/14/06 9:19 PM
 

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Re: My mom was in a car accident

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Posted 11/14/06 9:19 PM
 

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Re: My mom was in a car accident

i know its not easy- but try not to worry about the 'could have beens'... because they didnt happen- and they didnt happen for a Reason.
I'm glad she's ok!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/14/2006 9:23:31 PM.

Posted 11/14/06 9:21 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 9:22 PM
 

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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I don't have any words of advice, but I am very happy that she was not seriously hurt

Posted 11/14/06 9:24 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 9:24 PM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Just be there for her to talk to if she needs to...

Posted 11/14/06 9:25 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 9:45 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 9:46 PM
 

janet
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

no words of real wisdom but i hope she feels better soon!Chat Icon

Posted 11/14/06 9:47 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

No words of wisdom since I don't know your mom well enough to give it. I do agree that calling when you're tipsy isn't the best idea.

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Posted 11/14/06 9:48 PM
 

Jax430
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

If she's really feeling down, there probably aren't any "right" words you can say to make her feel better. Just listen to her and acknowledge how she's feeling. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/14/2006 9:51:23 PM.

Posted 11/14/06 9:51 PM
 

VirginiaDeb
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Okay, I did call... my step-dad had told me not to tell her that i knew.. so i didn't, i just told her was giving her a katie update... and she didn't say anything about the accident Chat Icon I mean, I guess she's embarrassed... but I didn't expect her to not say anything at all... i'll be up in a week, i'm going to notice the car isn't there.

i just hope she's able to handle this.

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Posted 11/14/06 9:54 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 9:55 PM
 

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Re: My mom was in a car accident

glad that she'll be ok

Posted 11/14/06 9:55 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 10:09 PM
 

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Posted 11/14/06 10:12 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Posted 11/14/06 10:13 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Deb, thank God she's OK. It could've been much worse.

Hey, it wasn't right by her job, was it? My sister saw an accident right there this morning, and said it was kinda messy.

Posted 11/14/06 10:14 PM
 

Diva
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Deb, I'm so sorry about the accident, but relieved that she is ok. I'm sure when she's ready, she'll talk to you about it. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/14/06 10:16 PM
 

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Posted 11/15/06 6:58 AM
 

VirginiaDeb
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Thanks for the hugs everyone Chat Icon

Shorty - It was in the evening actually, she had to get a bulb replaced, so she was coming home from the dealership.

I'm going to try again tonight and ask her if i could borrow her car while we're up cuz kev and i have seperate plans... We shall see...

Posted 11/15/06 7:03 AM
 

Arissa444
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Re: My mom was in a car accident

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to your Mom. Thank gosh, she is okay. I think the best advice to you would be to call her and see if she is willing to talk about what happened....if not don't push her. She will talk when she is ready. I hope that she's okay......Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/15/06 7:11 AM
 

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Posted 11/15/06 7:35 AM
 
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