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Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

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PrayingWishingHopingALOT
LIF Infant

Member since 8/08

116 total posts

Name:
XX

Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

I am a regular poster but decided to post under a different name right now.
Does anyone ever have BAD days?? I just mean that does anyone ever feel like they are never going to be blessed with a little Chat Icon Chat Icon
I could just cry my eyes out all day today. Some days are so much better than others and it is hard to keep that "when the time is right it will happen" attitude on every day. I mean, it is also sooooo hard to constantly hear "Guess who is preggo???" It feels like everyday I find out someone else is expecting and despite the fact that I wish everyone the best, it makes me sick! i know I sound so terrible for saying this and i am pretty good at putting on a good front, but I am so tired of doing that. I dont want to sound like a bad person, but today is a sad day.



My DH doesnt even know why I feel this way (I didnt tell him), he just thinks I am in a Bitchy mood today
Need some support and hugs from my fellow LIFers!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/08 3:18 PM
 
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hopeandfaith75
LIF Adolescent

Member since 7/08

587 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

I could have written this myself! I feel like every day in terms of TTC is a bad day. Whether it's the dreaded "guess who's pregnant" call or seeing people with babies it's upsetting! My personal favorite are the questions "so when are you going to start a family" or "are you pregnant"

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Posted 8/10/08 3:22 PM
 

MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3

Member since 1/06

19197 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

Yes... 2 years of trying to get pregnant, I had those days ALOT!!!

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Posted 8/10/08 3:40 PM
 

BABYMAMA13
LIF Infant

Member since 7/08

270 total posts

Name:
blue eyes

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

i have those days your not alone, you just have to keep hope. ur going to be a mother. How long have u been TTC?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/10/2008 4:07:16 PM.

Posted 8/10/08 4:07 PM
 

hisfavgirl
LIF Infant

Member since 4/07

202 total posts

Name:
Amanda

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

I feel the same way sometimes too...i know if i talk to my dh about things like that he'll just say "it will happen for us"...your not alone Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/10/2008 5:01:11 PM.

Posted 8/10/08 4:57 PM
 

PrayingWishingHopingALOT
LIF Infant

Member since 8/08

116 total posts

Name:
XX

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

Thanks Girls. I knew a lot of you would understand. it is just hard I guess some days. Chat Icon Chat Icon
I know eventually it will happen, but the thing that bothers me is I have no idea WHEN eventually will be.
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Its just a bad day for me. I am not trying to sound dramatic. Its that the summer is almost over and I keep setting goals of "when" it will happen, only to keep moving these goals back and back!
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Yes, and if one more person asks me why I am waiting so long to start a family I am going to go nuts on them!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon
Thats a common one for me too! I cant stand it. And it is so hard to lie about something I am really so upset over. Chat Icon

Message edited 8/10/2008 5:14:20 PM.

Posted 8/10/08 5:12 PM
 

Nikkibean
LIF Adolescent

Member since 6/08

647 total posts

Name:
I'm waiting for you to come back to me

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

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Posted 8/10/08 6:13 PM
 

live-laugh-love
LIF Zygote

Member since 8/08

38 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

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Posted 8/10/08 7:05 PM
 

MadDogMrsT
Wishing & Hoping

Member since 1/08

1227 total posts

Name:
Here's Hoping

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

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Posted 8/10/08 7:14 PM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

Member since 5/06

11197 total posts

Name:
Michele

Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

I know how you feel.
The funny thing is, even w/ the clomid and ALL the BDing we did around O time, I never, never could picture POAS and seeing that 2nd line. I just cant see it happening.

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If you need to cry, DO IT!

Posted 8/10/08 7:56 PM
 

when
Maybe this time?

Member since 7/07

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Re: Need Some Hugs!- Bad Day

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I can really empathize with you. Its very hard to want something so much.....more than anything else in the world, and not really have much control over it.
DH's don't always understand.....even if they are really sensitive men, its just not the same and they don't really "get it". Its not the same.

I wish I had something to say to make you feel better but I just don't....however, Chat Icon . ANd just keep up the thoughts that you, too, will have your day to dance in the sun.

Posted 8/10/08 8:14 PM
 
 

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