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MikesGirl323
LIF Infant
Member since 5/08 180 total posts
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kate
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Need to vent.
ok so i had a MC about 8 weeks ago, and i was 20w. My FH and i are not married yet. we plan to get married in the spring. So last night i was out with my FH, and FBIL, and my FBIL proceeds to lecture me about birth control, and tells me to make sure we are married b/f we TTC, well i just started crying. who the F*** is he or anyone for that matter to tell me when we should TTC. my fh told me hes a jerk b/c he is old and has no wife and kids and that hes jealous. so i told him its none of his business and he has no idea what i have been through. I mean what the hell. Am i just being too sensitive.
i have enough to worry about with someone judging me. He was like i dont know about u but i wasnt brought up like that.
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Posted 6/23/08 11:59 AM  |
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MadDogMrsT
Wishing & Hoping
Member since 1/08 1227 total posts
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Here's Hoping
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Re: Need to vent.
I'm so sorry. People can be such jerks sometimes.
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| Posted 6/23/08 12:01 PM |
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Babyonmind
LIF Toddler
Member since 12/07 495 total posts
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wishingfor3rd
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Re: Need to vent.
What a jerk!! I would have your FH talk to him and tell him to back off and mind his own business.
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| Posted 6/23/08 12:17 PM |
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MikesGirl323
LIF Infant
Member since 5/08 180 total posts
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kate
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Re: Need to vent.
Posted by Babyonmind
What a jerk!! I would have your FH talk to him and tell him to back off and mind his own business.
yeah he did, b.c my FBIL didnt even talk about it until he left the room. what a snake. i was gonna punch him!!
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| Posted 6/23/08 12:21 PM |
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HelenZ
So worth the wait :)
Member since 10/07 2862 total posts
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Helen
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Re: Need to vent.
Posted by MikesGirl323
Posted by Babyonmind
What a jerk!! I would have your FH talk to him and tell him to back off and mind his own business.
yeah he did, b.c my FBIL didnt even talk about it until he left the room. what a snake. i was gonna punch him!!
that's so rude that he decided to talk to you about this while your FH wasn't even there!!  it sounds like he needs a lesson on manners- he has no right preaching to you like that!!
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| Posted 6/23/08 12:55 PM |
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MikesGirl323
LIF Infant
Member since 5/08 180 total posts
Name:
kate
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Re: Need to vent.
Posted by HelenZ
Posted by MikesGirl323
Posted by Babyonmind
What a jerk!! I would have your FH talk to him and tell him to back off and mind his own business.
yeah he did, b.c my FBIL didnt even talk about it until he left the room. what a snake. i was gonna punch him!!
that's so rude that he decided to talk to you about this while your FH wasn't even there!! it sounds like he needs a lesson on manners- he has no right preaching to you like that!!
thank you very much.. i am not embarrassed or do i even care if i was or am pregnant b/f i am married. times have changed. hes just a bitter person.
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| Posted 6/23/08 1:00 PM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
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Re: Need to vent.
What a total A-Hole!!!
Sorry you had to deal with that.
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| Posted 6/23/08 1:53 PM |
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ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up
Member since 7/07 4427 total posts
Name:
Jeri
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Re: Need to vent.
What a jerk!
It is NO ONES business when you TTC except you and FH.
I would have FH tell him that his comments were out of line and not to bring it up again.
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| Posted 6/23/08 1:56 PM |
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ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up
Member since 7/07 4427 total posts
Name:
Jeri
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Re: Need to vent.
Posted by MikesGirl323
Posted by HelenZ
Posted by MikesGirl323
Posted by Babyonmind
What a jerk!! I would have your FH talk to him and tell him to back off and mind his own business.
yeah he did, b.c my FBIL didnt even talk about it until he left the room. what a snake. i was gonna punch him!!
that's so rude that he decided to talk to you about this while your FH wasn't even there!! it sounds like he needs a lesson on manners- he has no right preaching to you like that!!
thank you very much.. i am not embarrassed or do i even care if i was or am pregnant b/f i am married. times have changed. hes just a bitter person.
ITA. DH and I had DD before we were married. We were actually going to TTC for #2 last June, but we decided to get married and have a baby after. I was fine with having two before we were mr. & mrs.
I'm sorry FBIL is being like that
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| Posted 6/23/08 1:58 PM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
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Re: Need to vent.
Posted by ArmyOfBabies
Posted by MikesGirl323
Posted by HelenZ
Posted by MikesGirl323
Posted by Babyonmind
What a jerk!! I would have your FH talk to him and tell him to back off and mind his own business.
yeah he did, b.c my FBIL didnt even talk about it until he left the room. what a snake. i was gonna punch him!!
that's so rude that he decided to talk to you about this while your FH wasn't even there!! it sounds like he needs a lesson on manners- he has no right preaching to you like that!!
thank you very much.. i am not embarrassed or do i even care if i was or am pregnant b/f i am married. times have changed. hes just a bitter person.
ITA. DH and I had DD before we were married. We were actually going to TTC for #2 last June, but we decided to get married and have a baby after. I was fine with having two before we were mr. & mrs.
I'm sorry FBIL is being like that
Ditto. DS was 3 when me and DH got married. I didn't care what anyone thought about it.
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| Posted 6/23/08 2:16 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
Member since 5/06 11197 total posts
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Michele
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Re: Need to vent.
As long as FH i son your side, who cares about that HEARTLESS jerk???
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| Posted 6/23/08 2:23 PM |
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Daisy32
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Re: Need to vent.
FBIL was WAAAY out of line!!!!!!!
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| Posted 6/23/08 2:25 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Jen
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Re: Need to vent.
Message edited 11/22/2010 12:24:24 PM.
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| Posted 6/23/08 2:31 PM |
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newwife08
LIF Adult
Member since 6/08 1001 total posts
Name:
Indira
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Re: Need to vent.
He's an a*#hole! Vent all you want...I think your hubby is right..he sounds jealous...when you have a baby is up to you...and no MAN, who will never have a baby, has the right to tell you anything about it!!! Tell him to go get a life the next time he says a word to you!! gggrrrrrr...you know what...give me his number!! I'll put him in his place!!
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| Posted 6/23/08 3:45 PM |
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MikesGirl323
LIF Infant
Member since 5/08 180 total posts
Name:
kate
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Re: Need to vent.
Posted by newwife08
He's an a*#hole! Vent all you want...I think your hubby is right..he sounds jealous...when you have a baby is up to you...and no MAN, who will never have a baby, has the right to tell you anything about it!!! Tell him to go get a life the next time he says a word to you!! gggrrrrrr...you know what...give me his number!! I'll put him in his place!!
lol thank you.. this just been really hard for me. i mean i never had a problem with it. why should i feel bad.
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| Posted 6/23/08 3:54 PM |
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hmm8191
My loves
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Heather
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Re: Need to vent.
Wow...what an a*s. I'm really sorry for you.
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| Posted 6/23/08 4:04 PM |
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