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Not sure how to feel....

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maybeamommy
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Not sure how to feel....

DH brought in his sample for the SA yesterday, and we should be finding out results at his appointment on Tuesday.

On one hand, I want something to be wrong. Then we have an answer. We have a reason why we're not pregnant yet and we can take the next steps.

On the other hand, of course I don't want anything to be wrong with my DH! There is a chance that some recent life events could have had a negative effect on his body maybe leading to possible problems, but who knows. I would feel horrible and I know he would feel so guilty (even though obviously he shouldn't!). It would leave so many unanswered questions, and then where would we go next?

I guess this is just a vent!

I'm 14 dpo and have no symptoms of being PG or of having AF coming (but it's been that way occasionally when she's on her way).

Thanks for listening. If you have any advice/comments/whatever, I'd love to hear itChat Icon

Posted 6/6/08 11:53 AM
 
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Babyonmind
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wishingfor3rd

Re: Not sure how to feel....

Try to stay positive. Everything will be ok. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Where you planning on taking a test or waiting for af to be late?

Posted 6/6/08 11:59 AM
 

Blissful
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Maria

Re: Not sure how to feel....

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The only thing I can say that helps me through hard times and days when I don't know whay certain things happen is that we all have a "plan" and everythign happens for a reason.

You are a source of inspiration for many girls on this board with you positive outlook and you are always there to leave a comforting word........

I Chat Icon You get your answers soon!

Posted 6/6/08 12:01 PM
 

MetsGirl07
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Deanna

Re: Not sure how to feel....

i can totally relate to how you are feeling right now! in a different way ..

how you were saying you almost "want" something to be wrong so you can have it fixed and answer all your problems.... WELL, i feel the SAME way about myself.. after my MC i almost WANTED to be diagnosed with Incompetent Cervix..(like my sister) and go on to have the stitches, then having a healthy baby... i didnt care at that point .. as long as i had answers..

so i know how you feel in a way..and just know that they will find an answer.. you just have to PUSH them! and not let ANY doctor take things lightly.. just remember that! cause now I can get the stitches as a preventative measure.. because I pushed for them!!

sorry so long, just wanted to share my storyChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/08 12:15 PM
 
 

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