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Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

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hopeandfaith75
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K

Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

I think it is once a week I get a question(s)

Today.."hey I have to ask you something, when are you going to have kids? Maybe if you had kids that would soften you up"

I swear to God this was actual dialogue! In front of other people in a main part of where I work. Oh and this was by a male coworker.

W T F!

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Posted 12/2/08 7:09 PM
 
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ynot2
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Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

OMG people are so freakin' rude!!
We shouldn't be surprised by what comes out of their mouths but it always stings!!

Here's a few to add on to your post...

Today one of my co-worker was asking for tampons and she by passed me and said "oh - you probably don't carry any!"

Then a few weeks ago someone rubbed my stomach and smiled at me... *****!

And about a month ago a co worker came in with her 7 week old baby and another co-worker of mine said "oh you'd better go home and tell your husband that you've got the itch for one of those!" Chat Icon

And my neighbor constantly asks if I am PG yet?!

People really need to learn to stop asking!! When we have good news to share we will gladly tell you!

Sorry you had a bad day!!
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Posted 12/2/08 7:44 PM
 

hopeandfaith75
LIF Adolescent

Member since 7/08

587 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

I don't know if I should say it's good that I am not alone that there are other idiots out there saying this to other peopleChat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 7:47 PM
 

Sneezy
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Member since 5/05

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Jen

Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

I have a few snappy comebacks, but nothing perfected yet.

Posted 12/2/08 8:50 PM
 

-BabyMiracle-
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J

Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

Posted by Sneezy

I have a few snappy comebacks, but nothing perfected yet.



My mom told my sister to tell my aunt that her DH prefers to only have sex "in a certain way"....thus preventing pregnancy if you know what I mean.

I really hate people! Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 9:48 PM
 

Diana712
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Diana

Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

I would have said I am trying but I am having a really hard time getting pregnant ... my husband and I are distraught over it actually.. its such a sensitive subject.. That will shut him the he!! up!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/2/08 9:58 PM
 

WNA01
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Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

people are IDIOTS. I just posted something just as insensitive from DH Aunt and cousins. Ive been married for 7 years and u know the looks and remarks i get? I had someone tell me (who knows i have if problems) to have sex more often and it will happen.,, ***?????

Posted 12/3/08 10:03 AM
 

MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

Posted by dilb712

I would have said I am trying but I am having a really hard time getting pregnant ... my husband and I are distraught over it actually.. its such a sensitive subject.. That will shut him the he!! up!! Chat Icon



I agree with this!

I actually did this earlier this year when someone at my father's surprise party had me cornered and wouldn't let up. I finally snapped back and said told her (not so nicely I might add) that we had been trying for 1.5 years at that point, had one loss. However, instead of her dropping it, she kept going and ask me if I was sure we were doing everything possible to get pregnant. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/08 10:13 AM
 

ynot2
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Member since 3/08

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Re: Notice to the people I work with..I AM NOT PREGNANT STOP ASKING

Posted by hopeandfaith75

I don't know if I should say it's good that I am not alone that there are other idiots out there saying this to other peopleChat Icon



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It's good to know that we are not alone and that we have a place to vent about the idiots that we come across each day!!

Posted 12/3/08 4:35 PM
 
 

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