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Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

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Pooka
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Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

The newest, and most entertaining story has just officially unfolded. DH told me last week that his parents booked a trip for this week to go to Florida until Sept. 1st. I am due Sept. 5th, but it obviously could happen any day. Needless to say, DH and I have not been happy about this. They go to Florida every month to their house down there. They aren't missing anything! This is their first grandchild!!!! DH talked to them about cancelling the trip but they insisted on going. In fact, they both said "all first time babies come late. She won't have the baby early." When did they get their obstetrical degree?

They left about a half hour ago and they don't come back until Monday.

Is it terrible that I spitefully wish the baby would come this week so that we can call them and they have to rush back home???

Posted 8/26/08 4:54 PM
 
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twinkletoes807
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Come on Baby G!!! Come out this weekend!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/08 4:56 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Chat Icon That is cutting it a little close for my taste.

My parents booked a cruise 16 days after the day I am due. But got insurance, just in case. Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/08 4:56 PM
 

mindygirl73
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

I would absolutely hope for an early delivery just to say "told ya so"...

Come on baby!!!!!!!!

Posted 8/26/08 4:58 PM
 

GaknTak
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

They are being selfish, to be honest. They so should have stayed home this one time. I DO HOPE you go into labor this week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IL's can be so annoying.

Posted 8/26/08 5:00 PM
 

WhitneyL
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

They aren't even my family and i've been wishing for this baby to come while they are in Florida since you guys told me they were going!!!
That'd be a nice little silent retribution after that untimely "announcement" at your shower Chat Icon
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Posted 8/26/08 5:01 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

That's just terrible. I would be seriously ticked off if either my IL's or parents did such a thing. I agree with you though..........it would be great if the baby came early just on principle. You know what though, you can't control other people's actions so my advice is to not sweat it too much because you can't change anything and you're at a point right now in your pregnancy where you should be relaxed and happy and excited. Don't let their stupid decision ruin the most amazing time in your life!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/08 5:06 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

wow. i would be so hurt if my ILs did that - mainly because my DH would be hurt and how dare they hurt my DH!!

i don't understand why they couldn't have waited... i am sorry krista! Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/08 5:11 PM
 

Pooka
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Every time I think I can figure them out, they do something that throws me for a loop. The thing that is killing me is that they might miss the moment when DH walks out of the delivery room and announces that Baby G was born! I feel terrible for DH!!

It's not like this was a once in a lifetime trip either. They go almost every month. They cancelled their September trip at DH's request just in case the baby came late. And, they are going for a week or so the first week of October. I just can't figure them out.

Posted 8/26/08 5:25 PM
 

astroqueen74
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

come out come out


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Message edited 8/26/2008 6:00:41 PM.

Posted 8/26/08 5:59 PM
 

mommysboy
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

I hope you baby comes as well this week just to spite them.Good luckChat Icon

Posted 8/26/08 7:36 PM
 

newwife08
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

LABOR VIBES! LABOR VIBES! So selfish of them...As long as your baby is in good health, I hope baby comes while they are away!!! LABOR VIBES! LABOR VIBES!Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/26/2008 8:15:04 PM.

Posted 8/26/08 8:14 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Lurker here!
I will tell you, it CAN happen!

My inlaws went to FL in the beginning of Jan (07). My due date was Jan. 26th.
Low and behold, my water broke and DS was born on Jan. 15th.
My inlaws left for FL on the 13th. They were very hesitant to go, but, they thought the same thing (Heck, even *I* thought I was going late), but, you just never know!

I did feel bad for DH that his parents missed it, but, as soon as there plane landed they were there for us.Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/08 8:24 PM
 

2003fallwedding
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Sending you LOTS of labor vibes!!!! I hope you have the baby soon!!!! I would be annoyed too that they refused to stay home Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/08 8:37 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Welllll - Silver lining...........
If the baby DOES come early, at least you won't have to 'deal' with them immediately ! Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/08 8:39 AM
 

Lucky09
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Ummm, is it bad that I WISH my IL's would book a trip to FL when I am due?

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Posted 8/27/08 12:00 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Posted by MarisaK

Welllll - Silver lining...........
If the baby DOES come early, at least you won't have to 'deal' with them immediately ! Chat Icon




ITA hopefully baby comes this week!!!!

Posted 8/27/08 12:56 PM
 

Violet
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

don't stress about it Chat Icon
it's their choice to possibly miss the birth of their first grandchild.

Posted 8/27/08 1:05 PM
 

puppylove
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

I wouldn't stress about it. Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/08 7:16 PM
 

babyonthebrain
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Re: Oh how the IL's drive me crazy...let me count the ways...

Hope your baby comes this weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! {labor vibes} lololol
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Posted 8/27/08 8:33 PM
 
 

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