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OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

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Shanti
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OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Anyone who knows me know that this is not my typical behavior. MIL's boyfriend is an ignorant jerk. In the past, I have just sat and listened to various tirades (anti-Semitict things, racists things, and once, that the Holocaust never happens -- yes, you read that right). Tonight, he started going off on ALL immigrants and said every last one should be sent home, legal or illegal. My entire family on my mother's side, including my mother, are immigrants. I said, "I'm sorry, I have to go, I don't need this" and walked out, with DH behind me. I feel bad, I sent my MIL a quick apology e-mail since it was not her, but my blood was BOILING!

Posted 5/12/06 9:49 PM
 
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traceyd
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You did the right thing to walk away instead of get into it with him about it

Posted 5/12/06 9:51 PM
 

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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Chat Icon i probably would have done the same thing...
except not so nicely worded!! Chat Icon
sorry you had to be subjected to such ignorant comments!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/12/06 9:51 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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I would have done the SAME thing!Chat Icon Although, I know it must have been hardChat Icon

Posted 5/12/06 9:51 PM
 

Wendy1220
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

I don't blame you one bit. You can only take so much and I give you credit for dealing with it for as long as you have, I have no tolerance for ignorance like that. Sorry you had a crappy night.

Posted 5/12/06 9:55 PM
 

Redhead
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Posted 5/12/06 9:56 PM
 

janet
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You did the right thing to walk away instead of get into it with him about it



agreed! better to walk away!Chat Icon

Posted 5/12/06 9:58 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Some people are so ignorant. Chat Icon

Posted 5/12/06 10:00 PM
 

bklyngirl
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i'm sorry danielaChat Icon

Posted 5/12/06 10:04 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Thanks, ladies. There is only so much ignorant hate you can hear before you crack and tonight, I did!

Posted 5/12/06 10:06 PM
 

traceyd
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon On a much happier note-Happy Anniversary in 2 hours!!!

Posted 5/12/06 10:07 PM
 

Shanti
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon On a much happier note-Happy Anniversary in 2 hours!!!



ThanksChat Icon

Posted 5/12/06 10:08 PM
 

dooodles
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Wow Daniela, I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Knowing you, I know it had to really be a lot for him to get under your skin. I'm surprised your MIL puts up with it.

Posted 5/12/06 10:08 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Posted by dooodles

Wow Daniela, I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Knowing you, I know it had to really be a lot for him to get under your skin. I'm surprised your MIL puts up with it.



So am I, to be honest, and it has been years. I feel badly because we had a nice dinner with them in honor of our anniversary but it was HIM that ruined it not me.

I am actually shaking right now because I NEVER behave like that and I cannot believe I did it, even though I do not think I was wrong.

Ok, I need to breathe then go and have fun with my hubby of almost 1 year.

Posted 5/12/06 10:10 PM
 

Shanti
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Posted 5/13/06 1:12 AM
 

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Posted 5/13/06 1:27 AM
 

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What an ignorant jerk!! You were right and he had no right to be auch an A$$ when it was a dinner to celebrate YOUR anniversaryChat Icon

BTW: Unless he's 100% Native American blood, WE are all descendents of immigrants.

He seems to be from MARS which would definitely make him an alien immigrantChat Icon

Posted 5/13/06 5:29 AM
 

SoinLove
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

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I agree. Props to you for not blowing up. I know I would've.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/13/06 7:59 AM
 

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Posted 5/13/06 8:01 AM
 

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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

I'm really proud of you for walking out. It takes a strong person to take a stand against remarks like that, particularly when it's a relative making them.

While I truly hope he rethinks what he said & apologizes to you, I'd say it's unlikely. People like that never learn & rarely see the error of their ways.

Kudos to you -- and Happy Anniversary!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/13/06 8:12 AM
 

ssbride05
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Good for you... wow./.. he is really ignorant!! I am sorry you had to go through that !!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/13/06 8:17 AM
 

bklyngirl
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

knowing you these last few months, i know that you can't be mean to anyone. what he did was just mean. just enjoy today with y our dh.Chat Icon

Posted 5/13/06 8:28 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

What an idiot! You have some strength to just walk out and not reach out and smack his face. Some people are so ignorant.

Posted 5/13/06 9:42 AM
 

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Posted 5/13/06 9:43 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: OMG I just walked out of my MIL's house

Posted by Stefanie

What an idiot! You have some strength to just walk out and not reach out and smack his face. Some people are so ignorant.



I agree! D you are the better person, and he is obviosuly an ignorant fool.

Somewhere in L.I a village is missing it's IDIOT!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/13/06 9:44 AM
 
 

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