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Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!! UPDATE: I LET HER HAVE IT!!!

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adeline27
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Angela

Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!! UPDATE: I LET HER HAVE IT!!!

She's driving me crazy about when to send bridal shower party invites. The RSVP for the party is August 12th. The party is August 25th.

When should the invites be sent out? I want to send them out tomorrow, she wants to send them out Monday. Who freakin cares it's only 3 days difference. She thinks it's too soon if I send them out tomorrow. *** we're talking 3 days difference here. If I send them tomorrow it gives people 3 weeks to respond to the RSVP.

Message edited 7/20/2007 8:34:10 AM.

Posted 7/19/07 5:28 PM
 
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Jessica
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my SIL

6-8 weeks before event

Posted 7/19/07 5:29 PM
 

adeline27
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Angela

Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my SIL

Posted by Jessica

6-8 weeks before event



So we're kind of considered late in sending them Chat Icon

I'm just going to mail them without her knowing. She's a BRIDEZILLA!!!

Posted 7/19/07 5:30 PM
 

Jessica
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

def send them out now
especially since the shower is in the summer
peoples summer weekends book up quickly

my mom sent out my shower invites 7 weeks before the date

Posted 7/19/07 5:32 PM
 

Christine
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

They should probably be sent sooner then later but I wouldn't argue or stress over sending them 3 days later then I would prefer.

Posted 7/19/07 5:41 PM
 

DanaRenee
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

send them now and tell her to calm herself...geez whats the big deal!!!

Posted 7/19/07 6:40 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

Just send them now and don't tell her! Why would she want to wait?

Posted 7/19/07 6:43 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

send them out now and to hell with her and the few day difference.

Posted 7/19/07 6:43 PM
 

alnem
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

Posted by BNL2005

send them out now and to hell with her and the few day difference.



agreed...and in truth its only 2 days because sunday there's no mail.

Posted 7/19/07 7:13 PM
 

jms100303
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

I would say ASAP!! My summer wknds fill up very quickly and I would want to know sooner rather then later. In fact, I am booked through the second week of Sept already.

Posted 7/19/07 7:27 PM
 

Ladybug63
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D

Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

Send them out. Being it's the summer people make plans early.

My Baby shower invites went out July 9th & the partys on the 19th.

Posted 7/19/07 7:40 PM
 

adeline27
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Angela

Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!!

Well I am sending the out today. Just to let you guys know it wasn't easy....

When I went to pick up the box this morning I don't know why I even called her to let her know I was on my way to the post office.

She was like wait we'll send them out tonight. I want to look over them one more time to make sure they are good, I want to look at the list of invites again...I freakin' lost it right then and there. I told her first it was you think you're sending them out too early, 2nd you wanted to wait until your grandmother came home from her vacation (she'll be back in a week just fyi) now its you want to make sure the they are "OK" to send out like I don't know how to address envelopes. I had it I told her off on the phone and told her that she causes all the drama. I must of said that line 5 times and I just hung up on her.

I drove to the post office to find that they don't open till 9 ( I want to hand stamp them myself) I'm really upset right now I want to cry I shouldn't even be doing this **** or stressing out over this ****. I'm 6 mos pg and people around me need to get off my back. I QUIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 7/20/07 8:32 AM
 

Kara
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!! UPDATE: I LET HER HAVE IT!!!

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Posted 7/20/07 9:01 AM
 

tray831
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!! UPDATE: I LET HER HAVE IT!!!


My friends shower is August 26th and her mom sent us the invites about 2 weeks ago..........LOL So I think you'll be OK. Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/07 9:21 AM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!! UPDATE: I LET HER HAVE IT!!!

I would find SOMEONE that can't come and have them tell her it's because they didn't get the invite in time. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You'll be innocent and she'll be out a gift. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/07 9:37 AM
 

Emily
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STBHC

Re: Party Invites when to send...before I kill my FUTURE SIL!!! UPDATE: I LET HER HAVE IT!!!

We are going to a wedding on the 18th of August (I think that is the Saturday) and we got the invites over a month ago. We mailed in the RSVP almost 3 weeks ago.

Posted 7/20/07 10:02 AM
 
 

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