People who invite themselves over!!!!

I know they are family and all, but I still have a real issue with people inviting themselves to our house!!!!

I just got an email from my MIL asking what I want them to bring for dinner on Christmas night.

Ummm...we haven't invited you.

We haven't even talked about it yet.

I probably would have invited you, but now that you insinuated yourself into my house, I don't WANT you there.

Of course, I can't say these things in an email, and if I say them to DH he will just get upset.

So I vent here and then I get to suck it up and play nice.



Thank you. Vent over!!