I am sorry for your lost. I myself had a D&C back in june for a blighted Ovum. I know how hard it can be to lose a pregnancy. I can assure though, that the D&C was probably the easiest part of the whole experience for me. It was quick and phyically painless. My emotional state was another story. But over time that has gotten better. I will keep you and your DH in my prays.