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pinkandblue
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Name: Stephanie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by HollaGirl
What the hell is a PSA?
PSA = Public Service Announcement
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Posted 11/16/06 1:35 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
But of course ....
If you feel strongly aout the issue and want to vent publically BY ALL MEANS....
but for some reason....passive aggressive BS i find quite iritating
and ultimately it just leaves people
And does it really change anything at all?
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Posted 11/16/06 1:37 PM |
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emilain
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by Redhead
Posted by HollaGirl
Posted by Redhead
my spin on okay
ohhhhhhhhhhhtaaaaaay
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhtay
Sorry i find this post cheesy...
1. if it is one person that is being "talked about" then there is no need for a PUBLIC service announcement..since the PUBLIC at large doesn't have this problem..
2. If you are going to call someone out...DO IT. Why be passive aggressive ....If you feel that strongly...DIRECT the comments as such...If do not feel that strongly about it...whine to a friend...
3. peeps...these are public boards...If you don't not want someone repeating a story you posted or a version of it...maybe you shouldn't post about it...
4. LOTS of people talk about the posts and what people say on these boards...NOTHING is going to be changed by a PSA...
EVERYONE DOES IT...
how rude of you!! No one asked for your opinion on this topic, and BTW, people address topics to their "lurkers" all the time (MILs, SILs, co-workers, etc)
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Posted 11/16/06 1:39 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by emilain
how rude of you!! No one asked for your opinion on this topic, and BTW, people address topics to their "lurkers" all the time (MILs, SILs, co-workers, etc)
it isn't rude
It is my opinion...
don't like it...
don't care
ETA...YOU have certainly given your UNSOLICITED comments about peoples posts/threads on here ...
yet i am rude when i give mine...
Message edited 11/16/2006 1:43:22 PM.
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Posted 11/16/06 1:40 PM |
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emilain
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by Redhead
Posted by emilain
how rude of you!! No one asked for your opinion on this topic, and BTW, people address topics to their "lurkers" all the time (MILs, SILs, co-workers, etc)
it isn't rude
It is my opinion...
don't like it...
don't care
ETA...YOU have certainly given your UNSOLICITED comments about peoples posts/threads on here ...
yet i am rude when i give mine...
not worth my energy
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Posted 11/16/06 1:44 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by emilain
not worth my energy
interesting the double standards that you have
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Posted 11/16/06 1:46 PM |
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emilain
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by Redhead
Posted by emilain
not worth my energy
interesting the double standards that you have
ANYWAY... back to the subject at hand, sorry you're going through this Melissa, maybe this post will put your lurker "in check"
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Posted 11/16/06 1:53 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by emilain
Posted by Redhead
Posted by emilain
not worth my energy
interesting the double standards that you have
ANYWAY... back to the subject at hand, sorry you're going through this Melissa, maybe this post will put your lurker "in check"
OMG you are too funny
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Posted 11/16/06 1:54 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Name: Stephanie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by Redhead
But of course ....
If you feel strongly aout the issue and want to vent publically BY ALL MEANS....
but for some reason....passive aggressive BS i find quite iritating
and ultimately it just leaves people
And does it really change anything at all?
Nevermind
Message edited 11/16/2006 2:05:48 PM.
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Posted 11/16/06 2:05 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by stephanief
Posted by Redhead
But of course ....
If you feel strongly aout the issue and want to vent publically BY ALL MEANS....
but for some reason....passive aggressive BS i find quite iritating
and ultimately it just leaves people
And does it really change anything at all?
I think the OP is hoping that the "lurker" will read this and then drink a nice tall glass of some "S T F U".....
i get that...
i just think that a LOT of people "talk" in FM and whatnot... And posts like this can cause the wrong people to think they did something wrong... when they didn't... So i am a believer in the direct approach..public or not jmho
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Posted 11/16/06 2:07 PM |
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neenie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by stephanief .. the lucker will drink a big glass of S.T.F.U....
Why not just FM the lurker then? i'm sure this can be frustrating... but i dont see how reacting to an immature act with more immaturity will solve anything
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Posted 11/16/06 2:07 PM |
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MegZee
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Re: PSA(self serving)
That stinks that people cant mind their own business -
I woudnt post info you wouldnt want anyone to read. i think we often forget this is the internet, and anyone can read it.
but people shouldnt be talking about what you post, that stinks!
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Posted 11/16/06 2:09 PM |
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leighla
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Re: PSA(self serving)
I agree that if she knows who the person is, this should have been handled in FM.
But I know several of us have had issues where we didn't know WHO it was that was harassing us or sharing things that they shouldn't have shared and in that case, calling out on the boards is okay IMO.
ETA: I'm not clear which case it is for this particular post.
Message edited 11/16/2006 2:12:27 PM.
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Posted 11/16/06 2:12 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by leighla
But I know several of us have had issues where we didn't know WHO it was that was harassing us or sharing things that they shouldn't have shared and in that case, calling out on the boards is okay IMO.
ETA: I'm not clear which case it is for this particular post. GOOD point...
i guess i assumed it was known who the poster was...
my bad
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Posted 11/16/06 2:13 PM |
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KGools
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Re: PSA(self serving)
It's a double edge sword. You want the security to post whatever you want to post but then you're posting on a public forum. It can cause trouble... bottom line though, people should respect posters and the subject matter at hand, personal or not.
Contact the "offender" via FM... I bet it would solve your problem faster and to the point and also show this person that you're not one to mess with. Direct confrontation is a lot more intimidating (for lack of a better word) than beating around the bush...
Good luck!
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Posted 11/16/06 2:15 PM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Re: PSA(self serving)
My father once told me..."Never put anything in writing that you don't want the whole world to see."
I think it's a pretty wise statement, no matter what the format.
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Posted 11/16/06 2:18 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Name: Stephanie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by stephanief .. the lucker will drink a big glass of S.T.F.U....
Why not just FM the lurker then? i'm sure this can be frustrating... but i dont see how reacting to an immature act with more immaturity will solve anything
I don't know, I see people do this all the time (call people out for lack of a better term), I can't see the big deal, but whatever
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Posted 11/16/06 2:20 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by stephanief .. the lucker will drink a big glass of S.T.F.U....
Why not just FM the lurker then? i'm sure this can be frustrating... but i dont see how reacting to an immature act with more immaturity will solve anything
All this did was make 100 people want to know "the story" you didnt want anyone else to know is....
Im confused...
Message edited 11/16/2006 2:22:46 PM.
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Posted 11/16/06 2:20 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by Chatham-Chick
My father once told me..."Never put anything in writing that you don't want the whole world to see."
I think it's a pretty wise statement, no matter what the format. IMAGE
I TOTALLY agree with that
I think that this chat site people get really comfortable with talking about their lives and forget this is a PUBLIC CHAT ROOM...
sure i think it is weird that MIL's and IL's and whatnot come on here and read posts purposefully..
But come on now....
at the end of the day...IT IS THE INTERNET....
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Posted 11/16/06 2:21 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Name: Stephanie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
It may have snowballed....surprise, surprise
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Posted 11/16/06 2:21 PM |
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emilain
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by stephanief
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by stephanief .. the lucker will drink a big glass of S.T.F.U....
Why not just FM the lurker then? i'm sure this can be frustrating... but i dont see how reacting to an immature act with more immaturity will solve anything
I don't know, I see people do this all the time (call people out for lack of a better term), I can't see the big deal, but whatever
You're exactly right
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Posted 11/16/06 2:22 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by stephanief
It may have snowballed....surprise, surprise
Everything snowballs sure...
But I bet every person who read this wanted to know what the OP is talking about......
cryptic posts are just annoying IMO
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Posted 11/16/06 2:23 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by dm24angel
Posted by stephanief
It may have snowballed....surprise, surprise
Everything snowballs sure...
But I bet every person who read this wanted to know what the OP is talking about......
cryptic posts are just annoying IMO
okay
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Posted 11/16/06 2:26 PM |
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neenie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by dm24angel cryptic posts are just annoying IMO
exactly.
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Posted 11/16/06 2:27 PM |
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neenie
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Re: PSA(self serving)
Posted by Chatham-Chick
My father once told me..."Never put anything in writing that you don't want the whole world to see."
I think it's a pretty wise statement, no matter what the format. IMAGE
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Posted 11/16/06 2:27 PM |
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