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Question regarding RSVP etiquette

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stayandjohn
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Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Invitations for my DH surprise party have been out for over a month. Today is the RSVP date, there are still 16 couples/people who have yet to respond.

My question, is tomorrow too early to call these people or should I wait until Monday?

Posted 7/20/07 10:46 AM
 
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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

I would wait until Monday

Posted 7/20/07 10:48 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Me too. Give people the weekend.

Posted 7/20/07 10:49 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

If it's past the RSVP date and you need to know, tomorrow's not a big deal.

Posted 7/20/07 10:56 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

I would wait till Monday. However, I just don't get why people can't RSVP!!! This is such a pet peeve of mine.

Posted 7/20/07 10:57 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

That is one of my biggest pet peeves. Chat Icon Don't people realize that you might NEED a head count??

Posted 7/20/07 10:58 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Posted by ~Melissa~

That is one of my biggest pet peeves. Chat Icon Don't people realize that you might NEED a head count??


Tell me about it. NONE of my FH's parents guests (family included) responded to our wedding by the RSVP date. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/07 11:00 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

I would call tomorrow, the RSVP was today, time to get crackin' on the stragglers!

Posted 7/20/07 11:02 AM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Posted by curliegirl

I would call tomorrow, the RSVP was today, time to get crackin' on the stragglers!



Just to add they are all from DH's side. Reminds me of my wedding Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/07 11:04 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Posted by Kara

If it's past the RSVP date and you need to know, tomorrow's not a big deal.


I agree - for my wedding I called people the evening of the RSVP date. I needed to know THAT day, that's why I made it the RSVP date...

Posted 7/20/07 11:04 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Posted by stayandjohn

Posted by curliegirl

I would call tomorrow, the RSVP was today, time to get crackin' on the stragglers!



Just to add they are all from DH's side. Reminds me of my wedding Chat Icon



Oh, do we have the same in-laws?!?!?!?!!?

ALL of DH's mother's side had to be called numerous times. And after they said they were coming, they didn't show up!!!! Chat Icon That's it for you!

Posted 7/20/07 11:05 AM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Posted by ~Melissa~

That is one of my biggest pet peeves. Chat Icon Don't people realize that you might NEED a head count??



Exactly!! Its in a catering hall, I need to get the head count in by Wednesday

Posted 7/20/07 11:05 AM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

Posted by curliegirl

Posted by stayandjohn

Posted by curliegirl

I would call tomorrow, the RSVP was today, time to get crackin' on the stragglers!



Just to add they are all from DH's side. Reminds me of my wedding Chat Icon



Oh, do we have the same in-laws?!?!?!?!!?

ALL of DH's mother's side had to be called numerous times. And after they said they were coming, they didn't show up!!!! Chat Icon That's it for you!




OOOOH MAN do not get me started on that!!!! LOL

Those people who rsvp's and didnt show, they have been banished from my life LOL

Posted 7/20/07 11:06 AM
 

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Re: Question regarding RSVP etiquette

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Posted by Kara

If it's past the RSVP date and you need to know, tomorrow's not a big deal.


I agree - for my wedding I called people the evening of the RSVP date. I needed to know THAT day, that's why I made it the RSVP date...



And FMIL didn't want to call them right away. I NEEDED to know THAT day.

People never cease to amaze me. Chat Icon Still - 2 weeks later, there is still one couple they haven't called! Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/07 11:15 AM
 
 

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