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WWYD?????

Forum Opinion Poll
o for 3 days and leave the babies home w/grandparents (supplement, pump) 6 6.12%
Don't go 62 63.27%
Bring the babies to Mexico w/the grandparents 30 30.61%
 

Random WWYD w/Poll

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DanaRenee
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Random WWYD w/Poll

Here are the facts:
You're invited to a wedding in Mexico (DH's college friend)
Baby #1 is 20mos old
Baby #2 is 2mos old
You are BFing

If I go and don't bring DC#2 not only will she have to get formula, but I'll have to pump many times a day to keep up my supply Chat Icon

Message edited 9/21/2008 9:14:26 PM.

Posted 9/21/08 9:09 PM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

It would really depend on who's wedding it was. If it was a family member and you HAD to go I would consider just pumping and saving it with formula as a back up. If it is a friend, I wouldn't go. If you bring your 2 month old DC, you won't have a good time, so why go.

IMO!! Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/08 9:12 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I wouldn't be able to leave a 2 month old so your last option is what I chose.

Posted 9/21/08 9:16 PM
 

AugustMommy
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I personally would not go...If your husband is close to them, can he go alone?

Posted 9/21/08 9:16 PM
 

DanaRenee
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by AugustMommy

I personally would not go...If your husband is close to them, can he go alone?


Chat Icon Oh this made me laugh!
He CAN go alone, but theres no way in friggin hell I would let him go to mexico to party his a*s off for a few days while leaving me home w/2 babies!!!!!

Message edited 9/21/2008 9:19:43 PM.

Posted 9/21/08 9:18 PM
 

smiles
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I would not go. All of the options seem like a hassle with a ton of stress and issues to deal with. It would be too much for me.

Posted 9/21/08 9:19 PM
 

Porrruss
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I did this- except DD was 7 months old and we had enough of a freezer stash so my parents could give her BM. I pumped every 4-5 hours to keep my supply up.

That said- there is no way I would have done it if DD was 2 months old. At that point, you are still establishing a good milk supply and the baby nursing is the best way to do that.

If you can bring the grandparents, and your PED OKs it, then do it!

Posted 9/21/08 9:19 PM
 

AugustMommy
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by DanaRenee

Posted by AugustMommy

I personally would not go...If your husband is close to them, can he go alone?


Chat Icon Oh this made me laugh!
He CAN go alone, but theres no way in friggin hell I would let him go to mexico to party his a*s off for a few days w/o me !!!!!!!!!!



RLOL..that's true..didnt think of it that way. I was just thinking about it from a mom's point of view....guess if it were me, it would be too much for me to worry about bringing 2 babies...the whole BF thing...I stress out too much..lol

Posted 9/21/08 9:20 PM
 

luvsun27
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I guess I'm in the minority...I would totally go and leave both babies with the grandparents. It will be good for both you and DH to get away for a few days...and I'm sure the grandparents will love having the babies all to themselves Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/08 9:41 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

My first answer is stay home and don't go at all. If going is a must, bring the kids and grandparents.

Posted 9/21/08 9:48 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I do't think I could leave a 2 month old for 3 days.

If you can afford it, bring grandparents and put them in the room with the kids.

Posted 9/21/08 9:50 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by monkeybride

I wouldn't be able to leave a 2 month old so your last option is what I chose.




Same here.

Posted 9/21/08 9:55 PM
 

Deedlebugs
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by MelToddJulia

Posted by monkeybride

I wouldn't be able to leave a 2 month old so your last option is what I chose.




Same here.




I'm with them

Message edited 9/21/2008 10:46:39 PM.

Posted 9/21/08 9:56 PM
 

smdl
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I would not go.

I would not leave a 2 month old baby for 3 days and I would not bring a 2 month old baby in Mexico even with the grandparents. This is too young IMO.

Posted 9/21/08 10:07 PM
 

KPtoys
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by smdl

I would not go.

I would not leave a 2 month old baby for 3 days and I would not bring a 2 month old baby in Mexico even with the grandparents. This is too young IMO.



I agree.

Posted 9/21/08 10:10 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

All of our recent health issues, it will be a very long time before I bring kids out of the country.

I would stay home...If dh still wanted to go, he would go solo.

Posted 9/21/08 10:14 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I would send DH and not go.

Posted 9/21/08 10:15 PM
 

My2Boys
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by Diana1215

I would send DH and not go.




Ditto. And I would take full advantage of the grandparents who will be available to help. Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/08 10:44 PM
 

julz33
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

I would not go. If it was in the US, I would take the babies and bring the grandparents. But not to Mexico that young!

Posted 9/21/08 10:52 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by smdl

I would not go.

I would not leave a 2 month old baby for 3 days and I would not bring a 2 month old baby in Mexico even with the grandparents. This is too young IMO.



I already voted so i can't change my answer but my mind wasn't really even thinking about the baby being 2 months old. I would vote, don't go.

Posted 9/21/08 11:29 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by Diana1215

I would send DH and not go.




I would do the same.

Bringing a 2 month old to Mexico wouldn't be an option for me.

If I went to Mexico with out my 2 month old, I would pump & dump the milk while down there. I was in Mexico in April. Eight people on our trip came down with "Montezuma's Revenge" when they ate outside the complex. One was hospitalized for dehyrdation.

Posted 9/22/08 6:49 AM
 

ckdk
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by smdl

I would not go.

I would not leave a 2 month old baby for 3 days and I would not bring a 2 month old baby in Mexico even with the grandparents. This is too young IMO.



same

ETA: I would have no problem with DH going alone

Message edited 9/22/2008 7:28:17 AM.

Posted 9/22/08 7:27 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by Diana1215

I would send DH and not go.




I would do the same.

Bringing a 2 month old to Mexico wouldn't be an option for me.

If I went to Mexico with out my 2 month old, I would pump & dump the milk while down there. I was in Mexico in April. Eight people on our trip came down with "Montezuma's Revenge" when they ate outside the complex. One was hospitalized for dehyrdation.

This was my thought as well. I am not sure I would even use the milk if I went.

I think I would not go.

Posted 9/22/08 9:27 AM
 

Bklyngrl
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

i think it would be too much of a hassle with a 2 month old and bf'ing etc. but maybe you can decide as the wedding gets closer and after the baby is here.

uh yeah my dh wouldnt be going to party and leaving me with 2 babies either Chat Icon

Posted 9/22/08 9:49 AM
 

nbc188
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Re: Random WWYD w/Poll

Posted by My2Boys

Posted by Diana1215

I would send DH and not go.




Ditto. And I would take full advantage of the grandparents who will be available to help. Chat Icon



ITA!

Posted 9/22/08 9:54 AM
 
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