Repost from Travel - 4 day trip -where??

Sorry if this is the wrong board but I know this gets more action than the travel board so here goes...

I need help ....DH and I need a break desperately.....but we will be taking our 8mth with us ...we just cannot bear to leave her behind!
So we are going to take 4 days probably a Fri - Mon and dont know where to go.

We are thinking about NC - Asheville maybe but wonder if its worth the hassle of flying with DD etc for such a short length of time.

We are also thinking of just getting in the car and going upstate NY somewhere. That way we can pile all of DD's stuff in the car and just go.

Any advice? We would love to go next week.

Thanks a lot

Re: Repost from Travel - 4 day trip -where??

Mohonk Mountain House in New Paltz. I havent been there but have heard great things about it.