Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by PearlJamChick
Posted by Mrs213
You know all kidding aside I just don't know what it is about Roz but certain people just love to give her a hard time on here. Borderline stalkerish if you ask me. They love to jump on her posts and attack her, bring up old posts that she made and threw it in her face. As soon as one person jumps on and attacks her everyone comes out of the woodwork and gangs up on her. Is it jealousy or something? I just cant wrap my head around how women In their 40s and 50s can get so riled up about this kind of crap and act like teenagers. What about this poster makes you so enraged that it's all you can talk about it? Because she said something gross? Who hasn't around here?
Pssssshhhh dude that's so easy.
It's because Roz is fun and real and well-liked (and my autocorrect wants to change her name from 'Roz' to 'Fox' all the time - because she is one)...and they are not fun. And probably not well-liked. And probably not foxy. Because you cannot be any of those things when your panties are in such a tight twist over musings about, of all things...poo.
And there you have it.
I'm sorry I just find this offensive and sad So some peope think she was crude, some people think she could have added TMI. I'll be honest I read the post after the drama and it was no big deal THEN, but had I been on there I would have thought it was about her hearing a hb, or her shower, or her gender reveal not her poop. It's not what she said it was how she said it that made me squirm. It did *to me* come across as being a tad vulgar and *to me* did warrent a TMI. I have not read many of her posts I don't think, but it sounds like that's just how she rolls, so good for her. My point in this is there is a lot of defending what she said and how she said it, the term bully being used to describe how some people felt and so on and then you post this. I'm sorry I just really find this tasteless and offensive. I know one of the posters you are refering to and she is none of these things she "must be" and posts like yours are what get people fired up. Think it's crapp, think we're tight assses go ahead, but please don't be so rude as to say we must not be fun or well liked because we found something crass that you found funny.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by medic6809
Posted by PearlJamChick
Posted by Mrs213
You know all kidding aside I just don't know what it is about Roz but certain people just love to give her a hard time on here. Borderline stalkerish if you ask me. They love to jump on her posts and attack her, bring up old posts that she made and threw it in her face. As soon as one person jumps on and attacks her everyone comes out of the woodwork and gangs up on her. Is it jealousy or something? I just cant wrap my head around how women In their 40s and 50s can get so riled up about this kind of crap and act like teenagers. What about this poster makes you so enraged that it's all you can talk about it? Because she said something gross? Who hasn't around here?
Pssssshhhh dude that's so easy.
It's because Roz is fun and real and well-liked (and my autocorrect wants to change her name from 'Roz' to 'Fox' all the time - because she is one)...and they are not fun. And probably not well-liked. And probably not foxy. Because you cannot be any of those things when your panties are in such a tight twist over musings about, of all things...poo.
And there you have it.
I'm sorry I just find this offensive and sad So some peope think she was crude, some people think she could have added TMI. I'll be honest I read the post after the drama and it was no big deal THEN, but had I been on there I would have thought it was about her hearing a hb, or her shower, or her gender reveal not her poop. It's not what she said it was how she said it that made me squirm. It did *to me* come across as being a tad vulgar and *to me* did warrent a TMI. I have not read many of her posts I don't think, but it sounds like that's just how she rolls, so good for her. My point in this is there is a lot of defending what she said and how she said it, the term bully being used to describe how some people felt and so on and then you post this. I'm sorry I just really find this tasteless and offensive. I know one of the posters you are refering to and she is none of these things she "must be" and posts like yours are what get people fired up. Think it's crapp, think we're tight assses go ahead, but please don't be so rude as to say we must not be fun or well liked because we found something crass that you found funny.
There's a huge divide on this forum. You have nasty women who can't seem to mind their own business and consistently sit in judgment. Then you have people who don't like those kinds of women. There's also the people who just don't give a crap. But seriously, the constant dissecting and rehashing is OLD. Say you don't like it, or don't read it, and keep it moving!
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VanderZwang
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by DumpsterBaby
There's a huge divide on this forum. You have nasty women who can't seem to mind their own business and consistently sit in judgment. Then you have people who don't like those kinds of women. There's also the people who just don't give a crap. But seriously, the constant dissecting and rehashing is OLD. Say you don't like it, or don't read it, and keep it moving!
This is what I dont actually understand.
If you dont like the post, why even respond???
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by DumpsterBaby
There's a huge divide on this forum. You have nasty women who can't seem to mind their own business and consistently sit in judgment. Then you have people who don't like those kinds of women. There's also the people who just don't give a crap. But seriously, the constant dissecting and rehashing is OLD. Say you don't like it, or don't read it, and keep it moving!
Or you (the general "you" not YOU) could ignore the snarky comments and move along.
You can't argue with someone who won't argue back
Shit like this goes on ALL THE TIME on the Childless Families board...just ignore the people you deem to be an asshole and move on.
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MRsFaTThead
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
a similar post from pregnancy
posting on the pregnancy baord about being consitpated during pregnancy and calling #2 a big fat dump is vulgar? to me vulgar would be a description and a pic
is it really that hard for so many to see it as being plain old silly.
i guess many of you missed this little face in my post
not like i posted my problem on fhf
btw, i have no problem with any of the comments. its a public forum. it comes with the territory
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by MRsFaTThead
a similar post from pregnancy
posting on the pregnancy baord about being consitpated during pregnancy and calling #2 a big fat dump is vulgar? to me vulgar would be a description and a pic
is it really that hard for so many to see it as being plain old silly.
i guess many of you missed this little face in my post
not like i posted my problem on fhf
btw, i have no problem with any of the comments. its a public forum. it comes with the territory
And that people, is CLASS
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JoJo2010
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
HOLY CRAP PEOPLE LET THIS DIE
I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND WHY WE HAVE TO KEEP MAKING THREAD AFTER THREAD BRINGING UP THE TOPIC.
Some people didnt like it, some people thought it was funny..okay fine MOVE ON! Do we really have to make a MILLION posts on the SAME DAMN TOPIC!
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MrsC614
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
for the love of god let it go already.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by JoJo2010 Do we really have to make a MILLION posts on the SAME DAMN TOPIC!
Yes.
Are you talking about Pinterest? I swear you're talking about Pinterest.
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DumpsterBaby
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by Jenn627
Posted by JoJo2010 Do we really have to make a MILLION posts on the SAME DAMN TOPIC!
Yes.
Are you talking about Pinterest? I swear you're talking about Pinterest.
Breastfeeding????
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headoverheels
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by DumpsterBaby
Posted by medic6809
Posted by PearlJamChick
Posted by Mrs213
You know all kidding aside I just don't know what it is about Roz but certain people just love to give her a hard time on here. Borderline stalkerish if you ask me. They love to jump on her posts and attack her, bring up old posts that she made and threw it in her face. As soon as one person jumps on and attacks her everyone comes out of the woodwork and gangs up on her. Is it jealousy or something? I just cant wrap my head around how women In their 40s and 50s can get so riled up about this kind of crap and act like teenagers. What about this poster makes you so enraged that it's all you can talk about it? Because she said something gross? Who hasn't around here?
Pssssshhhh dude that's so easy.
It's because Roz is fun and real and well-liked (and my autocorrect wants to change her name from 'Roz' to 'Fox' all the time - because she is one)...and they are not fun. And probably not well-liked. And probably not foxy. Because you cannot be any of those things when your panties are in such a tight twist over musings about, of all things...poo.
And there you have it.
I'm sorry I just find this offensive and sad So some peope think she was crude, some people think she could have added TMI. I'll be honest I read the post after the drama and it was no big deal THEN, but had I been on there I would have thought it was about her hearing a hb, or her shower, or her gender reveal not her poop. It's not what she said it was how she said it that made me squirm. It did *to me* come across as being a tad vulgar and *to me* did warrent a TMI. I have not read many of her posts I don't think, but it sounds like that's just how she rolls, so good for her. My point in this is there is a lot of defending what she said and how she said it, the term bully being used to describe how some people felt and so on and then you post this. I'm sorry I just really find this tasteless and offensive. I know one of the posters you are refering to and she is none of these things she "must be" and posts like yours are what get people fired up. Think it's crapp, think we're tight assses go ahead, but please don't be so rude as to say we must not be fun or well liked because we found something crass that you found funny.
There's a huge divide on this forum. You have nasty women who can't seem to mind their own business and consistently sit in judgment. Then you have people who don't like those kinds of women. There's also the people who just don't give a crap. But seriously, the constant dissecting and rehashing is OLD. Say you don't like it, or don't read it, and keep it moving!
So let me clarify something (just for my own peace of mind). I can think it, and I can reply to a thread saying I don't like it, but that makes me nasty, and I should never ever make my own thread about simply because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting in thinking something was foul, because that makes me a bully.
Do I have that right or am I missing anything?
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
So let me clarify something (just for my own peace of mind). I can think it, and I can reply to a thread saying I don't like it, but that makes me nasty, and I should never ever make my own thread about simply because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting in thinking something was foul, because that makes me a bully.
Do I have that right or am I missing anything? ding ding ding
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by headoverheels
So let me clarify something (just for my own peace of mind). I can think it, and I can reply to a thread saying I don't like it, but that makes me nasty, and I should never ever make my own thread about simply because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting in thinking something was foul, because that makes me a bully.
Do I have that right or am I missing anything?
No no no HOH, you're only a bully if people agree with your POV. Sheesh you should know that by now.
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headoverheels
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by colette
Posted by headoverheels
So let me clarify something (just for my own peace of mind). I can think it, and I can reply to a thread saying I don't like it, but that makes me nasty, and I should never ever make my own thread about simply because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting in thinking something was foul, because that makes me a bully.
Do I have that right or am I missing anything?
No no no HOH, you're only a bully if people agree with your POV. Sheesh you should know that by now.
I think I need a refresher course
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
Of course, someone jumped in and said it wasn't a big deal, it's a figure of speech, it was directed at everyone, not just mrs213, let it go, and other things, but those are fighting words, if you ask me. "You bet your fat ass" is personal, I don't care how you spin it, or whether you know someone's size or not.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
Posters need to stop thinking they have an automatic pass to be cruel and shit-stirrers, and OTHER posters here need to call them out on it if it continues.
You treat people the way you want to be treated, and further, no one should allow themselves to be treated that way, or stand by and watch someone else treat someone poorly.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by cncforever
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR, nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
Oh please, maybe we just don't put up with the fake and disgusting BS. Oh lets all kiss so and so's butt. Har har har, being foul and using words like dump are so funny. You are so cool. Whatever, it was gross, we all know it was gross. Talking about mucous plugs, which is a part of pregnancy that can be scary and new is a lot different then talking about taking a big fat dump. We all know that certain posters post this shit because of the attention it gets.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by colette
Posted by headoverheels
So let me clarify something (just for my own peace of mind). I can think it, and I can reply to a thread saying I don't like it, but that makes me nasty, and I should never ever make my own thread about simply because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting in thinking something was foul, because that makes me a bully.
Do I have that right or am I missing anything?
No no no HOH, you're only a bully if people agree with your POV. Sheesh you should know that by now.
November is approaching fast Heath, I shall become LIF's most hated. Hold tight.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by cncforever
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
Of course, someone jumped in and said it wasn't a big deal, it's a figure of speech, it was directed at everyone, not just mrs213, let it go, and other things, but those are fighting words, if you ask me. "You bet your fat ass" is personal, I don't care how you spin it, or whether you know someone's size or not.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
Posters need to stop thinking they have an automatic pass to be cruel and shit-stirrers, and OTHER posters here need to call them out on it if it continues.
You treat people the way you want to be treated, and further, no one should allow themselves to be treated that way, or stand by and watch someone else treat someone poorly.
And you with the secret name, where have your balls gone? it must feel soooo good to call people out behind a fake name Because we all know you're an old-timer
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by cncforever
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
Of course, someone jumped in and said it wasn't a big deal, it's a figure of speech, it was directed at everyone, not just mrs213, let it go, and other things, but those are fighting words, if you ask me. "You bet your fat ass" is personal, I don't care how you spin it, or whether you know someone's size or not.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
See and I see it differently. Let me preface by saying that I do not think it was a big deal what she wrote on the pregnancy board, my opinion. BUT I dont think its "great" to see 08' and above brides come on a defend a position that even the OP doesnt give two cr@ps about. There was drama presented by both sides. Oh and I also think dividing yrs of who got married when representing mean girls vs nice girls, C'mon thats a bit of a stretch.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by Deedlebugs
Posted by cncforever
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR, nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
Oh please, maybe we just don't put up with the fake and disgusting BS.
there wouldn't BE any fake and disgusting BS if people just eased off a bit and didn't get their jollies off of causing trouble and walking a fine line between cruelty and "oh, well, I may have said THIS and THAT, but I didn't break any of the terms of service here on LIF. I've gotten warned, but I never crossed the line, I just come very close to it."
Scam artist posters who have conned people here deserve to be treated like shit. Not Mrs213. And not anyone else.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by cncforever
Posted by Deedlebugs
Posted by cncforever
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR, nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
Oh please, maybe we just don't put up with the fake and disgusting BS.
there wouldn't BE any fake and disgusting BS if people just eased off a bit and didn't get their jollies off of causing trouble and walking a fine line between cruelty and "oh, well, I may have said THIS and THAT, but I didn't break any of the terms of service here on LIF. I've gotten warned, but I never crossed the line, I just come very close to it."
Scam artist posters who have conned people here deserve to be treated like shit. Not Mrs213. And not anyone else.
What about those with crap morals?
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by Deedlebugs
Posted by colette
Posted by headoverheels
So let me clarify something (just for my own peace of mind). I can think it, and I can reply to a thread saying I don't like it, but that makes me nasty, and I should never ever make my own thread about simply because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting in thinking something was foul, because that makes me a bully.
Do I have that right or am I missing anything?
No no no HOH, you're only a bully if people agree with your POV. Sheesh you should know that by now.
November is approaching fast Heath, I shall become LIF's most hated. Hold tight.
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Re: Roz- Who gives a fudge who gives a poo..
Posted by headoverheels
Posted by cncforever
If there was one good thing to come out of this, it's that not only have the newer people like more recent brides in the past 2-3 years caught on rather quickly to the nasty women here - who have a reputation of being nasty for the sake of being nasty, snarky, and shit-stirrers, or who only pop on threads to continue to cause drama or act like 5 year olds - but that they have started to call them out on it.
It's refreshing to finally see the older '05 - '08s finally get called out on being nasty, since no one else seems to have the balls to do it, either out of fear of being attacked or disrupting the pack.
Once I read the phrase "you bet your fat ass..." last night directed towards mRs213, from a PAYING VENDOR nonetheless, I realized why so many people no longer post on LIF, or why recent brides on LIW fear coming here.
Of course, someone jumped in and said it wasn't a big deal, it's a figure of speech, it was directed at everyone, not just mrs213, let it go, and other things, but those are fighting words, if you ask me. "You bet your fat ass" is personal, I don't care how you spin it, or whether you know someone's size or not.
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
I don't care how beloved you are here or how much you are vicious and say such vicious things, but just because you own up to it or apologize publicly or via FM, it's no excuse.
It shouldn't be accepted or allowed anymore. No one should have to be subjected to that.
Posters need to stop thinking they have an automatic pass to be cruel and shit-stirrers, and OTHER posters here need to call them out on it if it continues.
You treat people the way you want to be treated, and further, no one should allow themselves to be treated that way, or stand by and watch someone else treat someone poorly.
And you with the secret name, where have your balls gone? it must feel soooo good to call people out behind a fake name Because we all know you're an old-timer
Yes, but WHO. I thought KD, but she was straight arrow. So cnc, who are you really? C'mon share with the class.
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