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Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

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Bops
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Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Well the gem of the day came from my MIL this mornong (love her but shes a bit uhhhhh...spacey)

"You've got ZITS !!!!.....nooooooo, you're kidding me - THATS what those little raised bumps are Chat Icon !!!!!

Then continues to tell me (mind you, she has 7 children) that her doctor told her (nearly 40 years ago) that some women who have never had acne , get pimples while they are pregnant and it doesnt go away and proceeds to point out all of her "war scars on her face...gee thanks for making my day !

As for nice comments (if this is one)- I've been told I'm no-where near as "big" as I was with my DS (are we forgetting people that he was 10 lbs ???Chat Icon )

Posted 9/25/08 3:04 PM
 
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Candy Girl
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erin

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest:

The general disappointment when I tell people "It's a girl!" I never realized how truly sexist and gross people really are.

Me: I'm due on 12/24.

Them (choose one:)

"You're baby's gonna hate you--born on Christmas Eve??"

"Maybe you'll go early, then she won't have to have a birthday on Christmas."

"Oh, that suckks..."

I have no problem with my baby being born on Christmas. I really don't get why so many other people are concerned.

Posted 9/25/08 3:08 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Sweetest- That I am the cutest pregnant lady they have ever seen

Rudest- It must be a girl- you are rreally breaking out!!

Message edited 9/25/2008 4:29:36 PM.

Posted 9/25/08 4:29 PM
 

Dani922
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Danielle

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest: Two of my close (male) friends made me stand up & spin around & then said "If I didn't know you were pregnant I would just think you gained a lot of weight. You look like you have a beer belly actually!" Gee. Thanks. I'm only 13 weeks what would you like me to look like? Plus, I haven't gained more than a pound or two yet. Chat Icon

The second rudest would have to have been the look of sheer horror on my husband's face when I told him that sometimes women get bigger faster with their second pregnancies. After he managed to wipe the face off he said "Dear God I didn't think it would be possible to get any larger than you did last time!" Thank you honey.

Nicest: A friend of mine said that she's excited to watch my belly grow because I look so cute pregnant.

Posted 9/25/08 4:47 PM
 

NinaLemon
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Jeannine

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Posted by Snickers

Rudest:


Me: I'm due on 12/24.

Them (choose one:)

"You're baby's gonna hate you--born on Christmas Eve??"

"Maybe you'll go early, then she won't have to have a birthday on Christmas."

"Oh, that suckks..."



I get that all the time too! Someone actually said to me "couldn't you have planned better?"Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 9/26/2008 6:30:53 AM.

Posted 9/25/08 7:28 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Leslie

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

They told me not to have caffeine or I'd miscarry. Mind you I already had two miscarriages and had ZERO caffeine in my system when they happened. I had a cup of coffee and at least one Diet Coke while PG with Abby and she's fine.

Posted 9/25/08 8:23 PM
 

DRMom
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Melissa

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Posted by NinaLemon

Posted by Snickers

Rudest:


Me: I'm due on 12/24.

Them (choose one:)

"You're baby's gonna hate you--born on Christmas Eve??"

"Maybe you'll go early, then she won't have to have a birthday on Christmas."

"Oh, that suckks..."

QUOTE]



I get that all the time too! Someone actually said to me "couldn't you have planned better?"Chat Icon Chat Icon



Oh I've been getting the same commentary (due Christmas Day)

Posted 9/25/08 8:26 PM
 

smdl
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me

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest comments:

- OMG, your ankles. There so swollen? Did you see how swollen they are?

- Ankles again: Did you have the Dr. check your ankles?

(I dealt with a lot of Captain Obvious when I was PG... No I had not seen my ankles.... really! And at 36 weeks PG, I saw the Dr every week)

Nices comment:

- Pregnancy suits you very well.

Posted 9/25/08 8:29 PM
 

Palebride
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Lori

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

The rudest during pregnancy: "Wow, you really gained weight all over!"

The rudest after pregnancy: "I knew you were having a girl because your face changed....now you're pretty again."

Of course, on the sweet side, a lot of people told me I looked beautiful while I was pregnant. (apparently, they were lyingChat Icon )

Posted 9/25/08 8:39 PM
 

footprints
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Lauretta

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

when i told colleauges i was pregnant.....

ooohhh!!!!that explains it, i was wondering why you had gained weight/ noticed you were gaining weight!



uuuggghhhh.....


well b/c i am so happy to be preggo (infertilioty struggles) i can't let this stuff upset me. glad i'm growing and glad im preggo - even if i am chubby :)

Posted 9/25/08 9:20 PM
 

autumn
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Lisa

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest:

Are you sure your not having twins.

Thats all the world needs is another girl.

Your a$$ is gettting celulite.

Its the heat thats making you nausea not M/S (thats during my 1st trimester)

If you keep eating to much your gonna have a big baby (thats from an a-hole I work with) (he should talk, he needs to stop eating because his a$$ his huge)

Don't gain 40 pounds like your sisters

Your face got swollen but you still look good


LOVELY RIGHT

Posted 9/25/08 11:21 PM
 

Kris516
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Kris

Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest: People laughing at my ankles - but in all fairness, its when I lift my pant legs to show them how ridiculous I look.

Sweetest: You look really cute, or you look adorable. Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/08 12:58 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest "Watch were you are going you fat b1tch" - we were walking toward the escalator & the stranger stopped short. I was completely hormonal that day & yelled "I'm 7 months pregnant, you c_____ . (I'm aware it violates the code among women not to use but oh well).

or

"I thought you'd gain weight in your belly. It looks like you're gaining it everywhere."

Sweetest.

Not a comment but the guy in the car that flirted with me while driving. The look on his face when I got out of the car was Chat Icon .

Posted 9/26/08 6:28 AM
 

Jessica511
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Re: Rudest and Sweetest Things People Have Said to You

Rudest: "Are you sure there isn't more than one in there?"Chat Icon

Sweetest: "You carry so well, you're all belly!" (I love this one)

And of course DH says all the time:
"You're the most gorgeous pregnant woman ever"...lol

Posted 9/26/08 7:34 AM
 
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