Ruh-roh

So, DH and I have lightly discussed the possibility of a third. We currently have 2 under 2 (very planned) and sometimes it's REALLY difficult so the idea of being outnumbered scares the crap out of us both. Other times we both say a third would be wonderful.

We agreed that if we get pg again, it will likely be an oooops baby (last times I charted/temped). I guess you could say, we are not actively TTC, but not preventing either. That said, now is probably not the "best time" to get pg again.

Well, he was looking for some action yesterday and I told him, "We are on like, day 15 of my cycle so there is "a chance". He decided it was worth the risk.

Because I am a total loser, I just "had to know" and bought some OPKs at the store. Of course, it came up + and I'm about to ovulate. I'm not sure whether to be excited or terrified.

SOoooooOOooooo..... do I tell him to "prepare" him? Or just sweat it out alone? I suppose it would be wrong to have sex again without telling him what I know, so I'm going to have to tell him.

I am a regular poster and will update in about 10-12 days. Fingers crossed ladies (I think).

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i would just tell him. good luck hon!!!!

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I would tell him. Good luck either way!

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tell!!!!!!

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I would definately tell him. good luck and keep us posted!!!!

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Id tell him. Its great that you are able to talk about things, but when they really happen in front of you, people can and do change their minds. I always feel honesty is best. Then again, I am willing to be that he would guess if you got all ravenous!

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Well- he just walked in from work and I told him. He laughed and asked if I went on LIF to get advice.

So we're in a waiting game for the next 2 weeks I guess.

Thanks ladies..... I'll keep you updated!