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Scales versus how your clothes feel?

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beachgirl
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Scales versus how your clothes feel?

Is anyone else a slave to their scales? I am....I get on it every morning and now that I am working out I EXPECt to see it moving down but sometimes it doesntChat Icon

My clothes feel a little looser so I know the working out must be helping and I know muscle weighs more yadda yadda BUT if the numbers arent going down I am not happy.

Anyone else a slave to scales?

Posted 5/28/08 2:20 PM
 
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azoodie

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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

I some ways yes, I am a slave to the scale. But for me personally, I know it is absolutely necessary. I had lost a great deal of weight and put most of it back on rather quickly - I know one of the biggest reasons for this was because as soon as I started gaining that scale went into the closet because I didn't want to deal with it.

I use the scale these days to keep myself in check. I do go to ww and weigh in there weekly, and although that should be enough, I weigh myself every day simply because I am afraid of the above ever happening again.

Having said that, I do think it's bad to have an unhealthy relationship with the scale. Me and my scale have an understanding - we have a very loving relationship Chat Icon I faithfully weigh myself every day but I never let it affect me. Here is a great article if you are having issues with the scale...

Take the Stress Out of Weighing In
Mind Over Body: A Healthy Lifestyle Plan for Success
-- By Dean Anderson, Behavioral Psychology Expert
Does seeing the wrong number on the scale make you crazy? Many people find that a "bad" weigh-in ruins their mood and saps their motivation, making it difficult to keep doing what they know they need to do.

Things don't need to be this way. You can learn to use the scale as a helpful tool, instead of giving it the power to dictate your feelings and your actions.

Many experts and experienced dieters will tell you that the only realistic way to take the stress out of your weigh-ins is to skip them altogether—or at least keep them to a bare minimum. After all, there are many other ways to measure your progress towards your health and fitness goals, especially since weight loss is rarely predictable or orderly.

Although we talk about weight loss in terms of numbers—calories in versus calories out—your body is not a calculator and it doesn't operate like a checking account. A number of things (like fluctuations in water weight, increased muscle mass, and your body's anti-starvation mechanism) can and regularly do conspire to make the number on the scale the least reliable measure of weight loss success. And if you're the type of person who needs to see that number coming down on a regular basis in order to avoid frustration, despair and panic, frequent weigh-ins may be exactly what you shouldn't do.

But let's face it. Expecting yourself not to weigh-in frequently is like expecting yourself not to scratch when you've got an itch. For many of us, it's just not in the cards. And besides, there are some good reasons to track your weight frequently. Since most of us don't exactly match the "average" person used in all the formulas for predicting energy expenditure, you may need a little experimentation to find the right combination of calories and exercise that will work for you. Watching the scale as you experiment can be an important part of that process.

So, maybe the real issue here is how you can have your cake and eat it, too. Here are three things you can do to make sure your love-hate relationship with the scale doesn't cross over the line and become part of the problem instead of part of the solution.

3 Ways to Take the Stress Out of Your Weigh-Ins

1. Be clear with yourself about what that number on the scale really means. That number on the scale only tells you how much you weigh at that moment. It tells you absolutely nothing about what kind of person you are; what life has in store for you; whether or not you'll ever look the way you want to look or feel the way you want to feel; or how other people see or think about you. If you experience thoughts or feelings like these just because you see an unwelcome number on the scale, then your expectations about what weight loss can do for you need a major overhaul. You may want to take the Is Weight Loss Stressing You Out? quiz to see if you need to do some work on that front—before you paint yourself into a corner you can't get out of.


2. Remind yourself that you are choosing to use the scale as a weight loss tool. It is NOT your judge, jury and executioner. It's probably a good idea to post this reminder where you will see it each time you step on the scale. It can help to include a short list of the most important reasons why you are trying to lose weight in the first place, and some of the ways you can measure your progress towards those goals (besides the scale).

3. Use the number on the scale to actually help your program work for you. If you're going to use the scale as a tool, you might as well do it right. Try keeping a journal (or better yet a computer spreadsheet) where you track your weigh-ins (daily, weekly or monthly), your total calories eaten during that time period (from your Nutrition Tracker) and your calories burned through exercise (from your Exercise Tracker). Once a month, add the numbers up and see if things are going the way they "should" be. Figure out your total calorie deficit for the month, and see if your weight actually behaved according to the "3500-calorie deficit equals one pound lost" formula. If it didn't, then try to figure out why, using a method like this:

First, go back to basics. About 90% of the "mysterious" differences between what should happen and what does happen can be traced to underestimating calorie intake and/or overestimating calories burned. For the next few weeks, double check yourself on your calorie counting, portion estimating, etc., and make sure you're not leaving anything out of your nutrition tracking.

If that doesn't solve the problem, figure that there may be something wrong with the estimates you are getting for your exercise calorie burning and/or your non-exercise calorie burning (your basal metabolic rate—BMR). Consider investing a little money in a heart rate monitor with a calorie estimating feature to wear during exercise, and/or having your BMR tested at a local gym with a device called the BodyGem (costs about $50). Use this info to adjust your calorie intake and/or your exercise, and see how this new plan works for the next month.

If all else fails, talk to a dietitian or your doctor to rule out any unusual metabolic problems, or medical issues. But again, 9 times out of 10, it's most likely a simple problem with getting the right numbers.
Above all, keep in mind that it is NOT a lower number on the scale that makes all the work you are putting into your weight loss efforts worthwhile. What makes it worthwhile is the increased happiness and other benefits that come with doing the best you can to eat a healthy diet, being as fit and active as you can, and doing all the other things that make you feel good about yourself. These benefits depend much more on your attitude and the quality of your efforts than on any number you see on a scale.

Shifting your focus from the scale to the quality and consequences of your own attitudes, perspectives, and efforts is the first step in moving from a "diet mentality" (which doesn't work) to a "lifestyle change" (which can get you where you want to go). You can read more about these issues in the following articles:

Posted 5/28/08 3:28 PM
 

beachgirl
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Member since 7/05

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sara

Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

Thank you for the informative reply and it does make sense...logically I know this but in reality I am still bouncing off the scale each morning....I will have to work on it.Chat Icon

Posted 5/28/08 11:05 PM
 

glinda-goodwitch
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

It's wierd, I have only lost 5 lbs but I'm wearing a size smaller. But in my head I still don't think I've done much because it's only 5 lbs. So yeah, the scale has the final say for me.

Posted 5/29/08 7:24 AM
 

05mommy09
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

I'm a slave to the scale. I weigh myself everyday. I'm obsessed. But in some sense it keeps me motivated. To see the #'s go down, I get excited and it shows my progress.

"See it was worth refusing that brownie"

and when it isnt where it should be, I see the consequences for falling off track- KWIM?

I will also say that when I eat something "wrong" I feel guilty and obsess over the fact that I ate it for a few days- not sure how healthy that is..

Anyways-
When I put something on that feel better/looks better- I also use that as motivation. I feel accomplished.

So if you #'s aren't moving but your clothes fit and look better- then you should still be proud of yourself!

Posted 5/29/08 7:37 AM
 

JennasMom
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

I was a total slave to the scale, but with all the fluid and inflammation that I get in my knees I stopped because I was driving myself insane

Posted 5/29/08 9:42 AM
 

baghag
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

I mostly go by how my clothes fit.

The scale fluctuation makes me crazy, even if it's only by a few lbs. I try to limit weighing myself to 1x a week or every other week.

Posted 5/29/08 1:37 PM
 

DaisyGirl
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

Posted by beachgirl

Is anyone else a slave to their scales? I am....I get on it every morning and now that I am working out I EXPECt to see it moving down but sometimes it doesntChat Icon

My clothes feel a little looser so I know the working out must be helping and I know muscle weighs more yadda yadda BUT if the numbers arent going down I am not happy.

Anyone else a slave to scales?



If you just started working out, you are building muscle. Usually that means the scale may stay the same for a week or two before you start losing again. But your clothes may feel looser because you are firming and toning!
Keep working out and the scale will start to become your friend again!
In answer to your original question, I am a slave to my weekly weigh in and I know I need to be. Like azoodie, when I stopped weighing myself the pounds came back on. So I agree that a little bit of obsession can be healthy! Chat Icon

Posted 5/29/08 4:56 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

I never really weigh myself. It just depresses me and besides the weight it reads can be totally different within a couple of hours of time, so I don't trust it. I totally go by how my clothes fit.

Posted 5/30/08 4:52 PM
 

Erica
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Re: Scales versus how your clothes feel?

total slave here! BUT if the scale doesn't tell me good news, I do factor in other things, like bloating or clothes being looser.

Posted 5/30/08 6:04 PM
 
 

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