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paige-reader
LIF Zygote
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paige
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Sex & Dating
i'm new here, so bear with me...
in talking to a friend of mine, who was the one who introduced me to the world of LIF, she suggested I post my query on here.
Message edited 5/15/2006 4:57:10 PM.
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: Sex & Dating
sorry - don't have any real advice....
but....seeeeee RON - we need that Intimate Board!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
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| Posted 5/10/06 4:18 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: Sex & Dating
Wow, TMI...
Outright ask him what the deal is. You seem to be a very "open" person, so why not broach the subject with him?
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nov04libride
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Re: Sex & Dating
I wouldn't sleep with someone when I didn't feel comfortable talking to him about sex. Where do you see this going if you can't communicate with him? I'm not one for random sex tho.
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JennZ
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Re: Sex & Dating
how long are you with him? I really dont see the problem asking him, since you feel comfortable enough doing what you are doing that question should come easy. Just ask. JMO
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raken40
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Re: Sex & Dating
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Sex & Dating
You could just try THE TAP on the head.
etd.
I see you agree with me too.
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CookiePuss
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Re: Sex & Dating
There are lots of men that will do everything but have intercourse. They think that they are "ruining" her in some way.
I would talk to him. Find out what the hesitation is although I don't know why you are in such a hurry to get rid of the alternative 
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by nrthshgrl
You could just try THE TAP on the head.
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KaRiSsA
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Re: Sex & Dating
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JennZ
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by nrthshgrl
You could just try THE TAP on the head.
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by MrsERod
sorry - don't have any real advice....
but....seeeeee RON - we need that Intimate Board!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow Erod really wants her board...she went through all the trouble of convincing a friend to post an "intimate" question.
I kid, I kid.
Seriously though, to answer your question. I personally would NOT discuss this with him. I would maybe ACT on it (i.e. YOU initiate the "consumation" part) if I felt comfortable. You can try that if you are comfortable with initiating.
As for me, I much prefer the man to initiate...and to avoid any association with the words "cheap slut" So if I were in your shoes, I would just wait it out and drop hints with body language. If he's not too quick on the uptake we could be waiting a while before we consumate but oh well. Like PCD says "You want it bad but oh well".
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Diva
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Re: Sex & Dating
You could always ask him if he has a condom.
If he doesnt get the hint, then you really need to sit down and talk to him about it. Uh, good luck?
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Sex & Dating
and uh, i know he doesn't ask for it,
but feel free to reciprocate on him
a hunch tells me he won't push you away
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
and uh, i know he doesn't ask for it,
but feel free to reciprocate on him
a hunch tells me he won't push you away
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
and uh, i know he doesn't ask for it,
but feel free to reciprocate on him
a hunch tells me he won't push you away
ya think??
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| Posted 5/10/06 4:29 PM |
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skew
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Re: Sex & Dating
why not take the initiative yourself? personally, i think oral sex is A LOT more intimate than sex and since you have no problem w/ that you should feel at ease approaching this situation.
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
and uh, i know he doesn't ask for it,
but feel free to reciprocate on him
a hunch tells me he won't push you away
ya think??
call it an educated guess
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| Posted 5/10/06 4:31 PM |
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MrsRbk
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Re: Sex & Dating
Wow - definately TMI, sorry, I have no advice....
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
and uh, i know he doesn't ask for it,
but feel free to reciprocate on him
a hunch tells me he won't push you away
ya think??
call it an educated guess
i never thought to associate you with the word educated...
KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
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ana6178
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by nrthshgrl
You could just try THE TAP on the head.
PIMP!!!!!!
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paige-reader
LIF Zygote
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paige
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Re: Sex & Dating
sex gets a lot of attention.
Message edited 5/15/2006 4:57:32 PM.
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by paige-reader
sex gets a lot of attention.
And this board gets alot of traffic. 
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by paige-reader
i know it'll come up
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no pun intended right?
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Sex & Dating
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by paige-reader
i know it'll come up
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no pun intended right?
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