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november12003
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Sex during pregnancy

Anyone not having it during their pregnancy??

DH is freaked out about it, I don't get it, but now it's been 5 1/2 months!! He's killing me!!

What's a girl to do Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 11:55 AM
 
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CJC25
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

We have it but he wants me on top so He does not hurt the baby. Ummmmm I am 7 months pregnant being on top does nothing for me.

Message edited 2/16/2006 11:56:52 AM.

Posted 2/16/06 11:56 AM
 

november12003
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Oh dear Chat Icon but at least you're getting some Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 11:58 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

We have sex pretty much as regularly as before.
ETA: and in more or less- the same positions as before...

Message edited 2/16/2006 11:59:26 AM.

Posted 2/16/06 11:58 AM
 

computergirl
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

I'll confess, we have had VERY LITTLE during my pregnancy, and it's totally my doing. I can't help it, I'm tired all the time, sometimes my back aches, I just feel zero drive Chat Icon

DH has been really sweet about it, though it's probably making him crazy. I can't wait to get back to normal "activity" Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 12:00 PM
 

CJC25
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

True...I Want it all the time More pregnant than not pregnant but the whole on top thing I am too self conscious at this stage.

Posted 2/16/06 12:01 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Sex???? whats that???


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j/k - we do occasionally - only reason I say occasionally is because I usually fall asleep way before he does. So any other time we can - we do.

Posted 2/16/06 12:04 PM
 

doggielover
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

since I found out I was PG I've been scared to have sex. DH has been really supportive about it but I know he is secretly waiting for me to say OK.

I know its crazy to feel like this, but I want to wait until the 1st trimester is over.

Posted 2/16/06 12:21 PM
 

TwoGirls4Me
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by doggielover

since I found out I was PG I've been scared to have sex. DH has been really supportive about it but I know he is secretly waiting for me to say OK.

I know its crazy to feel like this, but I want to wait until the 1st trimester is over.




LOL not crazy at all!!! or if it is, I am crazy too! I cannot wait till saturday... I begin my second trimester and I am all over it!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 12:36 PM
 

JavaJunkie
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

I've had no sex drive!!! But now i'm not allowed anyway so oh well. It will be nice to get my sex drive back!

Posted 2/16/06 12:39 PM
 

MrsSchwags
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

I am 13 weeks and we have done it a few times. I'm not very comfortable.

Posted 2/16/06 12:40 PM
 

dandr10199
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by november12003

Anyone not having it during their pregnancy??

DH is freaked out about it, I don't get it, but now it's been 5 1/2 months!! He's killing me!!

What's a girl to do Chat Icon Chat Icon



At your next OB appointment bring it up. Some guys don't want to hurt the baby. At our first OB appointment that was like the first thing my DH asked. Chat Icon My doctor told us to have fun and we have Chat Icon . You have to get creative with positions as you get bigger, but that makes it more fun. In my 1st trimester I was too tired to care, so we would adjust the timing so I wasn't too tired to do it. In my 2nd trimester I wanted it ALL the time once I got my energy back. Just talk to your DH about it. I am sure not wanting to hurt the baby is all it is.

Message edited 2/16/2006 12:48:50 PM.

Posted 2/16/06 12:48 PM
 

dld4e
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

We have it but of course not as much as before. At 32 wks, it's kind of uncomfortable. Besides, I am so tired at the end of the day...all I want to do is get comfortable and hopefully get some sleep.
I can't wait to get back to the norm.

Posted 2/16/06 12:49 PM
 

MrsJ
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by CJC25

We have it but he wants me on top so He does not hurt the baby. Ummmmm I am 7 months pregnant being on top does nothing for me.



Tell me about it. With my back pain I do not feel like doing the work with a big belly hanging down Chat Icon
ETA: and I do find it uncomfortable...

Message edited 2/16/2006 12:54:36 PM.

Posted 2/16/06 12:54 PM
 

dandr10199
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by MrsJ

Posted by CJC25

We have it but he wants me on top so He does not hurt the baby. Ummmmm I am 7 months pregnant being on top does nothing for me.



Tell me about it. With my back pain I do not feel like doing the work with a big belly hanging down Chat Icon
ETA: and I do find it uncomfortable...



Maybe TMI..but try the "spoon" position. Not painful and highly recommended! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 12:56 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

lurking-but I have a question.

Don't know if it is a myth or not...

One of my friends said she was told by her OB that a big O will bring on contractions...this scared her husband and he won't have sex with her..

TIA

Posted 2/16/06 1:19 PM
 

Disneygirl
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by Janice

lurking-but I have a question.

Don't know if it is a myth or not...

One of my friends said she was told by her OB that a big O will bring on contractions...this scared her husband and he won't have sex with her..

TIA



It does but only briefly. If she's having a normal healthy pregnancy this is nothing to be concerned about.

Posted 2/16/06 1:35 PM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

we did it ALL the time! Near the end when it wasn't as comfortable, we didn't do it AS much....and then at the VERY End we did to try to make her come out.

Posted 2/16/06 2:10 PM
 

Shoppie
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Its never been BETTER! talk about the BIG O :)
I did read thats O's get better with PG.

I was a sex maniac before becoming PG and nothing as changed. Maybe my love for it has grown!
I would imagine as I get a belly, it will become more uncomfortable but for now, IT ROCKS!

as my doctor warned no deep action Chat Icon

Posted 2/16/06 2:33 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by Disneygirl

Posted by Janice

lurking-but I have a question.

Don't know if it is a myth or not...

One of my friends said she was told by her OB that a big O will bring on contractions...this scared her husband and he won't have sex with her..

TIA



It does but only briefly. If she's having a normal healthy pregnancy this is nothing to be concerned about.



thanks!

Posted 2/16/06 2:52 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

We do but it is definitely not as frequent as before.

Posted 2/16/06 7:09 PM
 

kat813
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

Posted by Shoppie

as my doctor warned no deep action Chat Icon



sorry to sound silly here but what exactly is this?

Posted 2/16/06 7:52 PM
 

2003fallwedding
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

I wasn't allowed to have sex during my pregnancy as per my OB not to mention I had ZERO sex drive

Posted 2/16/06 8:02 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

I have not had any kind of a sex drive. The other day DH came home from the gym an he took his shirt off and he was all sweaty. Put me in the mood pretty fast. Unfortunately DH had things to do ! I think he's nervous about hurting me.

Posted 2/16/06 11:13 PM
 

mable
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Re: Sex during pregnancy

My husband does not want any part of it either.. In the beginning we had it a couple of times but now he says no way..
Well guy I hope you know its not coming as sonn as we have the baby..LOLChat Icon

Posted 2/17/06 12:10 AM
 
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