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Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

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notreadytocomeout
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Nicole

Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

So I just took 6....yes...6 HPT and they all came back positive!!!

I still don't believe it!!

Here is my dilema...

I am a social smoker and with Thanksgiving coming up my family is going to wonder why I am not smoking and I don't want anyone to know I am PG because I have not been to a doctor yet and it's still too early.

What do I do?

****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!

Message edited 11/21/2009 12:50:12 PM.

Posted 11/20/09 11:06 PM
 
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IheartF&M
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stacy

Re: Shock and Disbelief

Can you go outside by yourself & come back in minutes later & say you smoked or does someone always come out with you?

Posted 11/20/09 11:21 PM
 

MayBbaby21
Baby no. 3 coming soon!

Member since 6/09

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Re: Shock and Disbelief

Congrats!!!

Can you tell them you're trying to quit? Or feel like you're getting sick and don't feel like smoking?

Message edited 11/21/2009 9:21:08 AM.

Posted 11/20/09 11:26 PM
 

MrsScott
So in Love

Member since 1/09

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Name:
Shawna

Re: Shock and Disbelief

congratsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/09 11:58 PM
 

BabysMomma29
Due with Baby #2!

Member since 10/08

2004 total posts

Name:
Tricia aka MattandTricia07

Re: Shock and Disbelief

Congrats!!!

I would tell them that you've quit and then if they get that look of "oh are you pregnant" just tell them that you're trying to be more healthy Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/09 8:14 AM
 

Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God

Member since 9/06

3107 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: Shock and Disbelief

Congrats!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would either tell them you are trying to quit or that you have a sore throat and it hurts too much to smoke.

Posted 11/21/09 9:11 AM
 

LKDRNW
LIF Toddler

Member since 3/09

481 total posts

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Re: Shock and Disbelief

Congrats to you - I would just tell them that you are getting over a sore throat and you don't want to make it worse
Good Luck Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/09 9:20 AM
 

wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle

Member since 10/09

1652 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Shock and Disbelief

I would just tell them that you quit b/c you finally realized its whats best for you.

I quit cold turkey and it was the best decision I've ever made. If they look at you like you're pregnant... just deny it and say that you realized you dont want to get lung cancer.


Congratulations on your BFP!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/09 9:57 AM
 

mommyin09
LIF Adult

Member since 3/09

1007 total posts

Name:

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by notreadytocomeout


****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!



How many DPO are you? Is it still early? This happen to me 2 months ago and I had a chemical pregnancy. I really hope this is not the case with you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/09 3:18 PM
 

notreadytocomeout
LIF Zygote

Member since 11/09

5 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by mommyin09

Posted by notreadytocomeout


****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!



How many DPO are you? Is it still early? This happen to me 2 months ago and I had a chemical pregnancy. I really hope this is not the case with you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



If I had to guess I would say I am 18 DPO and 4 days late for AF.

Posted 11/21/09 3:46 PM
 

Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06

27915 total posts

Name:

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by notreadytocomeout

Posted by mommyin09

Posted by notreadytocomeout


****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!



How many DPO are you? Is it still early? This happen to me 2 months ago and I had a chemical pregnancy. I really hope this is not the case with you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



If I had to guess I would say I am 18 DPO and 4 days late for AF.



Could be a fluke but it could be a chemical since it's still so early. Test again in another day or two. If it's negative in a day or two I would guess it was a chemical pregnancy and AF will probably show soon. I hope that's not the case. Good luck!!!!! Keep us posted. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/09 5:39 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Tell them you are getting over bronchitis. That worked for me.

Posted 11/21/09 5:47 PM
 

8ternity
<3

Member since 11/08

10586 total posts

Name:
Formally NYPD-Wife

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by notreadytocomeout

Posted by mommyin09

Posted by notreadytocomeout


****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!



How many DPO are you? Is it still early? This happen to me 2 months ago and I had a chemical pregnancy. I really hope this is not the case with you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



If I had to guess I would say I am 18 DPO and 4 days late for AF.



Could be a fluke but it could be a chemical since it's still so early. Test again in another day or two. If it's negative in a day or two I would guess it was a chemical pregnancy and AF will probably show soon. I hope that's not the case. Good luck!!!!! Keep us posted. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



How is 18 dpo so early? just curious...Chat Icon

Message edited 11/22/2009 10:56:29 AM.

Posted 11/22/09 10:55 AM
 

notreadytocomeout
LIF Zygote

Member since 11/09

5 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

I honestly have no idea if I am pregnant or not.

This morning I took 3 tests with FMU and all three came up negative and still no sign of AF. I am not sure if I should just wait it out or go to the doctor.

I'm sooo frustrated!!!!

Posted 11/22/09 11:22 AM
 

Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06

27915 total posts

Name:

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by notreadytocomeout

I honestly have no idea if I am pregnant or not.

This morning I took 3 tests with FMU and all three came up negative and still no sign of AF. I am not sure if I should just wait it out or go to the doctor.

I'm sooo frustrated!!!!



Sounds like maybe a chemical. Good luck! Chat Icon

Posted 11/22/09 1:42 PM
 

zoe282
We have our miracle!

Member since 8/08

3634 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by NYPD-Wife

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by notreadytocomeout

Posted by mommyin09

Posted by notreadytocomeout


****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!



How many DPO are you? Is it still early? This happen to me 2 months ago and I had a chemical pregnancy. I really hope this is not the case with you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



If I had to guess I would say I am 18 DPO and 4 days late for AF.



Could be a fluke but it could be a chemical since it's still so early. Test again in another day or two. If it's negative in a day or two I would guess it was a chemical pregnancy and AF will probably show soon. I hope that's not the case. Good luck!!!!! Keep us posted. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



How is 18 dpo so early? just curious...Chat Icon




I think she meant so early on in the pregnancy...thats why chemicals suck so badChat Icon

Posted 11/22/09 3:25 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

Member since 3/07

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ETC I LOVE YOU

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

It sounds like a chemical to me.....but i am hoping and praying for you this is sooooooooooo not the caseChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/22/09 6:31 PM
 

8ternity
<3

Member since 11/08

10586 total posts

Name:
Formally NYPD-Wife

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

Posted by zoe282

Posted by NYPD-Wife

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by notreadytocomeout

Posted by mommyin09

Posted by notreadytocomeout


****UPDATE****

I need some advice. Sorry this is going to be kinda long.

Last night I held my pee for about 5 hours and then tested.

-3 Digital Tests came up PREGNANT
-3 FRER line tests came up with a faint pink line

This morning I wanted to test again but did not have any tests so I figured I would go out and get a test and use FMU. Well, I woke up this morning at 5:30a and there weren't any stores open for me to buy a test and I couldn't hold my pee any longer so I went. Then at 7:30a I went out and bought the First Response Gold Digital that says yes or no and I also bought a store brand digital that says Pregnant or not pregnant. I went back home and tested again using one of each of the new tests I bought. They both came up negative.

So I waited until around 11:30 and I tested again and it came up negative.

I honestly don't know what is going on and could use some advice.

TIA!



How many DPO are you? Is it still early? This happen to me 2 months ago and I had a chemical pregnancy. I really hope this is not the case with you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



If I had to guess I would say I am 18 DPO and 4 days late for AF.



Could be a fluke but it could be a chemical since it's still so early. Test again in another day or two. If it's negative in a day or two I would guess it was a chemical pregnancy and AF will probably show soon. I hope that's not the case. Good luck!!!!! Keep us posted. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



How is 18 dpo so early? just curious...Chat Icon




I think she meant so early on in the pregnancy...thats why chemicals suck so badChat Icon




ooohhh...I hope is not a chemical!! Chat Icon

Posted 11/22/09 9:58 PM
 

heatherandrichie
xoxo

Member since 7/07

1384 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: Shock and Disbelief....***UPDATE***

not sure, its sound slike a chemical...but I haven't experienced it myself.
As for smoking, just don't buy cigarettes and if someone offers you one say you have a sore throat or something like that.

Posted 11/22/09 10:40 PM
 
 

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