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timanda
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Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
I don't usually post too much on ttc, but I thought I might share this story about dh.
I went to the Dolllar Store on Wed night to stock up on pg tests. So I bought like 7 tests (I would have bought more but i didn't want to buy up all they had). We got up to the counter and DH starts giggling  and asking why I am buying so many, and then the 16 girl ringing me up starts giggling with him and the two of them just lose it laughing.
I told DH not to worry we won't be needing the tests anymore -- that shut him up real quick!
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pinkandblue
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
I would have a MAJOR issue with DH doing that...that is not cool, AT ALL 
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| Posted 11/14/08 12:06 PM |
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DanandNette
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
I'm sorry!
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| Posted 11/14/08 12:17 PM |
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HomeIsWithU
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
wow I would be VERY upset.
From now on, pick up the pg tests without him -- but I would definately talk to him about the maturity level.
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:04 PM |
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jam11308
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Awwww I don't think that's so bad...I chuckled a bit thinking about it 
(but then again it wasn't me)
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:45 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Posted by jam11308
Awwww I don't think that's so bad...I chuckled a bit thinking about it
(but then again it wasn't me)
I think it is totally rude. If my dh did that, I would kick his azz 
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:50 PM |
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STBTTC
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
I actually thought that was kinda funny...  He just sounded like a little boy so embarrassed!
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:52 PM |
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jam11308
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
That's what I was thinking...if my dh did that I'd probably fake punch him in the arm & tell him to stop it - while I was laughing at him
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:53 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Posted by jam11308
Awwww I don't think that's so bad...I chuckled a bit thinking about it
(but then again it wasn't me)
i dont think its that bad either...
he was probably more embarassed
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:54 PM |
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
OMG my DH did a very similar thing to me at CVS. I think that's how guys deal with any kind of uncomfortable situation...they make a joke and hope that it eases their nerves. You should smack him in the back of the head, that's what I did! It's unfortunate that we need our DH's in order to get pg!
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:57 PM |
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Angel321
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Posted by NextStopBabytown
OMG my DH did a very similar thing to me at CVS. I think that's how guys deal with any kind of uncomfortable situation...they make a joke and hope that it eases their nerves. You should smack him in the back of the head, that's what I did! It's unfortunate that we need our DH's in order to get pg!
that is EXACTLY what Dave does when things get 'too serious' or he feels 'backed into a corner'...always cracks the joke! ALWAYS!!!!!!
I didn't think it was bad honestly, i would've laughed too....you have to have a sense of humor with this stuff or you'll go crazy! 
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| Posted 11/14/08 2:59 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Posted by davenjess
Posted by NextStopBabytown
OMG my DH did a very similar thing to me at CVS. I think that's how guys deal with any kind of uncomfortable situation...they make a joke and hope that it eases their nerves. You should smack him in the back of the head, that's what I did! It's unfortunate that we need our DH's in order to get pg!
that is EXACTLY what Dave does when things get 'too serious' or he feels 'backed into a corner'...always cracks the joke! ALWAYS!!!!!!
I didn't think it was bad honestly, i would've laughed too....you have to have a sense of humor with this stuff or you'll go crazy!
I guess I have no sense of humor then cause I still think it is immature and rude...
I think if it was just me and him and he was laughing, it would be one thing, but for the stupid cashier to be laughing along with him 
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| Posted 11/14/08 3:22 PM |
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BellaRock
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Posted by davenjess
Posted by NextStopBabytown
OMG my DH did a very similar thing to me at CVS. I think that's how guys deal with any kind of uncomfortable situation...they make a joke and hope that it eases their nerves. You should smack him in the back of the head, that's what I did! It's unfortunate that we need our DH's in order to get pg!
that is EXACTLY what Dave does when things get 'too serious' or he feels 'backed into a corner'...always cracks the joke! ALWAYS!!!!!!
I didn't think it was bad honestly, i would've laughed too....you have to have a sense of humor with this stuff or you'll go crazy!
My DH does the same thing. Once at CVS I bought tampons and a hpt. You could tell the girl was  but I ignored it. But not DH lol he just had to tell some lame azz joke about it. It was pretty funny. I learned to never buy both things together again lol.
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| Posted 11/14/08 3:27 PM |
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diva7531
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Sounds like my DH!
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| Posted 11/14/08 3:28 PM |
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timanda
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
He was just nervous and embarrassed I guess. The sight of him and the cashier giggling was mildly amusing, but i was still mad at him.
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| Posted 11/14/08 3:38 PM |
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LemonHead
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
I think it's funny too!
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| Posted 11/14/08 3:39 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Posted by timanda
He was just nervous and embarrassed I guess. The sight of him and the cashier giggling was mildly amusing, but i was still mad at him.
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| Posted 11/14/08 3:41 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Should I really be considering having a child with a 14 yo boy?
Sounds like something my DH would do!
Actually he'd probably go a step further and make a comment like, "She likes to be sure" - and then proceed to crack jokes with cashier.
Although I do think it was "unprofessional" of the cashier... I'm sure there's no formal traning in how to handle those situations, so I'd cut them both some slack - but that's just me!
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| Posted 11/14/08 4:01 PM |
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