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SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

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princess99
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SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Remember how I posted about this so called friend who made it her point to tell me I need to get serious about thnigs with a baby... I was taking a nap and got woken up to-
" Hi, I was calling to tell you I was reading a magazine about infertility and I want to go over the article with you!".

Imagine waking up to that?! I was like what the f 5$%&* ? I did not pick up the phone.
I am so angry. I have been avoiding her since the last comment- can u imagine? I just needed to vent. After having 1 MC and getting "harassed " about my sex lfe, I needed to vent. I know I will get pregnant and/if need be go to a doctor for further testing, but it hurts so much. Why is it anyone's business what is going on in my body?! Thanks for listening.

Message edited 10/4/2006 3:51:49 PM.

Posted 10/4/06 3:50 PM
 
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LaurenExp
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Sorry about your insensitive friend. It took me a while to get to a RE. Everyone in their own time. Just tell them to leave you the eff alone!

Posted 10/4/06 3:53 PM
 

karennew
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Sorry about your insensitive friend. Maybe you should say something b/c I have a feeling it will only get worse with her.

Posted 10/4/06 4:04 PM
 

juju
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Posted by karennew

Sorry about your insensitive friend. Maybe you should say something b/c I have a feeling it will only get worse with her.



I agree

Posted 10/4/06 10:48 PM
 

JodiBabe
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Posted by princess99

Remember how I posted about this so called friend who made it her point to tell me I need to get serious about thnigs with a baby... I was taking a nap and got woken up to-
" Hi, I was calling to tell you I was reading a magazine about infertility and I want to go over the article with you!".

Imagine waking up to that?! I was like what the f 5$%&* ? I did not pick up the phone.
I am so angry. I have been avoiding her since the last comment- can u imagine? I just needed to vent. After having 1 MC and getting "harassed " about my sex lfe, I needed to vent. I know I will get pregnant and/if need be go to a doctor for further testing, but it hurts so much. Why is it anyone's business what is going on in my body?! Thanks for listening.



Sue,

I just saw this and I am sorry you had to deal with this. I hope this was not the same insensitive moran that we both know!

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Posted 11/9/06 12:19 PM
 

adeline27
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

People have no idea what we go through. I know how you feel.

I had one friend (key word "had") that would say some really hurtful things. For example I was talking to her about one of my sono appointments and I was saying how the dr saw a couple of cysts on my ovaries...my friend cuts me off and says well my doctor said I have beautiful ovaries. This girls head is so far up her own *** I couldn't take it anymore.

Wow your thread just made me vent a little too. Some people are just so ignorant!

Message edited 11/9/2006 4:08:25 PM.

Posted 11/9/06 4:07 PM
 

BigB
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

That is why this IVF cycle, I am not telling anyone but you ladies (and my mom) about the cycle! Too much unnecessary stress!

Posted 11/9/06 11:38 PM
 

nychickinMD
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

I have a friend that is on her way to becoming an ex-friend. I was at a party last weekend talking with her and another woman who is pregnant and due in January. Of course it was an "oops" pregnancy. Anyway, my friend says to her 'wow I feel like everyone is getting pregnant' and then turns to me and says ' I mean, except for you'

Some people are truly clueless. I"m sorry you have to put with up with such an insensitive friend. Chat Icon

Posted 11/10/06 10:52 AM
 

skygirl
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Posted by juju

Posted by karennew

Sorry about your insensitive friend. Maybe you should say something b/c I have a feeling it will only get worse with her.



I agree




I agree as well. It's SO annoying, I think people think they are helping and supportive, but they sometimes don't get it.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/10/06 12:59 PM
 

princess99
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Thank you for all the support. I eventually told this so called "friend" becuase I could not take it anymore and she has not said a word since. Chat Icon

Posted 11/10/06 6:47 PM
 

juju
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Re: SO ANNOYED! UPDATE on my "friend " who makes nasty comments situation....

Good! She probably thought she was doing a good thing by trying to keep you informed. Hopefully, she will respect your wishes.

I had to tell one of my friends that I do not want our whole conversation to be about my infertility struggles. So now she just takes my lead. I also hate it when I talk to friends and they have this "ohhhh pooor you" tone in their voice. I don't need their Sympathy!!! No One DiED! Arghh! Vent over. Chat Icon

Posted 11/11/06 10:44 AM
 
 

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