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So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
and let me start by saying that I am posting this on parenting as I am sure that some other mommies can relate to how I was feeling...
Last week, I had taken a huge step towards feeling better about myself.
After having Ryan, I lost all the baby weight, but still had a bit of a belly. I think that is quite normal for a good amount of moms (and if you don't have this problem, you have no idea how lucky you are!!). I was self conscious, but I never had a flat stomach, and could live with it. No problem...
Then came my beautiful daughter Erin 1.5 years later. After having her, I never went back to normal. I still looked 7 months pregnant (NOT exaggerating) and was MISERABLE. I mean, nothing fit me right. I would wear baggy shirts, as that is all that would look ok, and feel like crap every single day. I could only shop in the Womens department and NEVER wear anything trendy.. it was terrible. Crying everyday, hating to look at myself, horrible. Even losing all the baby weight would do nothing. My skin and muscles were completely stretched out.
After talking with DH, I decided to go for a consult with a plastic surgeon for a tummy tuck. I met with Dr. Greenberg (the guy who is on BLI and other radio shows and has all the commericals on the radio) in January. He explained that my abs were completely bowed out and no amount of exercise can correct that, as well as the excess skin that I had. I got a really good feeling from him and knew that he was an excellent Dr. and decided to book my surgery for April. Of course, I had to pay out of pocket for it, but the money did not matter honestly. We are also done having children, as you cannot have the surgery if you plan to have more kids, obviously.
So I had it last week, 4/16, and it went great. He did a GREAT job and I am completely flat, and look better than I did before I even had kids!! Of course, it is a hard recovery, much harder than my 2 c-sections, but completely worth it. I can't wait to look normal in clothes again and not wear things to cover myself up, and I am happy to no longer fear someone coming up to me in a store and asking "when are you due?"
DH has been great throughout this entire thing. He has been 100% supportive of my decision and only wants me to be happy.
I wanted to let this be known in case there were other mommies who were thinking about it and had questions. FM and I will tell you everything!
Thanks for letting me share!
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CrankyPants
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Congratulations-a big decision/procedure, but I am sure you feel much better know that it is all behind you. Thank you for sharing.
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
That is great. I am so happy for you. After we are done having children I def want one and a boob lift. I will surely be asking you a lot of questions
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| Posted 4/23/08 4:43 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
That is excellent Congratsssssssss!
WOHHOO!! so happy for you!
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| Posted 4/23/08 4:44 PM |
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Bklyngrl
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
congrats and thanks for sharing! glad it went well and you're happy with the results
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| Posted 4/23/08 4:44 PM |
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jellybean78
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
That is great. Congrats and thanks for sharing
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| Posted 4/23/08 4:46 PM |
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Belladonna219
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Wonderful news - thanks for sharing!!
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| Posted 4/23/08 4:51 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Good for you. I am glad you are feeling better about yourself....hope you are back to feeling 100% in no time
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| Posted 4/23/08 4:56 PM |
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ckdk
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
good for you!! I'm glad you are feeling well, I'm sure you look fantastic!
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| Posted 4/23/08 5:18 PM |
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Thank you for sharing...this is something I am seriously thinking about after I am done having kids too.
Enjoy shopping for some sexy clothes!!!!!
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| Posted 4/23/08 5:29 PM |
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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Thanks so much for sharing- I will definately be asking questions after #2 since I still have the belly from #1 and working out is NOT doing it.
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| Posted 4/23/08 5:33 PM |
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Kate
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Congratulations! So glad you are feeling better about yourself. Thanks for sharing your story.
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:20 PM |
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jes81276
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Congrats....I am so happy that you are feeling so good about yourself!
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:24 PM |
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SuzyQ
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
That sounds like a great decision. I would definitely consider it myself after I'm done. I'm glad it went well for you. Thank you for sharing your story. It's good to hear that it was such a positive experience.
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:29 PM |
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Tracey
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DandN
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Congratulations!!!! Thanks for sharing your story!
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:34 PM |
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hbugal
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
I am so there!!!!!!
I told DH that once I get myself in a bit better shape I am getting tummy tuck....
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:37 PM |
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MrsBumbleb
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Good for you
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:39 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Thats awesome! I would love to have that done!
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| Posted 4/23/08 6:53 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Wow, good for you! I'll be doing the same thing if I need it.
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| Posted 4/23/08 7:14 PM |
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avamamma
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Good for you!!!
I am getting a tummy tuck after #2. He will be born in September, I will probably get it in March.
Enjoy your sexy self!!
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| Posted 4/23/08 7:15 PM |
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alexlynn7
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
thanks for sharing! i'm so glad you're feeling better about yourself
have fun shopping for sexy clothes 
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| Posted 4/23/08 7:23 PM |
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Janice
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
wow good for you!
your DH sounds like a gem!
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| Posted 4/23/08 7:38 PM |
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Cookiegobbler
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Congrats!! I think it is awesome that you were so proactive and did something to make yourself feel better!! That's awesome!!
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| Posted 4/23/08 7:50 PM |
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JennasMom
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Re: So I don't normally post personal things like this about myself..
Congrats on entering the flatlands
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