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ml110
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so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
DHs second cousin (the bride) is getting married waaaay out in PA on july 7th. they sent out the STDs back in the fall, and we got one.... so now that its gettnig closer, i've been waiting for the invite. talked to DHs mom last night and turns out they got their invite already. turns out that the grooms family had a lot of people they wanted to invite, so now they aren't inviting a lot of people from the brides side even AFTER they sent out STDs  rude or no? it just reminded why i didn't send out STDs- you never know whats gonna change between then and the wedding...
Message edited 5/16/2007 12:53:48 PM.
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saraH
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
rude to send out STD's then not invite you or whomever.
perfectly acceptable if she did not mail out STD's.
I thnk people get so excited while planning they don't realize how many people they have to invite.
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Christine
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
That's very rude but to be honest I would be relieved if I were in your shoes. They should have at least had the courtesy to let people know about the change of plans.
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| Posted 5/16/07 12:55 PM |
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SweetTooth
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by Christine
That's very rude but to be honest I would be relieved if I were in your shoes. They should have at least had the courtesy to let people know about the change of plans.
me too!
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MsMBV
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by BNL2005
rude to send out STD's then not invite you or whomever.
perfectly acceptable if she did not mail out STD's.
I thnk people get so excited while planning they don't realize how many people they have to invite.
ITA.
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ml110
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by BNL2005
rude to send out STD's then not invite you or whomever.
perfectly acceptable if she did not mail out STD's.
I thnk people get so excited while planning they don't realize how many people they have to invite.
ITA agree, too... but she sent out STDs, which is why i'm like BUT, the invitations also have cinderella on them and say " join us for an enchanted evening", like its a prom or something... lol so, i think we might be better off 
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Very rude.
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Very Very Rude! It was probably a blessing!
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babymakes3
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by Christine
That's very rude but to be honest I would be relieved if I were in your shoes. They should have at least had the courtesy to let people know about the change of plans.
ITA
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curliegirl
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Totally rude to send a STD and then not invite the person!
That's why you GO OVER
THE GUESTLIST BEFORE YOU SEND OUT STDs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Would it be cruel of me to say that sometimes people in the deep woods aren't always the brightest?
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
very rude
eta: I wouldn't even send a card! I would be really p*ssed
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sunflowerjesss
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Wow, that's extremely rude. STD's should be sent to the people who, no matter what, will not get cut from the guest list.
Were you invited to the Bridal Shower?
Well, at least you'll save $$ on the wedding gift!
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| Posted 5/16/07 1:46 PM |
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
That is so rude!!! But hey more $ for you!
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
rude
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
I think rude but more than rude I think poor planners.
Don't you have a drafted list together before STDs go out??
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
RUDE! But like others say... Your better off!
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eroxgirl
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
That is EXACTLY why I sent STDs to my OOT family, my bridal party and DH's immediate family ONLY. I had a small venue and I knew I'd have to cut people and I just didn't want to take that chance.
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
OMG SOOOOOOOOO RUDE!!!!!!
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
I think it's very RUDE.... I have a question why is there more people going on the grooms side of the family and not the brides? i think it should be even amount people on both sides of the family or if they did not want to have cousin's and kids at the wedding they should have said so in the first place and cut out on both sides of the family. Again with my answer VERY RUDE!!!
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ml110
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by luvsbob4603
I think it's very RUDE.... I have a question why is there more people going on the grooms side of the family and not the brides. i think it should be even or if they did not want to have cousin's and kids at the wedding they should have said so in the first place. Again with my answer VERY RUDE!!!
yeah... we thought that was weird, too... but then again, like i said, they are from WAAAAY out in PA, and the invitation had cinderella on it and said " join us for an enchanted evening", like its a prom or something... lol, so we're probably better off. they also included their registry cards with the wedding invite, which i beleive is another etiquette "don't" lol
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by Christine
That's very rude but to be honest I would be relieved if I were in your shoes. They should have at least had the courtesy to let people know about the change of plans.
I agree!
But yeah- I would be happy to be "off the hook" about going all the way to PA! 
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DaniJude
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
the more i think about this- the more i'm like wow that was really bad B/C the point of an STD is to have people keep the wedding date 'in mind' and is popular around Holidays or during the Summer. So, what if you didn't plan a vacation for that weekend b/c you thought you had their wedding to go to? Terrible! 
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Woah, that's crazy!
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june262004
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Id call and ask her if she sent out the invites cause you didn't get yours yet 
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Re: so i guess we're NOT going to a wedding in july...
Posted by SweetestOfPeas
very rude
eta: I wouldn't even send a card! I would be really p*ssed
I say give her a taste of her own medicine and send a card with a note that says gift to follow. 
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