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ESM980
LIF Infant
Member since 6/06 251 total posts
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Eleanor
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so i know the sex of my baby......
I had a sono at 16 weeks yesterday and they said I will be having........
my 4th 
I was upset a little (and I know this is not a popular responsonce, I am aware that a lot of people can't even have one child and I am blessed to have 4 healhy ones) This was my last shot at a girl. So I guess it just wasn't meant to be. Oh well, I am sure once I will be fine. I am nt telling anyone (except you girls, lol) for 2 reasons, #1 I really don't want to hear how much this s*cks , and #2 I know I really don't want to hear all the people who will be so happy because the "told me so" In the end, I of course, am happy to be having another baby, whtever the sex may be.... but its a weird feeling to know I will never have a dd.... oh well...
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Posted 9/24/08 7:33 AM  |
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mcl916
my two loves
Member since 10/06 5133 total posts
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Megan
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
Awwww! Well at least you know what you are in for as far as boys go.  You're going to be one BUSY mamma with all those boys 
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| Posted 9/24/08 7:53 AM |
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MommyAgain
lovemygermies
Member since 6/08 3195 total posts
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
awww, i wont give you the "youre lucky to have them" speech, cause i can tell you already know you are!! But sometimes things are just written in the stars ;)
Dont let anyone make you feel bad, for feeling alil bad...its good you can come here and vent!!
tkae care, and congratulations on the blessing of your baby :)
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| Posted 9/24/08 7:55 AM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!
Member since 6/06 13519 total posts
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Kerry
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
congrats. I can totally understand where you are coming from.
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| Posted 9/24/08 7:58 AM |
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Katie111806
Team Pink!
Member since 12/06 5349 total posts
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Katie
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
I am so sorry you are feeling this way. As someone who was very surprised to be having a boy for my first and dealt with initial disappointment bc I was so surprised, I can kind of relate to how you feel. I know once that little man is in your arms you will feel differently. Sending you lots of hugs. You will be the center of those little boys world!
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| Posted 9/24/08 8:12 AM |
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Violet
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Member since 7/06 1860 total posts
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Mama :)
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
Congrats on the !
I think what you are feeling is totally understandable, I can't say that if I am in your shoes, I won't feel a teeny bit disappointed, too. But that doesn't mean you'll love your baby any less. Don't let anyone make you feel bad.
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| Posted 9/24/08 8:30 AM |
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WilliesWife
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/07 644 total posts
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Dena
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
Posted by Katie111806
I am so sorry you are feeling this way. As someone who was very surprised to be having a boy for my first and dealt with initial disappointment bc I was so surprised, I can kind of relate to how you feel. I know once that little man is in your arms you will feel differently. Sending you lots of hugs. You will be the center of those little boys world!
I feel this way too......so don't let anyone feel bad about it!! We understand what you are going though......
My SIL went through the same thing but she ended up with 4 girls. She and her husband were disappointed that there was no more chances for a boy not that they were having another girl at all........
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| Posted 9/24/08 8:51 AM |
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angnick
Life is So Wonderful!
Member since 8/06 6663 total posts
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Angela
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
It is ok to feel this way.
I think I would feel the same.
Dont worry though- hopefully you will be blessed with 4 daughters in law!
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| Posted 9/24/08 9:15 AM |
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MsMBV
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Member since 5/05 28602 total posts
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Me
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
Posted by angnick
It is ok to feel this way.
I think I would feel the same.
Dont worry though- hopefully you will be blessed with 4 daughters in law!
I can relate too. The closer I get to my Level II the more I am convinced I am having a  Since this is our last shot too, I am not sure how I will react.
Of course we all want healthy children, that is not even a question.
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| Posted 9/24/08 9:16 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: so i know the sex of my baby......
Posted by angnick
It is ok to feel this way.
I think I would feel the same.
Dont worry though- hopefully you will be blessed with 4 daughters in law!
I totally agree.
MIL has two boys. She says that she is so happy she has wonderful DILs.
Of course she wanted a girl to go along with her boy but I'm glad she had another boy!
Look at it that way.
More good men in the world raised by a wonderful mother. Your boys will love and cherish you always.
Congrats!
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| Posted 9/24/08 9:18 AM |
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