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So sad about stopping BFing

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babymakes3
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So sad about stopping BFing

DD is 6.5 months. I am back in the office full-time now and it's just too hard to pump during the day. (My office is not pump-friendly at all.)

My frozen supply was used up long ago and we started FF during the day and BFing 3x a day a month ago. This week, we are down to BFing once a day, her first feeding. I am getting more and more emotional knowing that end is just days away.

Any advice?

Posted 7/11/07 1:02 PM
 
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Lucky
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

No advice but I wanted to congratulate you on 6.5 great months that you were able to BF DD! What a wonderful gift you have given her!!!!
I'm sure you will replace the times that you would BF with other ways of bonding with DD.

Posted 7/11/07 1:07 PM
 

Dragonfly75
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

No advice -- just hugs. I can imagine it would be hard to stop -- it's terrible that your work environment makes pumping difficult. At least you were able to breastfeed for 6 months, though. That's great.

Some moms are able to continue to breastfeed at night and give formula while they're away -- maybe that will work for you.

Posted 7/11/07 1:09 PM
 

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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

Posted by Dragonfly75

No advice -- just hugs. I can imagine it would be hard to stop -- it's terrible that your work environment makes pumping difficult. At least you were able to breastfeed for 6 months, though. That's great.

Some moms are able to continue to breastfeed at night and give formula while they're away -- maybe that will work for you.



It is great that you have gone as long as you have Chat Icon
I BF in the mornings and at night for about 5 months. DS decided at about 9 months that he was ready to stop. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/07 1:32 PM
 

Stacey1403
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

I BF Damien for once a day for almost a year. When he was transitioned to milk during the day and I would BF him at night. If you are not ready to give it up you could just do it at night time. Your BB's will get used to itChat Icon

Posted 7/11/07 1:36 PM
 

babymakes3
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

Thanks Ladies!

I'll keep doing it once a day for as long as I can. I'm not ready to give up entirely.

Work does suck. They promised me an empty office to pump in but now it's being used all the time. I think lactation rooms should be a mandatory by law.

Posted 7/11/07 1:44 PM
 

Dragonfly75
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

Posted by babymakes3

Thanks Ladies!

I'll keep doing it once a day for as long as I can. I'm not ready to give up entirely.

Work does suck. They promised me an empty office to pump in but now it's being used all the time. I think lactation rooms should be a mandatory by law.



I think there is actually some legislation like this being discussed. I agree. I feel so super lucky to have an office where I can close the door to pump 3 times a day, but not everyone's job is like that and I really feel for mommies (and their babies) who don't have a suitable place to pump.

Posted 7/11/07 2:36 PM
 

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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

No advice since we are going through the same thing at 6 months. She always supplemented and it got to be more and more formula. Suddenly, she wouldn't even take pumped breast milk anymoreChat Icon I am really sad too- we are down to once or twice a day and not for long since I really don't have any milk left.

So many Chat Icon to you- I know how hard it is. I just keep thinking, that now I can TTC for #2.Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/07 4:16 PM
 

babymakes3
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

Posted by CkGm

No advice since we are going through the same thing at 6 months. She always supplemented and it got to be more and more formula. Suddenly, she wouldn't even take pumped breast milk anymoreChat Icon I am really sad too- we are down to once or twice a day and not for long since I really don't have any milk left.

So many Chat Icon to you- I know how hard it is. I just keep thinking, that now I can TTC for #2.Chat Icon



I actually called my doctor the other day to see if I should go up to the regular pill. We won't be TTC #2 for some time.... having a small apartment with a dog and baby keeps us from getting the itch for #2. Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/07 4:42 PM
 

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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

Chat Icon Chat Icon You did great!! 6.5 months is a long time, and you did such a good thing for your baby, you shouldn't be upset about stopping!Chat Icon

Message edited 7/11/2007 4:44:39 PM.

Posted 7/11/07 4:44 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: So sad about stopping BFing

Posted by babymakes3

Posted by CkGm

No advice since we are going through the same thing at 6 months. She always supplemented and it got to be more and more formula. Suddenly, she wouldn't even take pumped breast milk anymoreChat Icon I am really sad too- we are down to once or twice a day and not for long since I really don't have any milk left.

So many Chat Icon to you- I know how hard it is. I just keep thinking, that now I can TTC for #2.Chat Icon



I actually called my doctor the other day to see if I should go up to the regular pill. We won't be TTC #2 for some time.... having a small apartment with a dog and baby keeps us from getting the itch for #2. Chat Icon



I am sure I am quite a bit older than you. I will be 38 in Dec so its now or never. Your time will come too.Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/07 5:50 PM
 
 

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