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So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

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VirginiaDeb
Don't eat me, hippo!

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Deb

So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

If your married, and your tired and not feeling well that everyone assumes that you're pregnant?!?!?!?!

When, in all actually, I'm pretty sure it's my job that's making me so stressed out that I'm getting sick to my stomach.

I don't know how many times I told people yesterday that NO I wasn't pregnant, that I just didn't feel well. UGH!

Vent over.

Posted 10/4/07 7:00 AM
 
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Geraldine
Lovin Life........

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Geraldine

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

so true so true........... feel better Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/07 7:05 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

Member since 10/05

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Name:
Jesss, duh.

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

I get the same thing!! People just expect you to start working on the next step of life after the "I Do's"

And what is even worse is what if you are trying and having a difficult time. Last thing you need is someone nosey raining on your parade.

Hope you feel better soon! Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/07 7:27 AM
 

GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06

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Name:
Shawn

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

You're pregnant? Congrats!!!!



J/K.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

It happens all the time. When you're single, it's "When are you going to find a nice <man or woman>" When you are dating seriously, it's "When are you two getting married?". On the wedding day, it's "So, when are you planning on having kids?" A year after the first kid, it's "When are you having another one?"

It never ends..... Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/07 7:56 AM
 

Ginger123
Sooo happy

Member since 8/07

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dana

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

I am in the same boat and they are making me think i am !!! i even went to the gyno tuesday and asked them to take blood work...they are making me crazy!!!!

Message edited 10/4/2007 8:00:06 AM.

Posted 10/4/07 7:59 AM
 

JennZ
MY LIFE!!

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Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

YES!!! we are TTc and God forbid I should mention ANYTHING, I get "OMG it could be you are PG" It is very annoying. People over anaylize everything.

Posted 10/4/07 8:03 AM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

Member since 7/05

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Genna

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

People can be very inappropriate...feel better!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/4/07 8:36 AM
 

seank80
Don't Taze My Dog Bro!!

Member since 5/07

2240 total posts

Name:
Sean

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

I hate when people ask me that. I mean so I gained a little weight. j/k because it's physically impossible for me to get those comments. HAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAH

Posted 10/4/07 9:20 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

Posted by seank80

I hate when people ask me that. I mean so I gained a little weight. j/k because it's physically impossible for me to get those comments. HAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAH

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Posted 10/4/07 9:20 AM
 

JessieQ
Rest in Peace baby Rogan

Member since 6/07

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Name:
Jessica

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

It drives me crazy when that happens! It happened a lot before I got PG with my DD, and as soon as my DD was like a year old it's started happening again. My aunt told me outright that she expected me to announce we were pregnant when she saw us a few months ago, and wouldn't let up so I had to literally pull my BC pills out of my purse to get her to stop!

I know, if I rationally think about it, if someone says something they're probably someone who cares about us and is naturally excited that we could be pregnant. And I know at least one friend who said she is trying right now, so I have been waiting for her to give me any news. But first of all she told me she was trying, and second of all I still would NEVER ask her outright if she was pregnant- she would tell me when she was ready- what if she was having problems getting PG and I upset her? Or what if she was PG but she hadn't told her parents or someone else she wanted to tell first?

Posted 10/4/07 9:30 AM
 

JessieQ
Rest in Peace baby Rogan

Member since 6/07

1122 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: So, seriously... can somebody tell me why...

Posted by seank80

I hate when people ask me that. I mean so I gained a little weight. j/k because it's physically impossible for me to get those comments. HAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAH

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Posted 10/4/07 9:30 AM
 
 

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