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BaroqueMama
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SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

She said I've gotten quite ugly!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon EXCUSE ME?!?!?!? EVERYONE'S mouth dropped wide open when she said this to me, and her response was, "What? They do say a girl steals your beauty!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon As if I'm not feeling crappy enough about myself lately.

Posted 12/26/05 12:03 PM
 
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Marcie
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Oh no - they didn't!!

That is mean!!!!!!

Posted 12/26/05 12:06 PM
 

Corinne
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

rach your family beat me to it i was going to tell u the other night you were looking beautilessChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:07 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Well, to make it worse, she said to everyone after that, "Well, you may not see it now, but this time next year, you'll look back and say, WOW! She really didn't look so good!"Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:07 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Posted by Corinne

rach your family beat me to it i was going to tell u the other night you were looking beautilessChat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Shut up, preggo! If I'm ugly, so are YOU!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:07 PM
 

Corinne
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

im not afraid to admit it!!!

Posted 12/26/05 12:08 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Posted by Corinne

im not afraid to admit it!!!



Oh stop, you're gorgeous! Chat Icon And you STILL have a pretty belly!Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:09 PM
 

AndreaLMT
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

That is so rude.Chat Icon
First of all, I'm sure you look just as beautiful as always, and secondly, you should have said to her
"Yeah, well I'm pregnant, what's YOUR excuse?!"Chat Icon

I had a similar comment like this from a client a while back...The NERVE! Just try not to let it get to you.Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:09 PM
 

Corinne
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

im uploading the belly shots now so i can post its been awhile

Posted 12/26/05 12:10 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Posted by AndreaLMT

That is so rude.Chat Icon
First of all, I'm sure you look just as beautiful as always, and secondly, you should have said to her
"Yeah, well I'm pregnant, what's YOUR excuse?!"Chat Icon

I had a similar comment like this from a client a while back...The NERVE! Just try not to let it get to you.Chat Icon



Ok, to make it funny, then she was telling JT how she's a crossing guard at a high school, and she knows the boys consider her a MILF. Um, ok, not with that fat azz!

Posted 12/26/05 12:12 PM
 

Corinne
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

some people feel they need to insult others to make themselves feel better. rach dont bat an eye she sounds like a real prize.

Posted 12/26/05 12:21 PM
 

Scotty-CassidysMom
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon How RUDE!!! Some people just don't know when to keep their mouths shut! Apparently she never learned "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all".I'm sure you are as beautiful as alwaysChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:32 PM
 

NovemberSue
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Wow, that is INCREDIBLY RUDE!

I can't believe the nerve of someone to say that. I'm sure you look great!

Posted 12/26/05 12:38 PM
 

CheeChee
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

How friggin RUDE!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon
Some people just dont know when to keep their mouths shut!! Dont listen to her, i'm sure you look fantastic! .Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 12:53 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

OMG Rach...you should have smacked her and blamed it on the hormonesChat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 2:14 PM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

OMG!! First that is such a bunch of BS!! I have not changed ONE bit being PG with a girl. And you're beautiful Rachel!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 2:52 PM
 

sunny
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Posted by prncssrachel

She said I've gotten quite ugly!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon EXCUSE ME?!?!?!? EVERYONE'S mouth dropped wide open when she said this to me, and her response was, "What? They do say a girl steals your beauty!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon As if I'm not feeling crappy enough about myself lately.



Chat Icon Chat Icon I got this too! More than once! I was told "you can tell you are having a girl, they say they **** the beauty out of you". People are so rude.

I did have a girl, though.

Posted 12/26/05 3:39 PM
 

trnity44
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

omg- thats terrible!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/05 3:42 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Posted by prncssrachel

She said I've gotten quite ugly!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon EXCUSE ME?!?!?!? EVERYONE'S mouth dropped wide open when she said this to me, and her response was, "What? They do say a girl steals your beauty!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon As if I'm not feeling crappy enough about myself lately.




I read this before. It is a myth. I can't believe someone would every say such a thing !!!!!!!!!!!!!
The nerve of people.

Here's a list I found:

* The Spicy Food Fraud
Spicy food will bring on labor. "For the most part, pregnant women can eat just about anything, but there are certain foods that we tell them to look out for, or to try and avoid," says Dr. Stone. Those include very soft cheeses, unpasteurized cheeses and raw-milk cheese. Though rare, they may contain a bacteria called lysteria that has been associated with miscarriage or pre-term labor.

* The Fetal Heart Rate Fallacy
If your baby's heart is low, you're carrying a boy. If it's high, it's a girl.

* The You-Can't-Be-Too Careful Yarn
If a pregnant woman raises her hands above her head, she'll choke her baby.

* The Steamy Sex Superstition
Making mad, passionate love will induce labor. "Sex is not going to cause you to go into labor, but we tell people to go ahead anyway," says Dr. Stone. "It's worth trying."

* The Old Heartburn Harangue
If a pregnant woman has frequent heartburn, her baby will have a full head of hair.

* The Sty-in-the-Eye-Lie
Those who deny a pregnant woman the food she craves will get a sty in their eye.

* The Ugly Stick Trick
If a pregnant woman sees something ugly or horrible, her baby will be ugly. "That one's wrong on two counts — one is there's no scientific evidence, but number two is that there's no such thing as an ugly baby," says Dr. Eddleman.

* The Old Java Jive
A baby born with light brown birthmarks (known as cafe au lait spots), the mother drank too much coffee or had unfulfilled cravings during her pregnancy. Again, a myth!

* The Gender Bender
If a pregnant woman's face breaks out, she is carrying a girl who will steal all of her mother's beauty. Says Dr. Stone: "The thing about it is that it's so chauvinistic — why is it that a girl's going to steal her mother's beauty? — anyway, it's not true, it's ridiculous.

* The Poor Complexion Connection
A woman who carries wide, is having a girl. A woman who carried forward, is having a boy. "It's a common myth, but it's not true," says Dr. Eddleman.

Posted 12/26/05 8:32 PM
 

beachgirl13
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

Chat Icon that is horrible!

Posted 12/26/05 10:48 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

That is so rude!!!!!!

Posted 12/27/05 12:21 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

I just don't understand why people think it's ok to say things that are just horrible just because your pregnant! They would NEVER dare to say that to someone who isn't pregnant! That's an awful thing to say... I'm sorry... I got plenty of those comments while I was pregnant, more so the "wow, you're getting plump/fat/heavy" comments Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon And it doesn't end there! 8 weeks after I delivered I went into work to show off the baby... one of the secretaries came up to me, slapped me on my hip and said, "I'm going to start calling you hip-py now!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/27/05 8:59 AM
 

mishy
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

How rude... Do people think???

Posted 12/27/05 9:01 AM
 

BrunetteMom
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

You should have asked her if she was pregnant then. how rude.

Posted 12/27/05 12:29 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: SO, someone in my mom's family is CONVINCED I'm having a girl because...

That is so incredibly rude - I would of said something rude back to her!

Its amazing the comments a pregnant women receives - its like we are from another planet.

Just ignore her..Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/27/05 5:41 PM
 
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