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Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
So my soon-to-be-ex H basically ruined my mothers day by being a PITA and just not doing anything even from my son.
I asked him what he wanted for father's day (DS is only 16 months old) - he said nothing.
THat doesn't really sit well with me b/c he is an okay dad and its still fathers day. He takes DS to the beach and that is their plan for fathers day.
Last time he bought a cheap pail/shovel and it broke. I was in Target to day and got a shovel kit for the beach.
This way I acknowledge the day, and still give my son something.
TIA,
Confused mother.
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Posted 6/18/09 9:01 PM  |
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PrincessP
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
I kinda like your "activity" idea. Its given something to dad with dc involved. There is no way I would buy him anything if he did nothing for me -thats just me.
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| Posted 6/18/09 9:04 PM |
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Metsmomma
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
you did the right thing!!! perfect!!!!
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| Posted 6/18/09 9:09 PM |
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Smalls72
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
You are definitely the bigger person by doing what you did. 
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| Posted 6/19/09 7:36 AM |
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mamabear
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
You definitely did. It can never be wrong to make your son happy.
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| Posted 6/19/09 9:01 AM |
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wannabemom
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
you're being the bigger person... I'm sure your child will be grateful of this years from now 
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| Posted 6/19/09 9:11 AM |
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Laura-DDS
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Laura
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
I think that is nice of you. I don't know if I would personally get HIM something if he couldn't even help you enjoy your own day- the MOST I would go is a card (from DS) with a nice picture of DS (not framed or anything) but that is really it and that is pushing it but if it makes you feel better its a gesture without being too much.
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| Posted 6/19/09 9:26 AM |
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lovemy2boys
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
I would not be doing anything for him, its just another day
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| Posted 6/19/09 9:47 AM |
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RonniesMommy
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
You did the right thing 
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| Posted 6/19/09 10:34 AM |
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wowcoulditbe
wow, pic is already 1 yr old!!
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Re: Someone tell me I did the right thing - Fathers Day Related
Posted by Smalls72
You are definitely the bigger person by doing what you did.
so true....good for you!
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| Posted 6/19/09 12:01 PM |
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