sooo yeah im gonna ask for some hug here for MY FAMILY! **lil update**
DH grandfather passed away. My boys Great-Grandfather. Yes, as some of you know it was a long time coming but it was sudden for today. My MIL lost her only parent. She lost her mom 20 yrs ago xmas now her father easter. She only has a brother surviing. We joke and smile we look at as as if they wanted to be remembered forever. She left on JESUS's birthday and he left on JESUS's death. Please help me be strong for my DH, SIL's and mostly my MIL. She is going through this very hard. I cant really go into details but this was a bad situation. I really want to be there for MY FAMILY and i never delt with this before. (yes i have had people pass) but i have never had to be the "strong" one.
Thank You all, Thank you for whomever took the time to read this. Thank you!!!!!!
thank you all again Aeriell and the Twins
*** well we had the wake yesterday. the boys commented on "pa" sleeping, and the fact that he was very hot! (i thought that part was a lil funny)
when we left the boys went up to "pa" and told him they loved him and goodnight. they then promptly turned to my MIL and said "shhhh pa is sleeping" which of course made her smile and cry.
thank you all for being there and sharing some extra hugs... the funeral is today.
