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Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

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AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses

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Maxine

Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

This is the PERFECT house for us and in the EXACT location I wanted ( I mean down to the block!!) I fell in love with it and DH says there is no way we can afford it right now.

I am heartbroken and actually cried all night about it Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/05 1:25 AM
 
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Disneygirl
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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

I know how you feel! Chat Icon One of the 1st houses we saw I fell in love with but it was over our budget. I keep checking up on it to see if it sold yet which I am only torturing myself because we still can't afford it. Chat Icon
I think when it finally does sell I will be completely heartbroken because a little piece of me is still holding out on hope that just maybe.... Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/05 4:48 AM
 

ckdk
My girls

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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

I know how you feel, we looked at a few out of our price range and then I vowed NOT to look at anything that we couldn't afford b/c you do tend to fall in love with what you can't have. Don't torture yourself!!

Posted 8/15/05 9:23 AM
 

cjb88
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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

Posted by ckdk

I know how you feel, we looked at a few out of our price range and then I vowed NOT to look at anything that we couldn't afford b/c you do tend to fall in love with what you can't have. Don't torture yourself!!



same thing happened with us!! it is so upseting!

Posted 8/15/05 9:52 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

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Posted 8/15/05 10:12 AM
 

raken40
soooo in love:)

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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

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Posted 8/15/05 10:24 AM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

I am going thru the same thing right now, we saw a house that was just phenominal and so perfect for us .. but no matter how much we worked the numbers, it was just not in the cards for us

You'll FIND that house, its frustrating but you will find itChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/05 10:31 AM
 

AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses

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Maxine

Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

Thanks everyone!!! Chat Icon
DH said he will do everything in his powers to see if we can do it... but the mortgage payments would kill us and I can not live like that. I feel much better today but still sad!

I would post a pic but I think I would just get upset all over again.

Posted 8/15/05 10:34 AM
 

Bebalina
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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

Maxine,

I know how frustrating it is.... DH and I went thru that. and although the house we're getting is ridiculously priced, we can do it only because its in qns with low taxes, and not a long island home with high taxes.

Chin up...all will work out.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/15/2005 11:17:14 AM.

Posted 8/15/05 11:05 AM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

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Posted 8/15/05 11:18 AM
 

Kathy116
Hey baby!

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me

Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

I've had my moments of feeling like that as well....after feeling bad, I'd just think to myself, "maybe we can't do it now, but someday I will have that home (I'm giving myself 10 years)".

Posted 8/15/05 4:58 PM
 

neenie

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Posted 8/15/05 6:29 PM
 

raken40
soooo in love:)

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Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

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Posted 8/15/05 8:12 PM
 

MommyofG
just the girls

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Janice

Re: Soooooo depressed and need hugs!! I fell in LOVE with a house we cant afford

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Im sure this is how all first time buyers or trying to buy feel. Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/05 8:49 PM
 
 

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