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I call my In-laws...

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Mr. and Mrs. So-and-So 6 6.19%
by their first names 48 49.48%
mom and dad 20 20.62%
other (explain) 23 23.71%
 

Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

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saraH
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

mom and dad. as much as i b!tch about them, they are good to us.

Posted 8/23/07 8:07 AM
 

Phyl
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

History ! They never spoke to me or their grand kids again after the divorce Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/07 8:12 AM
 

LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

Everyone calls my FIL Papa Ron, and my step MIL is WSM...stands for wicked step mother Chat Icon She loves it!!

Posted 8/23/07 8:13 AM
 

Geraldine
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

Behind their backs.....or to their faces? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/07 8:21 AM
 

angnick
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Angela

Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

i dont call them anything!

Posted 8/23/07 8:23 AM
 

LIgrlatheart
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christi

Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

Posted by Jen2999

I am in the "don't call them anything stage" HAHA

MIL will call herself mom to me, like when she calls the house and stuff.




same with me i never address them with a name... she tries to call herself mom to me though haha

Posted 8/23/07 8:29 AM
 

BikerGrl
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

Because the referred to themselves as "Mom & Dad" it's what I sort of call them. Mostly though I try to just look at them when I want to talk to one.

I would prefer their first names though.

I think if I do go back to speaking to them ( as it's been almost 6 weeks & I have goven the silent treatment due to family issues) I will call them by their first names.

Posted 8/23/07 8:33 AM
 

VickiC
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

Posted by Sweets13

mom and dad.....
ETA: we are both very close with our parents and love them very much. In our family/culture, NOT calling the inlaws mom/dad is disrespectful.....



Ditto this. I called my IL's Mom & Dad before we were married - it was just easier to get their attention and such. It took my husband a little while to get used to calling my parents Mom & Dad, but he's fine with it. If he had a problem with it, he would have let me know. Our parents have no problem with either of us calling the other Mom & Dad.

We are both very lucky in that both sets of parents treat us like another son/daughter.

Posted 8/23/07 8:39 AM
 

TreAnt427
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I call them Mom and Dad - only b/c MIL told me too and very close friends of the family also call them Mom and Dad. So it would have been wired if I was the only calling them by their first names.

DH calls my parents by their first names

Posted 8/23/07 8:50 AM
 

joenick
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

MIL- deceased, but used to call her Mom. Older son called her Grandma K.
FIL- Dad. Kids call him Big Papa. Chat Icon

My DH calls my parents Mom and Dad.

Posted 8/23/07 8:52 AM
 

JMC1014
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I call them by their first names if I have to say their name, otherwise I avoid it and just say Hi!

Posted 8/23/07 9:01 AM
 

JodiBabe
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I answered Mom & Dad but I really call them Mum & Pop

Posted 8/23/07 9:14 AM
 

bikramaddict
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

i call them by their first names.

Posted 8/23/07 9:24 AM
 

tann22
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)



I only have a MIL and I call her by
her first name.

Posted 8/23/07 9:49 AM
 

Bluepixie
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Laura

Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I don't call DH's mom anything. She's slowly gettin cut out of our lives.

DH's dad calls himself "Dad" on the phone, but I call him Frank..


My parents- DH calls "Mom and Dad". They told him he could and that's what it's been always.

Posted 8/23/07 9:56 AM
 

PotofLuck06
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

They told me to call them Mom and Dad. They didn't give me a choice.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/07 9:56 AM
 

seank80
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Sean

Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I wait for them to turn around and then speak to them. LOL I am in the akward stage. I have the problem saying Dad bc I lost my father when I was 15 years old. I could call my MIL by mom but I don't want to disrespect my FIL by not calling him Dad. I spoke to both of them abotu this and they understand it. So no hard feelings.

Posted 8/23/07 9:59 AM
 

SweetTooth
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I don't think I have ever addressed them, I just kind of start talking. But we don't see them too often. I would call them by first name if I did though.
I think they want me to call them mom and dad but I am not comfortable with that at all.
My husband calls my parents by their first names.

Posted 8/23/07 10:04 AM
 

usuk2004
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I call them by their first names.

Is it weird taht I actually would've liked to have inlaws that I could call Mom and Dad? Chat Icon The relationship is just not there. Maybe it's because my dad always referred to my mom's parents as Mom and Dad and I knew they meant a lot to him...

Posted 8/23/07 10:09 AM
 

nylisa
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

I call them Mom & Dad

DH calls my Dad, Dad

Posted 8/23/07 10:27 AM
 

alnem
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Emily

Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

nothing! i wait for them to look in my direction and then i start to talk! Chat Icon

sometimes i'll call them mom and dad but its very rare!

Posted 8/23/07 10:31 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

they refer to themselves as " mom and Dad"

I prefer to call them nothing- everything feels akward to me

Posted 8/23/07 10:33 AM
 

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Message edited 9/10/2011 11:20:20 AM.

Posted 8/23/07 10:48 AM
 

Preguntas
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

Posted by Jessica

My parents

Mario and Maria



This i sadorable, it's just so Rhald Dhal.
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I call them by their names.
It took awhile for me to decide on that, but when MIL calls, she says "It's Rosemary", so that seals the deal.
I call his grandmother Grandma, though.

Posted 8/23/07 10:52 AM
 

ml110
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Re: Spinoff to my post- what do you call your in-laws? (poll)

lol so far, i haven't really had to call them anything... i just kind of start talking to one or the other- LOL. but, if i do call them something, i use their first names. MIL will sign e-mails and cards " mom C" ( her first name starts with a C), but i'm just not comfortable calling anyone besides my real parents mom or dad. DH calls my parents by their first names, and they're cool with it.

Posted 8/23/07 10:54 AM
 
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